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slaveforyou365 63M  
4490 posts
9/13/2020 4:26 pm



Slave rick


bigbossman192 76M
54 posts
9/13/2020 4:28 pm

So insightful and respectfully expressed but hidden in your blog post will not get the trolls off the site.


drmgirl622 68F  
26015 posts
9/13/2020 4:30 pm

My profile is very clear but i still get the "maybe you need a man emails". Granted they might not be able to read profiles but still what makes them think i get all excited.....idiots.


bimom4taboo 53F
2042 posts
9/13/2020 4:33 pm

you said it so well !! i hope it works for you. good luck !!!!


janet2bhad 65T
168 posts
9/13/2020 4:43 pm

Thank You so much. That is very well said.
There seems to be a few mindless people on here.
What is sad is it is not just boys that are that way.
I do so enjoy what you write and the thing you have to say.


Dave54321 61M
2702 posts
9/13/2020 5:12 pm

Unbelieveable that anyone would think a sub is going to become a Domme. Particularly just because it suits them! Unfortuately there are a lot of rude & selfish people on here. Seems only logical that you need to find out the wants & needs of any potential partner.

"Where did the real people go?" - To site that works & has a reasonable way of contacting people perhaps?


cuntwhipper1000 60M

9/13/2020 5:49 pm

It is truly sad what has happened to this site and others. IF you are able to find a real bondage or submission scene, others will interrupt and turn it into a fuck feast. It,s no wonder there are so few true subs on this site anymore. It seems that "doms" think if they beat a woman enough, she will submit and give herself to him. How sad it is that we have come to this. I miss the old crew, the true 'doms and subs' that loved the realm of it. Best of luck in the future.


Kate960 63F
58 posts
9/13/2020 5:52 pm

The ones i like are the one that ask if i want a Master when my profile says i have my Master for life so stupid lol.


DancingDom 74M
22533 posts
9/13/2020 6:17 pm

I no longer have any cock around to show you. Not even any hens. Sold of the ranch in 1987

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Kitkatshadow 57F

9/13/2020 8:02 pm

This site is rife with them. As most know, i do love to cam, and often will do so wearing a collar, does that stop them, no, they still insist on calling me Miss and begging for me to Dom them. Then of course, there are the ones who when you are on cam, beg you to come and watch them? Lucky when i do cam, i have my online Sir JT, who keeps them in line. But it does get tiresome


Kitkatshadow 57F

9/13/2020 8:14 pm

    Quoting DancingDom:
    I no longer have any cock around to show you. Not even any hens. Sold of the ranch in 1987
Thank you for the giggle DD


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
9/13/2020 8:18 pm

There's such a wealth of potential responses in this sad reality. But for those males from the US you might tell them "gee I'm so glad you wrote; I'm a Lorena Bobbitt fan, and I'm having a hell of a time finding men with your appendage to do sleep overs. Would you like to join me for a one night stand?"

For the rest of the world you might reply: "I AM a collector and I don't have one that small in my cooler." Unfortunately, this response is likely to excite many of the creatures emailing you.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7020 posts
9/13/2020 8:29 pm

Apparently Don Rickles isn't really dead, or maybe he still is and we're in Hell with him. (Surely I can't be the only person here who knows who Don RIckles was )


Kitkatshadow 57F

9/13/2020 8:39 pm

    Quoting Dreamcatcher__:
    Apparently Don Rickles isn't really dead, or maybe he still is and we're in Hell with him. (Surely I can't be the only person here who knows who Don RIckles was )
I must be honest, i did not know who he was, but i googled him, he is actually quite funny


ADOMIS4U2 62M
820 posts
9/13/2020 11:06 pm

Tal greets sub_nouveau an hello ,agrees whole' heartedly with the comments you have made here its refreshing to see your words spoken smiles regards Master ADOMIS4U2


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
9/14/2020 1:08 am

This may be unpopular, but mubs (male subs) are the bane of existence and are really only useful for test subjects in Cobalt Thorium G fallout studies. And they also entice more weak willed women down the dark useless road of domme-ness, from which many never return.

And yes, I've been wrong before.

But I'm not in this instance.

Thanks for writing.


tgd


aliljaded 53F
8872 posts
9/14/2020 2:12 am

I'm with you on this one my friend. It's terrible. But, I have made some unbelievable friends here and its the only reason I still come around.. I've all but given up on any notion that I will find "Mr. Right" here. And you've seen one cock pic, you've seen them all. I hope this note finds you well , my dear friend.xx

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


LoverOfGaiaSub 62F  
14056 posts
9/14/2020 2:39 am

You aren't alone. Some people don't appear to have an attention span that allows them to read a profile and comprehend it. Still I have made so many good friends on this site over the years and found a few amazing partners in crime that I continue to slog through the other BS.

Thanks for writing about your feelings on it.


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
9/14/2020 5:37 am

I've been contemplating the motivations of such people. The indecency of such behavior is obvious to us all. It seems comparable to the exhibitionists in real life, but beyond, in the sense they are so persistent in their attack. In essence, they have fallen to the status of net r.ap.ist.
(I have no clue if they will tolerate that spelling)..

I've never believed the argument that "rope" (with an a) is an act of "power", as such gives the practitioners far too much dignity. Instead, it is the act of powerless cowards who clearly can not tell anyone of the shameful deed they've done. To the extent there is any power involved it is merely the act of successfully lying to themselves that their lack of dignity gives them satisfaction over those who possess dignity in immeasurable quantity.

Aren't these uninvited, shameful exhibitionists simply "ropists" without the proximity to perform their more hideous physical stunts? It is clearly an act of harassment, and assault, yet goes unprosecuted.

So, let's begin, at least, a process of prosecuting these net "ropists". Let's begin a petition to have ALT establish a permanent group that allows anyone who feels threatened, or harassed, to post a complaint, with their evidence of the offense that has been committed. The accused will be free to present their defense: Where is your "invitation" from the victim to email her, or him? Where did they ask for your photo that would otherwise be understood to be an uninvited violation? These would be simple cases and quickly decided. Obviously, the pictures and emails are part of Alt records. The sender is clearly, undeniably, recorded.

There is another woman on the site who is constantly complaining of the stalkers who make her existence here unbearable, and she has left the site, because of it, on several occasions. All of us have heard these recollections of foul behavior and most of us have experienced them in some fashion. Notoriety of their foul conduct may stop the behavior.

Sub_nouveau may be the most genuinely beloved woman on the site, and yet she admits to contemplating a permanent departure. So, until Alt acts on our petition, we need some woman to begin a group. Perhaps call it the "Court of Corrections" or "Appeals for Decency."

A woman is needed as that will increase the odds that the Group becomes well known. Any person will be free to file a complaint by starting a Group Post. Notoriety of a "judgement" will be posted as a Group Post itself. Both the accusation and the defense will be viewable by all and anyone will be free to vote on a Poll of the guilt or innocence of the accused.

Sub_Nouveau, you'd be the perfect person to begin such a group, as you'd attract many who want to participate. You could probably file the first 100 cases. But perhaps the notoriety of a Group that is revealing the untoward behavior of some males is sufficient to impact such behavior. What happens after the first 10 are revealed? Hopefully, at a minimum, those 10 prosecutions stop 10 and perhaps twice that in others who otherwise might have violated someone. I suspect none of them will attempt a defense, as only the innocent would have much reason to do so.

Perhaps many who blog could each start a petition on their blog. If 10 or 20 bloggers each presents their petition to Alt, they will see the value of a permanent group.

Please, if anyone has ideas of how to improve this notion, or wants to take ownership, feel free.


brandygirasol 54T
9414 posts
9/14/2020 11:11 am

Oh how pathetic and frankly DUMB some of these guys are around here .... Girlfriend your name is SUB nouveau "SUB" mind you so anybody would think these guys might have a CLUE without even reading further into your profile SHEESH


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
9/14/2020 2:34 pm

Well that's new ... subs telling others subs to switch
I imagine for some it's in the hope that they will get a telling off and be insulted.
I do hope this not a new way for them to get their rocks off !

I just get the old fashioned type of male subs, you know the ones that offer to dom you once it's explained you are a sub hahaha like you say though, desperate and not attractive. I will add though that i have been contacted by some very respectful male subs too. They are not all arses thankfully

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


davinacambs 61T  
839 posts
9/15/2020 3:00 am

Guessing it is a knock-on cause of the lock-down - there's only so much you can find on PornHub before you need to go and find the real thing ........ sadly the methods of attempt need improving !

D xxx


rosaenaluin 65F
10952 posts
9/15/2020 4:24 am

I had this kind of experience, once, the other way around, on a SM meeting in a club.
This socalled d, already had contacted me before, but i just did not like his approach. SO i just told him; NO!
We were not compatible. (just an other sex-roleplay- player. )

He was on that meeting/play event, too.
He was constantly following me around and while we as a group had dinner, he kept begging to dom me...amp;

It was disgusting !
How can you have such a low selfsesteem, that you are going to beg!?
and call yourself a Dominant?
I loathed him!

He did not learn, that NO means NO!

Really! Never seen that guy again.


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
9/16/2020 3:14 pm

Hey! Wanna see my helicopter?


rosaenaluin 65F
10952 posts
9/17/2020 10:02 pm

It was awfull, indeed.This was after i turned him.down, as a dominant, Because his idea of a first date was; me, sitting at a cafe terasse, with a extreem short skirt, ( wich i dont have) with my legs spread wide open,in my own little villlage, where i lived,
So, other men, could see my genitals....
F***ing boring porn player!!
When i asked him, how are you going to qaurantine my safety? In the place, where i live?

He got really very angry, and said; He was the dominant and i should do as he told me!!
On a FIRST date?
He is a danger! not a dominant, at all.
Nasty piece of shit!



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