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rosaenaluin 65F
10133 posts
1/21/2024 8:20 am
You would think, i am going to travel world wide?


My brother in law is gone walk about, or, if you believe in it,
gone to heaven.

This week is the cremation, my sister asked me if i would come to her place, for some days.
Ofcourse i will.
I am already planning the bus route....,

You would think i am going to travel the world, but it is only in the backlands!
Of Holland!!
Whahaha.
My god!!

Going to see all those littlle villages again, the bus will stop at almost every tree in sight!
Whahahahha

Anyway, that part is covered.
Going to stay a few days, see how my sister is doing, holding on.....

The one thing, that bothers me, is, i cant ask friends to feed my stray cat, because they have to come into my house and maybe go roaming around,
seeing things, that are no good, for them.....

Because, well, they are nosy, ... want to know....
Because they cant figure me out.....

But, if they find out!?
They then get mad at me, for their nosyness....
( happened before)

being shocked about the bdsm particles they might find ( out) about....?
Sm art on the bedroom wall, and things like that.. whips hanging around....?!

Sighs...

So, finger crossed, the cat will survive and comes back, when i am back.....

rosaenaluin 65F
11049 posts
1/21/2024 8:25 am

My brother in law is still in their house....

That is something i will not enjoy, at all....

He is getting a bit smelly... so my sister told me.....
horror


drmgirl622 68F  
26137 posts
1/21/2024 9:00 am

I don't know if I could do the "still in the house".......


rosaenaluin 65F
11049 posts
1/21/2024 9:16 am

drmgirl,
Me neither, but thats the case!
Breath, but not too deep! please! and continue.....


brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
1/21/2024 10:09 am

...still in the house??? OMG😳


pzkw 63M  
1295 posts
1/21/2024 10:18 am

Good heavens! Doesn't Dutch law mandate that a body has to be taken to a funeral home, regardless if the body is to be buried or cremated?


lovingcaring44 64F

1/21/2024 10:20 am

brandy,
Yeah...... way too long, even while he is put 'on ice'.......
material for nightmares! for sure!


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4193 posts
1/21/2024 10:48 am

Egads smelly good luck Rosa be safe I’m sure the cat will be ok!


ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
1/21/2024 11:10 am

It is a bit strange, here they take the deceased straight away from home so the family can arrange for the funeral/cremation, accept guests for condolences, etc...

I hope you will manage, dear Rosa... try to enjoy the sightseeing while on the bus and just focus on your sister while there... it will pass... everything does...


rosaenaluin 65F
11049 posts
1/21/2024 12:36 pm

pzkw,
Yeah, i agree,
Holland hss other rules...
I will ask if the funeral companie cant come collect him, like NOW!!
in holland you can stay above ground, for 5 days... on ice.... if needed...


rosaenaluin 65F
11049 posts
1/21/2024 12:45 pm

ExName,
I take essence with me, herbal oils to burn... too

See if my sister can call the company, to come and collect her husband...

I was opposed to bringing her husband into the house, because of their tiny, tiny house... i adviced to let him stay in a hospice, so my sister could have a place to go to, to unwind, cry, rest....
Now it was 24/7 care, stress, and no place to go to, to unwind... if possible...
Horrible.
He was a very selfish man...

and now this....brrr....

Yes, the bus ride wil be oke, going through very nice forest, too.❤💋
I will manage... i guess...🤷🙏


rosaenaluin 65F
11049 posts
1/21/2024 12:46 pm

bdsmDd,
Thank you, much appreciated,


DancingDom 74M
22601 posts
1/21/2024 3:05 pm

Enjoy the travel as much as possible. The cat will be fine, she/he fends for themselves a good part of the time anyway. set out some extra food in a place where it will not get wet, but the cat can find.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


jenny14 75T  
90377 posts
1/22/2024 12:47 am

rosa

I am sorry about your brother in law and hope your cat will be OK

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


rosaenaluin 65F
11049 posts
1/22/2024 1:32 am

DD,
Thank you, I will.
The thing is, there are a lot more, sort of, stray cats around here....
So, i might be feeding them, instead of "my" straycat?

i think i will put some food outside... anyway.....


rosaenaluin 65F
11049 posts
1/22/2024 1:33 am

jenny,
Thank you,
I hope too, fingers crossed!



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