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5 seems very low for an average. "In a time of universal deceit - telling the truth is a revolutionary act." ---George Orwell
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That number 5 is a lie and just a conspiracy to shame women into not having high numbers  Actually i would of laughed along with you. Sadly though it does matter to some. No idea why, small minded i think. I learnt long ago from Sex and The City to halve it and then shave a little when asked by a man  Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn
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That number 5 is a lie and just a conspiracy to shame women into not having high numbers Actually i would of laughed along with you. Sadly though it does matter to some. No idea why, small minded i think. I learnt long ago from Sex and The City to halve it and then shave a little when asked by a man bush, no bush, treasure trail, landing strip... it's all the same to me.
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7/10/2020 12:46 pm |
I had this very conversation with a girl I am talking with only a few days ago. She asked how many girls I had slept with, and I answered honestly that I didn't know. It has never been about the number, just the feeling at the time. She told Me about HER love life and I said it didn't matter to Me in the slightest...from the moment a girl becomes Mine all the past is irrelevant...it is only about that moment and into the future. Too many people are too quick to cast judgement. My Words Are A way Into Your Mind...Be brave And let Me In.
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If they ask, I will tell them that it is over x and under y. I really don't know for sure. And, I am not about to ask a lady how many she slept with. I will ask and expect honest answer about STD's; does she now or ever had any STD's And now days I am not having sex without testing. As of the last time I was tested, I did not have any STD's. Have not had sex since, so at least for myself I know I do not have any. But I will get tested if I expect to engage in direct sexual contact and I will insist my potential partner does the same. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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I don't think it's necessary to discuss but I'm with DD on any potential diseases.
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Sub I agree with you! It is nobody's business and how many of us really can be sure of the exact number! I agree - so long as it was SSC , enjoy the memories of the good ones  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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7/10/2020 4:20 pm |
I believe 'don't ask, don't tell' works best
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Even if the number is low, when you get to my age you can't remember anyway! I'm pretty sure my tally comes to "some". Maybe even slightly more than that! Though, maybe not! 
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7/11/2020 8:48 am |
A number is totally arbitrary. We are humans. A number is kind of like notches on the handle of a Colt.
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Well matriculation is a sexy word. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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7/11/2020 12:11 pm |
HaHa! Good point! 
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I can remember my number used to be relatively low until my sexual revolution six years ago and since then the number has crept up but some have been surprised how low it still is. Having said that I’ve learn better not talk about this too much as not sure who it benefits.
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7/18/2020 11:24 am |
Definitely more important attributes to consider. A number? What type of person keeps count. I see the number 5 floating around here. It is so arbitrary, almost laughable. 
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7/18/2020 11:25 am |
006 and a half? Thanks for what? 
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7/22/2020 6:23 pm |
I quit counting. The memories are all blurred together anyway. I sure don't remember any names.....I do know that none were scanks. I always had some standards even if those standards weren't always the highest.
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I've always found this topic interesting. What we choose to reveal to our new partners always feels like murky waters to me. I found a great article about it, I thought it might interest you. I shared the link below. Be Well. www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/the-ideal-number-of-sexual-partners-for-men-women "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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if i was asked by a partner about a number...that would be a red flag question for me....along with 'do you do anal? Run, run for the hills.
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I had a pretty active, rough, wild sex life, "we", me and the men did enjoy each other tremendous, It does not matter, and somewhere along the line , i lost count!  I was pretty promescue.! I experimented a lot! When my daugther was in the age range to be curious about all things sexualilty. I was always very open with her, also about sexuality, all forms. We laughingly did a count.... 
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Nowadays, if a prospect man, dominant would ask about it, i would just tell him. .And would like to know why/ if it matters to him.
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