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rosaenaluin 65F
10133 posts
1/31/2024 11:26 am
The funeral, actually, the cremation is over now,


I am back at my own place and soo terrible tired,
emotional overload and all that.....

so i wont be writing much, for now.....

All is well, as well can be, see the cirmunstances....
For my sister.....

And me.....

take care, keep warm and try to be happy... content.....

drmgirl622 68F  
26134 posts
1/31/2024 11:27 am

Please take care of yourself!


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
1/31/2024 11:27 am

There is sooo much to say,
and then again..
Maybe not.......


1benquick 71M
624 posts
1/31/2024 11:43 am

Well, you're a kind and gentle soul for helping your sister out in her time of need, Rosa! Loss of life is ALWAYS an emotional roller coaster, highs and lows, and very DRAINING. I.m sure your sister GREATLY appreciates the help/support you provided...Get some rest, and stay warm, too, and if, alter on, you want to talk about anything or everything, you know you have friends that will listen, Rosa...


rydermantel 69M
25527 posts
1/31/2024 12:16 pm

Friends care and understand. It is an emotional burden, but a necessary burden and burden might not be the correct word. When the moment of finality comes there must be a sense of release and loss combined. Your part is done and only you know all that you feel. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4187 posts
1/31/2024 12:40 pm

Rosa glad your back home safe!


Artschoolgrad 47M
8754 posts
1/31/2024 2:36 pm

sending good thoughts and wishes your way!


boh99 68M
3154 posts
1/31/2024 4:42 pm

thinking of you, we're all stronger than we know


GothEis 55M
3133 posts
1/31/2024 5:31 pm


DancingDom 74M
22598 posts
1/31/2024 8:06 pm

Do take care.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/1/2024 1:38 am

DD,
Thank you, i will,


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/1/2024 1:38 am

drmgirl,
I do the best i can....


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/1/2024 1:45 am

1benquick,
Thank you for your kind words.

I never ever trusted her husband, never liked him, and now my sister told me some stories.... that makes me sick to the stomach..

So much mental terror in a marriage.... shudders....

My gut feeling about him, came true after all.

Actually, i am mad as hell, about what he did, in the marriage... to my sister...
Or, what she let happen, maybe? .... fear is not a wise guide....


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/1/2024 1:46 am

ryder,
Thank you,


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/1/2024 1:47 am

bdsmDd,
Thanks, it was a nice busride home...


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/1/2024 1:48 am

Artschool,
Aah, that is just what i need right now! Thank you.


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/1/2024 1:48 am

boh,
That is sooo kind of you, to say,
Thank you.


brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
2/1/2024 2:41 am

My Condolences Rosa Dear❤️


likeithot19 62M
6084 posts
2/1/2024 4:17 am

Gut feelings are rarely wrong
You did great helping your sister! Maybe, with his passing, she will have a better time of it all, after the dust settles.Smile and know YOU did the right thing!


ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
2/1/2024 10:16 am

No matter how rational and sensible we are, we can never be prepared for things like this... You are a wonderful sister, a warm and gentle soul, Rosa... no wonder why you feel so tired and emotionally drained.... please take care of yourself now, Rosa... the worst has gone now. Sending you a tight warm hug, dear Rosa


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/2/2024 12:48 am

brandy,

I knów, it is not something people suppose to say,

i am glad he is gone, you dont have to give me your condolence, at all
Although i do understand why you do it, and Thank you, anyway!


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/2/2024 12:52 am

ikeithot,
Your message brings already a smile to my face,
Thank you for that!

My sister has to find her own way, of dealing with all the turmoil this new situation brings her...
She needs time to find her way.
Thank you,


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/2/2024 12:59 am

ExName,

Thank you!
A big warm hug to you, too!

Yes, they, my sister and her daughters, needed to do the dying ceremonie together, without others, or me, around.

They stood together, real close, in his last days....
Now, they all, on their own, have to find their way with dealing with this.
They need other people now, to help them, deal with this loss....

Cant help each other, that is way too close....


davinacambs 61T  
847 posts
2/6/2024 3:01 am

Thinking of you in your time of sadness.

D-J xx


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
2/8/2024 11:38 am

davina,
Aah, that is so sweet of you, to say, thank you, very much.



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