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Belledejour13 52F
258 posts
3/24/2020 3:52 pm
Why everybody needs a life Philosophy



Recently i was told to be less philosophical. So I started to reflect and here my thoughts about why everybody needs a life Philosophy.

What do you want out of life? Do you know?
A lot of people have trouble answering this question.

I truely believe that everyonel needs personal philosophy in life or we risk wandering, and responding to random stimuli and information with little or no impact on our long-term goals.

A philosophy of life is an overall vision or attitude toward life and the purpose of it. All human activities are limited by time, and death. Philosophy is not.
We fill up our time with distractions, never asking whether they are important, whether we really find them of value.
Without a personal philosophy, we end up living without direction

Purpose is life-changing.Nothing gives a person inner wholeness and peace like a distinct understanding of where they are going

I truely believe that in order to get somewhere, you need to define your end goal. That is essential. And the sooner you define it, the clearer everything else will become. A life without a purpose is a life without a destination. A life without a destination might be dangerous.
Finding the right direction in life is an existential problem for all of us.

What do we all look forward to in life?

Dostoyevsky said once:
“The mystery of human existence lies not in just staying alive, but in finding something to live for.”
Finding the right direction in life is something you create. You make the decision to act. To try. To do something. No matter how small.
At some point in life, you’re going to have to stop thinking about taking action and act. Your purpose in life is to find and do the things that make you smile, laugh and forget time. Even if you aren’t sure yet, move into the exploration and experimentation phase of your life and enjoy the journey.

You can’t put time on it. You can’t force yourself to find your “why” tomorrow or next month, or even next year. But by all means, search for clarity.

In the 1940s, Viktor Frankl was held prisoner in Nazi concentration camps. With all the agony and brutality, what kept Frankl from giving up his relentless fight for his life was purpose! He found meaning in his struggle, and that’s what gave him the power to push forward through unimaginable pain.
A quote by Viktor nicely sums up his philosophy on how people were able to survive the camps, without losing the will to live.
In his book, Man’s Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl says:
“Those who have a ‘why’ to live, can bear with almost any how."

Once you have defined your aims and what you want, it is easier to deal with doubts. Easier not to get distracted from what is important, keep your focus, and keep moving.

Only sustained movement in one direction can bring tangible results.You have permission to change your goal, rethink, choose another, by all means.
It’s hard to maintain any momentum if your direction lacks of definition.

Defining your direction as early as possible is the most important decision in sports. But curiously enough, this is also the most important decision in life in general, but much fewer people realize it.
Living “on purpose” means you live intentionally.

Napoleon said, “There is one quality that one must possess to win, and that is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants and a burning desire to possess it."

In order to get what you want, you have to choose one direction and move towards it, constantly improving over a prolonged period of time.
Maximum speed and output requires a precise framework.
People who have made genuine changes in their lives and managed to attain difficult goals are not stronger, more intelligent or fearless than you. The only difference is the decision to act in the direction of their dreams.

A strong sense of purpose fuels your motivation. Once you find your why, you will be more careful and selective about your daily actions.

May you all find youre WHY.


Domforever17 59M
7 posts
4/7/2021 9:29 am

The worthless slut should think less, serve more....


OfficialGrggV 56M
3 posts
3/14/2021 11:48 am

Schöne, tiefe Texte, wunderschön.


Albaspross 67M
462 posts
3/25/2020 1:10 pm

Hallo Belledejour !

Grosse Worte, gelassen ausgesprochen.

Was unterscheidet uns Menschen voneinander ?
Unser Verhalten.
Der eine Mensch macht grosse Ankündigungen und nimmt ich selber nicht Ernst.
Das bemerkt aber eine Umwelt sehr genau.
Die sogenannte Einheit von Wort und Tat.

Deshalb sollten wir vorsichtig sein mit unseren Ankündigungen, und viel ist gewonnen.

Gruss
-albaspross-


dommminator 55M
12 posts
3/25/2020 10:05 am

so viel gut formulierte und zitatgespickte und richtige Lebensklugheit auf einmal - ich bin beeindruckt


sex_toy 68T
228 posts
3/24/2020 10:51 pm

Très bien, je vois la business women avec ses objectifs (chiffrés ou au moins mesurables)
Mais Belle O, cela ne me dit pas quels sont les tiens. Il n'y a que cela qui m'intéresse : dans quelles mesures tes objectifs correspondent à ce que je sais et peux et veux faire ?

pour en revenir au texte d'Anne Desclos, quel poids as-tu déjà porté ?


DancingDom 74M
22595 posts
3/24/2020 4:48 pm

Well, this is a relaly good post.

One simple goal all of us can do, is to interact with others, to give them a smile, to get them to think, to help them achieve their goals. It certainly will enrich your own life and help you on your way to achieving your other goals.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Belledejour13 replies on 3/24/2020 5:31 pm:
Sir, let me honestly thank you for your kindest reply. Belle


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