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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

Caging
Posted:May 31, 2017 11:37 am
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:39 am
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The night before last I did not sleep well at all. My sub was tied in a spread eagle but for some reason I could not get comfortable. Last night I decided that he would sleep in the cage but didn't tell him beforehand.

So when it was time for bed he was already lying down and was surprised when I told him up and got the bondage mitts out. I like him in these when he is in the cage as he can't do anything with his hands or fingers. As an added touch I placed the neoprene muzzle over his mouth and nose. He had a long day at work so he wasn't really happy about being in the cage but was a very good boy and didn't argue too much.

Once he was in the cage, I stood in front and took my panties off in front of him and teased look at what you'll be missing. He said we could skip the cage but I told him no and I wanted the whole bed. Before I closed the cage door I pulled the muzzle back and placed my panties inside so that he could smell me during the night, and yes I made sure the crotch area was placed towards his nose. Lol.



Unfortunately for him i had a great night of sleep so he may be spending tonight in the cage as well.
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Getting back to the fun stuff
Posted:May 27, 2017 4:19 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:38 am
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Finally had my appointment to get staples removed from the surgery I had, and it feels so good to be able to move around again without something pulling me. It was really a pain as I had multiple staples in three parts of my body.

When we got home from the appointment it turned out we had an empty house for a few minutes so I told him into the bedroom and pants down and lie face down on the bed. I grabbed my cane and told him he will get three good ones. With the first one I was a little tense as I still wasn't used to the staples being out, but after the swing it felt great. The next two were a little harder and then I told him that he will get some more as I was really enjoying myself. I stopped at 10.

When it was time for sleep, I placed him in a spread eagle and kept him that way until about 5:30 in the morning. He was released to use the facilities and when he came back to the room he was placed in the cage to sleep the remainder of the morning. I let him out just before 9AM. When he crawled out he stayed on all fours and rubbed up against me and then thanked me by worshiping my feet for a couple of minutes. The feet worship is something new two us but we are both finding out that we like it very much.

It was a nice slow way to get back from the surgery.
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Out of action
Posted:May 20, 2017 3:38 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:37 am
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Its been a while since posting anything as I had a minor surgery earlier in the month and the recovery was not good. It seemed like its taking forever for my body to regain its strength and mobility.

Because of the where the surgery was I haven't even been able to tie my sub up at nights the past couple of weeks. Hope he didn't get used to it as he will be tied tonight.

Hoping to get back into playing again in early June and have already chatted or met with a few potential Dommes and subs. It will be nice to start playing and get back into the "swing" of things. If you know what I mean.
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Long-Term Denial continues
Posted:May 7, 2017 5:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:36 am
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It has been 60 weeks now that my sub has been in denial, which is 14 long, dry months for him, lol. I don't think he expected me to keep it going this long, but I am still having fun.

My original planned date for him to cum has come and gone, and I didn't even tell him until after the date had passed. Since he had no idea when I was planning on releasing him, he wasn't upset about it, but was quick to tell me he was willing to try for another date. I told him no, I was happy to keep going indefinitely and with him having no idea of when he will cum again.

I used the new metal anal probe on him the other night, and I kept it very slow so there was no chance for an anal orgasm, though believe me, he tried.

When I was done with that, I had him go down on me, then tied him in his usual position for the night. I had the clover clamps on for a little while, teasing his nipples so thst he was kept on the edge. He is one horny guy, with no release in sight.
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Rummage Sale
Posted:May 3, 2017 10:18 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:35 am
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I had mentioned in an earlier post that we went to the Stockroom's rummage sale.  As usual, we arrived about 30 minutes before they opened and usually we are one of the first in line to get in.  This time, as they announced that it would be the last one, the line was already about 25 people deep.

A young lady hopped in line in back of us and said she couldn't believe this many people were here early for the 20% sale as they had a sale in the store early in the month.  I told her that the rummage sale was different and it was a lot of close-out or overstocked toys and gear.  Once she found out, she texted her bf to come down.

When we were finally inside, my sub and I split up with me going to the clothes area and he went to the toys.  There was quite a selection of clothes but nothing that I needed.  There was a leather sleepsack but after looking at it further it was a little small for him. The other clothes were priced a little too high for our budget.

Once I made my way back to my sub his basket was quite full with toys and gear.  He picks things that we might like and then we go through everything together and get rid of some items. 



The big buy this year was a new leather hood with a removable blindfold and gag.  The gag is much larger than our current one which I liked, he might not so much.  LOL.  The hood we use the most we figure is about 27 years old and has been used and abused so much during our play.  I'm sure we'll have a great time breaking this one in.

We seemed to pick up quite a few anal toys.  So far my favorite is a long metal wand with multiple beads.  The first time I used it, it was so cool as it slid right in with just a little push at each bead. He said the weight of it makes for a different type of sensation, which is good and bad. Also bought a new anal plug with a large bead and a remote control vibrator which will be fun when we go out.  Another fun toy we haven't tried yet is a metal speculum which opens with 3 sides.

We were able to pick up a cupping set for a very reasonable price.  I tried it at one of the Surrenders we attended and have wanted to try it on my sub since.  Now that we have it I'm waiting for the right time as I don't want to rush when we do.

There were some other miscellaneous items that we picked up as well.  All in all,  I think we got a good deal on the items we purchased, though the prices weren't as good as sales in the past.  Also, the 20% off was on the sale items so we did save more there.  We did see the young lady we talked with in line and her and her bf had a full basket they were sorting through as well. 

Hopefully the Stockroom will move to another location where they can continue to have these types of sales. 
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Drinks
Posted:Apr 24, 2017 2:07 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:35 am
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We've had to go to a number of doctor appointments today and in between had lunch at a fast food place and took the drinking cups with us.  In between one appointment I needed to use the restroom and handed my cup to my sub to hold while I went inside.

After the hand off and looking at his cup, I just grabbed his cup and said I'll be back and walked in the restroom.  When I came back out I switched cups and whispered to him to enjoy his "spiked" drink and that I wanted it all drank and not thrown away.  He was a good boy and finished it all within an hour.

With some of the dead time we took a side trip to the Stockroom to pick up a few things we didn't get at the rummage sale this past weekend.  More on the rummage sale in another post.  I bought new padded knee pads for him and a bone gag that were on sale.  We also tried out a couple of new products for our neon wand that I want to get soon, an electric flogger and a new spoon type device.  They are much more powerful than the glass options and he will have to be tied down pretty good if and when I buy them. 
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Sounds
Posted:Apr 12, 2017 1:47 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2022 3:11 pm
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We found ourselves with an empty house for a few hours last night, and decided to take advantage of it. We hadn't used the sounds in quite some time, so I took therm out and got them ready.

I tied my sub spread-eagle to the bed, and put on some latex gloves. I lubed up the first sound and got comfortable between his spread legs. I inserted the sound, small end first, into the tip of his flaccid cock. It just slipped right in, until just about an inch was left. I slowly pulled it out and let it slide back in a number of times, just to get him used to the feel of it again. Then I pulled it out and re-inserted it, large side first. It didn't go in quite as easily at first,but after a little resistance, slid right down. It went all the way down to the same point as before. I got out a little vibrator and put it on his balls while sliding the sound in and out. I did this for a while, then turned off the vibrator and took out the sound.



I untied his legs and retied them to the head of the bed. I lubed up my fingers, which still had the gloves on, and inserted my forefinger into his ass. It was very tight, as we hadn't used his ass in some time. I inserted another finger, and slowly fucked his ass with my fingers. I played for some time, never letting him get close to an orgasm, then released him. Even though we didn't have a lot of time I enjoyed the teasing very much..
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Poor lil subbie
Posted:Apr 8, 2017 6:47 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:33 am
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This past weekend I had my sub in chastity as he didn't have a really good reason to be out of it. We had a play session with another sub over the weekend which left him quite horny and frustrated as well, not to mention a sore ass and nipples.

Sunday night I asked him how his Monday at work looks and he said he would only be outside for a little while and then inside at his desk the rest of the day. I told him that's good and to leave the cage on as I wanted to tease him later that night with it on. If he has a lot of physical outside work I let him go without it as it gets in the way and there are others around.

I checked in with him about 9AM to see how his day has been going and he's tells me that that the day is not going as planned and he's all over the place with others. I'm grinning at home reading the texts and ask will he be going in anytime soon? He comes back with that he is hoping to and can he take the cage off when he does. I ask him if he's climbing, squatting or jumping over things and he tells me no, just a lot of going from place to place at the site and its hot. It was about 85 degrees that day.

I think about it and then tell him that he can't take the cage off as it doesn't sound like he's having that bad of a day. He grumbled a little and gave a few more reasons why, but in the end he did leave the cage on for the rest of the day. I did tease him once we got ready for bed, but not enough to give him too much satisfaction. I wanted him to continue being very sexually frustrated. I of course came a number of times that night.
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Kinky Shopping
Posted:Apr 2, 2017 3:19 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:32 am
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Last week we went to Ikea to look for a bench to go at the foot of the bed. When we went on a vacation last year we had one in the room and it turned out to be a very handy bench to tie my sub on and play.

As we were walking through the store we found a few more items that could be turned into items for kinky play. We bought a smaller bench that we can take apart and put in a bag as it makes a great bench for either spanking my sub or using a strapon on him in either his ass or mouth. For the top we will cover it with a pillow or foam, haven't decided which yet. He said the sides will need to be sanded as they are very sharp. See how it works once the padding is on.



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The other two items are on the bench. The first one just looked evil, so I fell in love with it, my sub not so much. LOL. One end I'm threatening that I'm going to use on his balls and other places and the other end I can be used in his ass. The other item is a nice thick cutting board that will be used as a paddle. I wanted to try it out in the store but it was way too crowded.

We didn't get the bed bench so we'll have to make another trip to Ikea later. See what other goodies we can find as well.
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Long Birthday Weekend
Posted:Mar 26, 2017 10:50 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:23 am
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This past Thursday was my sub's birthday,  and as for those that have followed the blog for awhile know, up until about 4 years ago he always received a blow job on his birthday. I don't think he was really expecting one this year since I extended his year-long denial, and he was pretty sure he wasn't going to be able to cum, but he was probably hoping I would at least give him a few sucks. Just to make sure he knew that nothing was going to happen, when we got home from a game on Wednesday night I had him take a shower and had his Ghost waiting for him on the bed.  Since I was horny he went down on me for two very good orgasms.

The morning of his birthday, I wished him a happy birthday, gave him a kiss, and just got out of bed without any teasing or anything.  He still had hopes for the afternoon and evening of being unlocked though.  We went out to breakfast, then came home, and I told him he would be resting while I made his special birthday dinner, so I put him in the cage for a couple of hours with his padded mitts on to keep him from bothering me as I cooked.

We had dinner with the family, opened presents, and then it was time for bed.  I put on a nice negligee, and got into bed. I told him he was to go down on me. While he was pleasuring me, I was telling him how wonderful it was to be able to cum, how good it felt, and didn't he wish he could cum too?  I had two more very intense orgasms,  then let him come up and rest his caged cock between my legs,  just so he could remember what it felt like being in that position. Then I tied him spread-eagle, and went to sleep.  A very satisfying birthday,  I think. For me at least.  LOL.



He remained in the Ghost until Friday evening when we had another event. I had on my spandex pants again and he was rubbing them all night so I knew he was making himself hornier. When we got home he once again went between my legs and licked me to three more orgasms to continue celebrating his birthday weekend.  Since he was uncaged and I didn't want him to try and coax me into going inside me, I tied him spread eagle for sleep again.  I did do some teasing but being the not-so-nice domme, made sure I did not touch his cock at all. 

Saturday morning he was released and, since I was still satisfied from the previous days, had him get out of bed and do some things he had planned.  Once he got home he showered and found the cage waiting for him.  He complained a little as we were going to Ikea as we found something we wanted to try and use for play.  More on Ikea in another post.

He had to walk around in his cage and it seemed like most of the young ladies at Ikea loved the spring weather and were dressed very sexy and skimpy.  Thus didn't help him at all as he was already so horny and walking around in his cage.  After we finished, we stopped for dinner and then home.  Once we went to bed for the night he gave me two more orgasms before being tied for sleep. 

In the morning we slept in, and after releasing him he went down on me again for one huge orgasm.  Once he cleaned up I put him in the cage and had him in there for a couple of hours as I went back to sleep in the bed.  When we finally got up we went shopping to make the things we bought at Ikea kinkier, so that just got him more worked up in his lil cock cage.  It also didn't help that I had a phone conversation with a female domme we hope to play with very soon and was trying to schedule a play date.

We got home, and he got to take the cage off as we had another event. Even with it off he is so frustrated as, although I have played with and teased him quite a bit over his long weekend, his cock was never touched.  I've had so much fun the past four days.
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