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Once, Pack mentality, I lived in a very rough neighbourhood.... My neighbour was a very polite, very decent young woman. She did not even know, how to curse.... or get angry.... Allways soft spoken and friendly, to all our neighbours. ( that was not smart, because the junk neighbours allways target her, for a break in) There where two , around, their mother "worked" at night... cough so, those run around on the street, always making havoc. trying to steal and break things. So, one day, they came in to my garden, i did not really had a fence.. You could just step over it, so low..... laughs.... So, they start eating out of my garden. I see them, come outside and they run. so i wait, untill they came back, wich they did. I told them, i dont mind if you eat out of my garden. That is alright, there is enough, but if you break something, i am going to break you! DO you understand! They recognised the language from home, so they did. After that, they were the best of friends with me, and i always told them, my strawberries are ripe, you can come and eat them. My very nice, very civilised next neighbour, was not able to talk in their language and they targetted her time and time again. She stood there, in her garden, crying, Those boys laughed at her. Untill i told them, i would kick them, to death, if they ever tried to pester her, again. That was the language they understood, respected even, how sad it may sound. I also tried to tell that neighbour, she needed to get a bit more rough, if she wanted to survive in this neighbourhood. Make her bounderies known, to those ... she was not able to learn... alas... You have to learn, or act that way, as if you know their language, and speak it! And mean it!! it is a pack mentallity. they will break you down and laugh while doing so... Meet them, on their level. That is how you survive, when confronted with such a pack mentallity. If you act like the alpha, they respect you. It is all soo very primitive. even when it is play acting, for you. I was never really angry with those boys, i recognised, they did not get any decent upbringing, you could not blame them.... In winter time, they walked the streets bare foot... no shoes.... So, what can i say...? It was a rough neighbourhood. |
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Although i did not have any problem, living in that street, i was happy, when i could move to a more civilised part of that town.
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Eat or get eaten... That is what I learned growing up poor... And sometimes standing up for yourself means breaking your foot off in somebody's a ss. Kinda amazing how folks seem to let you alone after that
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Pack mentality is more honest than the inequalities of a society that lacks ethics, morals, absolute truth or honesty. A society that chooses its leaders by their reputation rather than their accomplishments or declines them for their lack humility or empathy.
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You have to be stern so they understand you're serious......that was so good of you trying to help the neighbor!
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2/11/2024 8:43 am |
We are all animals.
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certain situations Rosa require certain kind of attitude & firm ground standing actions!
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When those kids grow up they will make a fine Wolfpack for sure..😵
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brandy, Hahaha, Yeah, maybe, Or maybe they outgrow that kind of behaviour, all depends on their character, attitude, mental strength.. and more
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subgirls, Thanks, Dont they say; when in rome, do as the romans do? 
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likematures, Well, you know? Its an attitude, i dont #do# anything, I am. People, even the lowest of the lowest, notice that...
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uncommon1, Ooh, i totally agree with you. They might be rough, but, in their own way, they are deadly serious and honest. You know what you get. Thank you,
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drmgirl, Thank you, 🙏😊😘
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Domfor, You really think so?
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bdsmDd, They do, indeed. 🙏😊
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a well-told tale with a great lesson!
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Artschool, 😊, thank you
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