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rosaenaluin 65F
10163 posts
5/9/2024 2:20 pm
Hello, again


Hi there,
I am back
Have to digest a hell of a lot...

Wonder if my sister is ever able to cope with all this mental abuse...
After 50 years of a horrible "marriage"/ abusive... what ever...

Being made sooo terrible dependent on him, have to ask permission for everything...not getting his permission....sighs...

So sad! So much suffering....

I go work in my garden, to set my mind at ease...

Take care, 🙏🤗

DancingDom 74M
22610 posts
5/9/2024 2:21 pm

You are only responsible for your own sanity.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


rosaenaluin 65F
11073 posts
5/9/2024 2:21 pm

Take care, 🧚‍♀️👍😚😊🙏🌸


rosaenaluin 65F
11073 posts
5/9/2024 2:24 pm

DD,
I am in shock, about how much she did let him run her life and lack of, happiness...
Sanity, being one part of that....


bimom4taboo 54F
2115 posts
5/9/2024 3:28 pm

first of all im a sub. all the time a slave sometimes. so i think i can feel for her and you somewhat. she is family and i feel very strongly to help anyone in my family. but first that person must want help you cam never tell her she needs it. if she does then you have to think of way to do so. not easy for sure. if not just try and stay way from her. or you will crack up yourself. cry and pray for her thats all you can do take care


rosaenaluin 65F
11073 posts
5/9/2024 11:35 pm

bimom4taboo,
Thank you, for your advice,

I knów, i am not a therapiste, im a "just" her sister.
She gets proffessional help.....

We have the same very violent childhood background, in wich she re-acted totally different then i did, in those extreem violent scenes....
Her reaction was 120 % opposite mine...

And i believe that made her an easy "victim" for this man....
Most probably did they both recognised some same sort of void in each other...
emotionally... mentally.

Because that is what happens, when you dont handle your childhood drama/ abuse, neglet, emotionally or physical....
So you keep getting into the same bad situations, time and time again,
unless you handle and recognise your patterns in this....

you pass it along to your sibblings.... and so on... and on...
She was not the only one, who was emotionally abused, her children were victim, too
Struggle with mental issues too...
Whát a mess!


brandygirasol 55T
9437 posts
5/10/2024 3:55 am

Welcome Back Rosa Dear ❤️HUGS❤️


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4214 posts
5/10/2024 5:47 am

glad you’re back Rosa sounds like she was submissive & didn’t know it!


1benquick 71M
638 posts
5/10/2024 6:22 am

Glad to see you back on the BLOGS, Rosa! So SORRY your sister has had to experience all of that and is still suffering...HUGS &


1benquick 71M
638 posts
5/10/2024 6:25 am

Glad to see you back on the BLOGS, Rosa! So SORRY your sister has had to experience all of that and is still suffering...HUGS &
By the way, belated HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Rosa!!!


drmgirl622 68F  
26159 posts
5/10/2024 6:43 am

So happy you're back home to your sanctuary. It's had to watch friends and loved ones in pain.


rosaenaluin 65F
11073 posts
5/10/2024 1:24 pm

drmgirl,
Thank you, yes it is!
Especially when there is nothing you/ i can do, about it....


rosaenaluin 65F
11073 posts
5/10/2024 1:25 pm

brandy,
Thank you,
Hugs right back at ya!


rosaenaluin 65F
11073 posts
5/10/2024 1:27 pm

bdsmDd,
Yeah, well, being docile is not the same as being submissive, dont you think?
She was very, very docile....


rosaenaluin 65F
11073 posts
5/10/2024 1:28 pm

1benqick,
thank you,
Yes, she is still suffering under his bully behaviour, even while he is dead....


rosaenaluin 65F
11073 posts
5/10/2024 1:30 pm

1benquick,
Ooh, thank you, i feel a birthday girl, again!!



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