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tanyacheex4u 60F  
117 posts
9/2/2020 1:31 pm
Are you waiting for the right Match

I get messages from men seeking anyone who will meet them.They aren't waiting for the ''One''

You have been without female company for months or years even.
Do you message anyone local in order get a ''fix''
Or wait and wait and wait

I need be friends with people, and never start any training/instructions online.
I can wait patiently as I have been in a Ds since 1984.

..........................
Wait patiently until the One comes along
Take any offer given, even if they aren't attractive
Beg all the locals for a meet, and eventually give up as they aren't interested
Accept that its not your time,and leave the site
Go back to vanilla dating until your fetish partner is found
Try and get a vanilla stranger to give you what you want
Try to get your lifetime vanilla partner to do BDSM
Pay for a Professional for his /her time
Find ways of self torture
Or something else


Gowron 69M
3096 posts
9/3/2020 9:45 am

Is it any easier in daily life? Without a specific site like this?


skorpius18 71M  
1342 posts
9/3/2020 9:31 pm

Waiting and waiting and wait...


Twincam37 68M

9/4/2020 5:57 pm

I've been waiting longer than I care to admit. Doubtful I'll as much as come close to "the one".


domdaddy0747 57M
24 posts
9/5/2020 9:53 am

I love women in stockings


iam4u2use 70M

9/5/2020 3:43 pm

It's hard to find anyone in my area that likes what I like!!!!!!!


alwaysassertive 64M

9/6/2020 9:40 pm

We often dont recognize our opportunities until they have past us..I would recommend keeping an open mind and establishing a friendship and mental connection first. I know just fucking works for a lot of people here because all they really want is someone shallow to fuck who will never give a shit about them. That's 90% of the profiles. That will never be enough for me.


gafferh 68M
308 posts
9/8/2020 5:23 am

While I voted 'Wait Patiently' my mind is more somewhere between Wait and take any offer... Like dating, you have to meet people and see where your likes align... That person you were sure wouldn't be a fit could turn out being the 'One'.


dirty_biker 57M
67 posts
9/8/2020 6:07 am

Waiting patiently. I thought I'd found the "one" but it turned out not to be the case


curioss1970 52M
262 posts
9/8/2020 4:34 pm

i wait but torturing myself


2laughwithsinner 62M

9/9/2020 6:19 am

I know there is no such thing as perfect. So I chat and find compatible anmd see where it may go from there


slaveRam4MsM 42M
178 posts
9/9/2020 12:18 pm

here all fake people


ianmidwest 68M  
214 posts
9/9/2020 1:42 pm

find ways to self torture & encourage/seek a n online female instruct on the prolonged sexual abuse of my body as she desires ..... love it


rosaenaluin 65F
10952 posts
9/10/2020 12:50 am

this site has very good people on it.
That is one thing, i want to have said.

For looking for a partner/friend, Master, this site is beyond hope,

like almost all socalled kinky/SM sites, it is overrun with ignorant vanillas, with a lot of women issues, and an overrated selfimage.

If you are here for just a kinky fuck, roleplay, fantasie play, you are good to go.
For something more serieus, you should not hold your breath...

Most are in for the quick fix, The Porn Version Of SM, egoistic, egocentric vanilla's.
I am here since 2009, on and off, did meet one good man, but he wanted to have a harem.. already had 2 play sex subs, and a partner, and wanted me, as a side dish... since he did not have a masochiste, yet......
I dont think so!


MissLoveParty1 42F  
66 posts
9/11/2020 10:23 am

If I were waiting for the perfect match, I'd be waiting for a long time! Instead, I am looking for a partner who shares my interests and can also be friends. Of course, if the "One" comes along, that would be great!!


Submittopower 58M

9/12/2020 7:21 am

Life and relationships are about understanding yourself. Your capacity to love, share, express, grow and forgive. It is better to be with than? Without.


Sir_Atrimpas 72M
95 posts
9/12/2020 3:54 pm

I wait, patiently; fish a bit, search, contact, but I know that to discover that one, who can be anywhere, takes fortitude. However, it also means that celibacy need not be the norm, that exploration does not need to be stifled. Two hearts, two souls will find each other because of the attraction, not necessarily known to one another.


DomDaddy4u1000 59M

9/18/2020 7:33 pm

too many people waiting for the perfect match. There is no "perfect" match. Get out meet people live life have no experiences


DomDaddy4slut2 56M

10/24/2020 12:19 pm

waiting and having fun in meanwhile



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