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jennalovesit 35F
0 posts
10/14/2018 9:35 am
My love for bondage and sex


Hello my kinky friends.

I have posted so many serious things lately, i thought i would write a few lines about sex and bondage, my favorite kink.

I was raised in a Catholic household with traditional values of right and wrong. Sex was wrong and something you only did for procreation purposes and of course only after you wedding night. However, how could something that feels so good be so bad?

I was a naughty girl when i was young. I had sex with a girl friend first and sex with a much older man later on. I always felt guilty about it. It felt good but was a sin. As time went on, it became harder for me to relax and enjoy sex. Then a man I was with pinned my wrists over my head and i came so hard i nearly passed out.

In college i meet a man who introduced me to real bondage. I remember the first time, the complete panic i was in as he was tying me up. It was a very simple tie and i was very helpless. The sex was amazing and i didn't care what he did.

My brain finally connected that bondage set me free from my up bringing. It was not wrong any more because i did not have a choice. I am not sure if i am alone in the way i think or maybe its just normal in puritan america.

Stay kinky my friends.

Jen

PushingLimits789 54M
50 posts
10/14/2018 10:05 am

You definitely are not alone. I got into kinks in college, my gf at that time was a good girl but I noticed that a single sip of wine allowed her to relax and turn into a naughty slutty. It was that she could blame anything that happened on the wine. The same was true if I dominated her, commanded her to do something, or restrained her... it took away her responsibility and let her embrace her slutty desires. If I had more fully understood the dynamic at play at the time... college would have been even more fun.


JoysBoy 63M

10/14/2018 10:16 am

You are in very good company, absolutely. Both men and women wrestle with their old scripts about guilt, and find that letting go of control lets them get past the conflict.

Ah, if I knew in college what I know now... Wow.


verytallsub 43M

10/14/2018 10:16 am

When it comes to sex acts that are wrong the Catholic church are experts.


lwbtmboy 59M
660 posts
10/14/2018 10:44 am

i realized the mental comfort of sex with men when i was bound and helpless. Otherwise i did feel the guilt and shame.


niaff16 29M

10/14/2018 12:41 pm

not alone


DancingDom 74M
22601 posts
10/14/2018 3:25 pm

Free at last, Free at last..............thank badness we are free at last.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


shoor2pleaseUK 76M
50 posts
10/14/2018 10:41 pm

In my experience girls and women who have been raised to be good Catholics become insatiable when they discover the joy of sex and its kinks. Enjoy your break!



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