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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

30th Anniversary!!!
Posted:Aug 28, 2018 10:48 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 3:41 pm
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This past week we celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary and I wanted to celebrate in my own way. As our sex life has changed so much over the past few , I thought what better way than having sex. Not with my sub/hub of course but with another.

Our anniversary was on Monday, and I got that lined up for Wednesday. Then, we were invited to a private femdom party for Saturday night before our anniversary. I thought, perfect. I can socialize with other femdoms, with my sub, and have him all nice and sore for our anniversary.

We went to the party, and had a wonderful time. The couple hosting have a gorgeous house, with wonderful bondage furniture. The company was very welcoming, and my sub and I enjoyed ourselves very much. It was a great atmosphere, and well worth the drive.

The week before, I had plans to meet with a new person, but he turned out to be much more drama than what I wanted so I delayed a day and found a new guy to with. He had a very high bed so he was able to stand while I laid down on the bed to fuck. He turned out not to be as long as he said he was but he was very thick which somewhat made up for it. Unfortunately, he did not have much stamina and was a one shot wonder. I was able to have a few orgasms prior to his so it was not a total loss. On the ride home my sub/hub said since I was a little disappointed with the performance that he would be more than happy to fuck me when we got home. But I told him I was satisfied and would be having some more fun soon so he can stay caged.

We had strictly vanilla plans on the actual day of the anniversary, and my sub/hub gave me a beautiful new anniversary ring to celebrate thirty together. I made sure, on Wednesday, when I was with the other guy, to get a good shot of me holding his cock with my ring showing, lol.



Wednesday evening, we met with the same guy that I had been with a couple of weeks ago. Same hotel, different room, a very cool room that had a large semi circle couch that wrap around the windows. My sub was once again in his chastity device to enjoy his 900th day of orgasm denial by hearing me fuck someone else. So once he was tied in the chair, we were ready to go!

I told my friend I wanted to try some different positions this time, but first we started with him giving me a very with baby oil. That felt so good, and got me really worked up. We then moved to the couch, where he sat down, and I climbed on top and rode him hard. I came pretty quick, but wasn't ready to stop yet, so kept going till I had a second orgasm.

We then changed positions with me kneeling on the couch and him standing behind me, fucking me from behind as we looked out the huge window. He has such a large cock, and he can keep going for hours. It's wonderful!



We tried a few more positions after that, then had a short water break. Then I told him I wanted to do my favorite position, on a table. We started making out and then he lifted me up on a table and with him facing me, standing, he put his cock in me and I put my legs on his shoulders and he began to fuck me and I came almost immediately!!! Deep, hard, fast. I just about came apart. It was so intense, and it felt so fucking good!!! I don't know if I came three times, four times, or if it was just one continuous cum, but man was it good. I just collapsed like a rag doll afterwards. Once I recovered we moved over to the bed and I was bent over the edge if the bed and he fucked me from behind and I continued to have multiple orgasms.



We did a couple more positions after that, one he sitting in a chair and me straddling him. After that round we had to call a halt as we were both pretty much spent. It was a very, very satisfying evening and between all three events it was a fantastic way to spend my anniversary!!
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30 Months of Denial
Posted:Aug 5, 2018 8:16 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 3:40 pm
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My sub has now entered his thirtieth month of denial, and to celebrate, we went to an hotel Saturday where I met and fucked a wonderful man, while my sub stayed tied and blindfolded in the corner. I had talked with the man before but schedules couldn't be met as he travels but we were able to get together on this trip. When we got to the hotel I thought he chickened out as we went to the room and there was no answer when we knocked on the door. Of course my sub said he would be more than happy to fuck me since he bailed. So I knocked on the door a little louder and it was finally opened by a sleepy looking man. His alarm clock didn't go off and he had taken a sleeping pill as he was out of his normal time period.

Once we were in I told my sub to set up the camera and my friend went in to take a quick shower. When he came back out my sub was tied and I was ready to go.

We started out making out and taking my clothes off, he was naked from the shower with only his very tightie whities. LOL. Of course they were tight with his very large cock. We quickly got on the bed and after grinding on his cock through his shorts he took them off, put a condom on, and he put his cock in me. Oh man, did it feel great!!!.

We fucked for over two hours straight, with only quick water breaks while we changed positions. One of the positions was on the window seat, in the open window of the 9th floor room. I love exhibitionist sex but my sub was always the shy one so I took full advantage of this, looking out at all the windows across from me while I'm being fucked, wondering who is watching me, and not caring at all, lol.



I had a great time, and lost count sometime after my sixth orgasm. He was very good, had great endurance and had a perfect size cock, both in length and girth.

It was a perfect way to spend a Saturday afternoon, and I look forward to the next time we can meet for a hookup. As a footnote; after I have met with someone I have always made my sub use his tongue on me so he can see how sore I am. This time I was very sore and when he went to use his tongue he got one lick in before I made him stop. And I'm still very, very sore. But it's a good sore so that's all that matters.
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New Dungeon, Part II
Posted:Aug 2, 2018 8:29 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 3:38 pm
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Last week, we went back to the new dungeon again, but I made sure my sub got the attention this time. It started off with a chastity class at 1:30 in the afternoon. I had brought our collection of Chastity devices for the show & tell as I had emailed the presenter ahead of time to see if any were needed. The presentation was very good as he uses chastity devices on himself so he was able to speak from experience. When he asked me how long we have been using them I told him about 20 years but denial a little longer. He asked what was the longest I ever denied my sub and I told him currently over 28 months. You could hear a pin drop in the room as everyone took that in. When he asked why so long my answer was very simple, he's much more compliant while being denied and I love the power it gives me over him. I also mentioned that he has reached one complete year one other time, 6 months at least twice. And many times over 3 months. At the end of the class it was the show and tell part of the presentation and everyone wanted to see the cages up close. I had told them earlier that he was in the Ghost cage and they wanted to see it. So I told my sub to drop his shorts and present his cage. He was reluctant until I told him "now". As he showed his cage it seemed that everyone crowded around and were quite fascinated with the way it looked. I guess the majority of people really don't see a lil cock in a cage everyday. The presenters sub asked him if there was a new toy he wanted to buy and he said "I'm thinking yes" or something to that effect.

We had a 4-hour break between the class and party at the dungeon that night so we booked a hotel to get a few hours rest in between as we had late nights the past few nights. With traffic it would have taken over 2 hours make the round trip so it was money well spent. The hotel room wasn't the best but it served it's purpose, though neither of us wanted to go back after the party.

The social part of the play party started at 7:00 and the rooms would not open until about 9 so we didn't get there exactly on time. We mingled and chatted with others for about 45 minutes. I talked to one young lady who was getting her toy bag ready and had a baggie full of larger binder clips. She told me how she ripped it off a sub once, agreed play, and the sub called the safe word and asked they no longer get ripped off. I told my sub about it and he had to agree with the other sub. LOL. I have only tried small binder clips on him so far and the large ones look so much more fierce for play. Some day.

Once the play rooms open we went to the room where is a bench that is our favorite piece of equipment and my sub was quickly tied down to it in a kneeling position. I started off with the impact toys, leather paddles first to warm his ass up. From there I moved on to wooden paddles, floggers and then the canes, taking short breaks in between each set. During the breaks I had him lift as much as he could so that I could play with his nipples as I couldn't touch his cock as he was still locked up. We went on for about an hour and took a break.

We were going to head back to the room when the organizers said they would be making announcements and the raffle in about 20 minutes so not really enough time to get him tied down and have some fun with the neon wand. We didn't win anything in the raffle but participated in the auctions they had. However, my sub would not let me bid for the saw paddle. We we're the winning bidders of an hour of private dungeon time so we will be taking advantage of that very soon. Probably buying an extra hour as well to make it more interesting.

By the time the auction was over and my sub paid for the item "our" room was in use so we had to wait to play. In the meantime I talked with a female who was very new and won an open mouth gag in the auction. She was very new and did not know how it worked so me being the very friendly, generous, helping person I am, I told her how it work and strapped it on her. She looked so nice in it and left it on for a few minutes as I tried tomake her talk with it on. When it was off she said she was looking to learn more and had not yet played with female yet. I told her we seem to be coming regularly to this dungeon so maybe we can play at some point.

After a little more talking it was getting late and the room was still busy so we decided to call it a night and go home. It was very nice sleeping in our own bed and not the funky mattress that was at the hotel.

Hopefully more good stories from the dungeon soon.
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New Dungeon, Part I
Posted:Jul 29, 2018 3:46 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 3:37 pm
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We have started to be more active again, and have been to the dungeon a few times in the last couple of months. I'm really liking this new dungeon and they have some good theme nights lined up.

A few weeks ago we went with another sub that we have know for a few years but never played with to Femdom Night. I was intending to play with both him and my sub, but when we got there, I decided I wanted to fuck with my sub's head and enforce to him who was in charge so I only played with the other sub. I had my sub stand outside the room I was playing in so he could look in and hear. He was also allowed to move from time to time to see what was going on in the other rooms. Poor baby, lol.

As for the other sub, I had a very good time using the impact toys on him and he was able to take quite a lot. I was also able to do another favorite of mine and did a clothespin zipper on his ass. While he was tied down I used the Neon Wand on him. It was the first time he had used electricity so he was a little worried about it. I had a good time as he was jumping all over, good thing he was tied down. LOL.

We took a short break to let others use the room and talked with others. Seemed like more people were talking rather than playing, don't understand that as we go to play. During the break, I had the sub give me a foot massage. Once again my sub/hub was on the other side of the room where he could only watch. It was a very nice massage and when he was done we went back to play.

We went into the same room and I secured him to a standing cross to use floggers and paddles on him. His ass was getting a very nice shade of red so I took a break about halfway through and pressed up against him and played with his nipples, rolling and squeezing them and he would give a high pitch sound. LOL. After a few minutes he sounded like he was enjoying it too much so of course I stopped and went back to the impact toys for about another 20 minutes before we called it a night.
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New Canvas Bag
Posted:Jul 10, 2018 7:47 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 3:36 pm
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I have been wanting a canvas body bag for the past, oh, probably twenty years. Every time we would walk into the Stockroom I would see it hanging on the staircase in their old store, and I would lust after it, lol

We purchased a spandex bag, and used it for years, until it wore out, but it wasn't what I really wanted. We have a canvas strait jacket, which is wonderful, and has really stood the test of time, but I've just always wanted the whole bag. But every time we've gone to buy it, we've found other things we've wanted or needed, and the bag has always gone to the back burner.

We bought a neoprene bag last year that is very nice, and with straps is pretty secure, and I have enjoyed using it very much. But a couple of weeks ago, Stockroom was having a sale, and guess what was on sale for a great price?!?!?! The canvas bag!!! So, guess who is the very proud new owner of one nice new black canvas body bag? Your's truly, that's who!

Of course, I had to have my sub try it on in the shop, just to make sure it was a perfect fit, lol. And once we got it home, he went right into it for a few hours.



Naturally, the week we got it we went on a vacation to Vegas so using it there was out of the question and when we got home the hottest week in history started!!! Sooooo he hasn't been in it too much yet, but he will be spending a lot of time in my new bag, with a nice hood, for longer and longer times, till hopefully he takes turns sleeping in it or in the cage. I love playing with my sub as he has no problem trying different things I like. With the exception of needles, can't get him to like needles. LOL.
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New Neon Wand Case
Posted:Jul 6, 2018 10:06 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 3:36 pm
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So not a huge kinky post , but something that's been bothering me for a long timw. We bought our neon wand a few years ago and it came in the pretty carboard box with the attachments. Since then we've added the Flux Capacitor, Whip and the latest feature, the Power Tripper, all in their own little carboard boxes.

While I love using it, it was always such a hassle to use as there were four different boxes to open and then put away. Of course, taking it anywhere outside the house was even more of a hassle with the four boxes and having to worry about packing them and making sure they were safe.

We went to a dungeon a couple of weeks ago and used it, but had to pack and unpack everything. When we got back home I told my sub that I wanted to start using it more and for him to come up with a better solution.

He looked at Stockroom to see if they had a case available but they only had the ones that they sold with the wand and attachments. He found a padded case at an electronics store but it had "egg crate" padding on both sides of the case which made it tough for him to cut and modify for the wand and attachments. He then went to a foam store and replaced the bottom piece of foam with a solid piece used for microphones and such. A smaller width foam was placed underneath the main piece, as the main piece was going be cut through.

Once he got the new foam he placed everything on it to mark where he would cut so that everything would fit without pressing into each other. A new 5" utility knife made cutting through the foam easy. The Power Tripper will share a hole with the power cord to save room as he didn't want to make two large holes for the cords.



I think he did a great job and it cost less than $30 to complete the project. He's such a good boy making me happy.
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Cage
Posted:Jun 30, 2018 12:04 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 3:35 pm
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I'm getting my sub used to sleeping in the cage again. I bought him a new pillow but he looks too comfy and snug with it.



It might be up in the bed with me soon. Him, not so soon. LOL. I've been keeping part of the privacy panel open for him as it's been warm over night. See I'm not that mean.
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Dungeon Fun
Posted:Jun 26, 2018 1:19 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 3:35 pm
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This past weekend we went to another new dungeon, this time further from home but an easy drive. The theme for the night's party was medical play, with a discount if you dressed in medical gear. We carpooled out there with a male switch that we had met at a previous munch, that I knew was really into medical play.

Unlike the last dungeon, this time I fully intended to play; definitely with my sub, and if time and circumstances allowed, another sub as well.

We arrived at the party in normal clothing, and mingled for the social hour, getting to know people, then changed into our medical gear to begin play. I was dressed in a black spandex nurse minidress, and my sub was sporting a lovely black canvas strait jacket and a black thong over his chastity cage.

After watching a great cutting scene by the hosts of the party, we went into a room and started our first scene. I had my sub bent at the waist over a , and brought out my paddles. I had brought two leather and two wood paddles with me, and I took turns with each one, starting out slow, then building up and then taking back off again. This way I was able to hit longer and harder then usual and with the angle he was in the majority of hits we're on the bottom of his ass. I'm happy to say that his is is still sore and a little red as I write this : ).



When I was finished with the paddles, I let him stand up for a minute or two, then laid him back down, and got out my Neon wand. I used the comb first, which i am able to use on my sub at a pretty high level. I used it in his ass, legs and on his balls, which really had him squirming. I used a couple more of the glass attachments, which are pretty easy on him power wise, then I got out the 'flux capacitor'. Even at the lowest setting, he can barely handle it, and towards the end of the session I turned it up a little more to give him a little more of a zap. Needless to say, I didn't use it on his balls, lol.

We finished that scene, then went to watch what others were doing while my sub had a break. We saw our friend give a "medical exam" to a young lady and watched for a few minutes.

After the short break, we went into another room, and I removed the strait jacket from my sub (it had been on for about 2.5 hours), and connected him spread eagle to a cross. I got out my flogger and started to flog his back, going from very slow and light to very hard and intense, back to slow and light again. I flogged him for about half an hour, then started back with the paddles again, just for my pleasure. His ass was so sore he couldn't take much, but i enjoyed it.

When we were done with this scene, it was already passed midnight, and things were winding down. I watched a scene on the center stage by the host while my sub packed the gear and then called it a night. A female sub I had chatted with earlier that I had planned to try to do a needle scene with was still coming down from an earlier session, so hopefully we will be able to play in the future. It was a really good time, especially since it was the first time we played in public in almost two years.

About a week earlier on Father's day, I had my sub locked up and after he pleasured me with his tongue I had him scoot up in between my legs with his locked up cock on my pussy. I slowly moved the cage a little into me while teasing him how this was the closest he's been to being allowed inside me in over 21 months and that wasn't it a shame his cock could not feel inside me. LOL. He was leaking so much from just finishing going down on me and then being so close to getting inside. Of course he went back and licked me dry. I love teasing him!!!

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300th Post
Posted:Jun 14, 2018 7:48 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 3:33 pm
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I can't believe we have been doing this blog so long that we have reached our 300th post, but here we are later. So much has changed since we put up our first posts when it was mostly just tease and denial, we've accomplished a lot, but I still have so much more I want to do.

Looking back at some of the earlier blogs of his denial periods and mentioning that he has reached 7 days of not being allowed to cum, I think he misses those days so much. Last week we passed the 27 month of him being in denial and only session of multiple anal orgasms in the past 22 months.

I think I mentid I was going start allowing him anal orgasms again on a regular basis, but quickly changed my mind as he seemed to enjoy it way too much that they will only be allotted for very special occasions. He finally asked me if I had decided to stop them since it had been a few months since that session and he wasn't too happy when he got the news. But I really enjoyed telling him and seeing the look on his face and accepting my decision.

That is another reason for keeping him in long term denial, his compliance and accepting what I decide is so much better than when we first started. His wanting to please me is more natural and not so much of being forced. Though some things like making him suck a cock is much more fun when he's surprised and forced to. Lol.



We started out ing mostly in public dungeons, to mostly in other people's houses, to now almost exclusively in hotels. From our photos you know we have various pieces of equipment that we take with us. In the past we have ed with femdom couples, a couple of male Dom couples, single male and something that I never thought I would do, single female subs. To tell you the truth, ing with a female is something I had never planned to do. But after meeting a wonderful female sub and during how we were able to push each other's agreed upon limits I was very glad I did. Since then there have been more female subs ed with than male subs.

This past weekend we went full circle and went to a new dungeon to check it out. We didn't , but were impressed with the place, and the people, so we will definitely go back and at a future party. I walked around and talked to a few male subs who asked to at a later time. There was younger switch that was so cute I spent about 20 minutes with him talking about what we would like to do in a session. Next party there should at least more sub to with in additon to sub/hub.

of the biggest changes in our femdom relationship was me adding other males to fuck so that I can continue to keep him in long term denial and chastity. The other reason is that his cock is not very large and when we when did have sex, while I got satisfaction, I would sometimes think about some of the large cocks I had before we got together. I've always had the right to use others but never acted on it until recently as I really missed being fucked by a real big cock, while still keeping him in denial. Problem solved!!!

I'm still been searching for a single bull that will satisfy my needs, but I am also having a very good time looking 😎. Maybe so much that I will have a little variety to tease my sub/hub more, and of course for me to enjoy. A LOT!!!! I love having my sub/hub in the room or next to it while I'm being fucked, knowing he can hear but can't see and probably trying to visualize what position we're in. Won't say wondering what were doing as he knows that. I think it's safe to say he is a true cuckold now. I don't think he would have it any other way, regardless of what he says, lol. I know I'm really enjoying my side of the femdom cuckhold relationship.

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Memorial Weekend Fun
Posted:Jun 4, 2018 10:11 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 3:32 pm
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Last Sunday, I got together with a new friend for a quick hook-up. He was able to host, so we went to his place, and after a few pleasantries, I tied my sub up to a chair in a corner of the room, and we got down to what we were there for.

We sat down on the couch and started some heavy petting, then stood up to undress. I was so very pleasantly surprised when he took off his shorts - a full nine inches! When we chatted on the computer he said he was long and thick so I figured maybe 7". I haven't been with someone that size in over thirty years!! It reminded me why I decided to cuck my sub after all. LOL. He also had the cutest shorts that his cock came out which made him look much larger.

I quickly realized I would be able to do a couple of positions that I've been unable to do for a long time, due to my sub's small cock, so you can be sure I took full advantage of what was offered to me.

Two of my favorite positions were very satisfactorily re-lived! The first was me on my back with my legs over his shoulders and him fucking me with long deep strokes. Oh, that felt so good. The second was him in a seated position and me on his lap. The photo shows my face of pure satisfaction and enjoyment of sliding down his long shaft. Wow, did that feel so great. He had good stamina so I was able to cum multiple times before he finally came.



It was a very nice way to spend part of the long weekend, even if I was a little sore for a few days, LOL.
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