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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

Game Time
Posted:Mar 25, 2017 3:04 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:23 am
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So, there was a number of you that were interested in the pants I wore to the hockey game last week. We had a local game last night and I decided to wear them again to cheer my team on. The first picture is getting into the car after the game, really surprised they didn't have finger print smears as my sub rubbed them pretty much all night. LOL.



The second photo is me rubbing against his lil cock and having him take a photo of it. Tried to rub his face and get the photo but it just didn't work out.



Hope you enjoy these!
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Road Trip
Posted:Mar 19, 2017 12:29 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:22 am
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This weekend my sub and I took a bus trip with our local hockey teams booster club to see our team play against a rival.  While packing I told him to include the new paddle and a cane that would fit into the bag.  He asked why since we didn't have enough time to really play and I just told him to not worry about it.  The bus trip was an adventure and once we made it to the hotel I changed into my shiny black spandex pants and jersey.  My sub said i looked great.   I then told him of the terms for the night, if my team lost, he got the paddles, if they won, he got the canes.  He said if they won that he should be in the clear and I asked him where would the fun be in that.

When we arrived at the arena we had dinner and drinks and then walked around checking things out.  I took pictures with various fans in cool outfits and was asked to be in others.  Hmm, i wonder?  LOL.  Once we got to our seats, my sub was rubbing my pant leg though out the whole game,  as I don't normally wear them to games at home.  Our team won,  and after getting to do more hockey stuff at the arena we headed back to the hotel.

Once we got back to the room, I had him lay down on the bed and I told him to start counting.  I then gave him 10 good hard canes on his ass and upper thighs.  Once he got his ten I moved down to his feet and caned the soles of his feet. 

I still had on my shiny black pants so I told him to roll over and I climbed on the bed and straddled his face and smothered him in a reverse cowgirl position.  While I was doing this he was running his hands all over my butt and thighs, he was really enjoying himself.  After a while,  I turned over to smother him a bit more and grabbed his hair to force his face deeper into my crotch. 

When I figured he couldn't take anymore, I finally laid down and had him take my pants off and use his mouth on me as I was very horny.  I came very quickly on the first orgasm and he continued on.  His tongue felt so good on my clit and I let him play with my nipples as well.  When I finally came it was very hard and intense.  As I was still coming down off the last orgasm I had him kiss and massage my feet, taking off each sock individually and taking his time kissing and licking my feet and toes. In the past year I have found that I love the instep of my feet nibbled on.  I also discovered he has a little foot fetish as well. 

In the morning,  he woke me up by massaging and kissing my butt cheeks.  It felt good,  but I was horny so I rolled over and he went right between my legs and started going down on me again.  After a couple of minutes he got up and started using his fingers on my clit and then slid one finger inside me and after getting really wet he added a second one and it felt really good.  He kept this up for a couple of minutes and I had a fantastic double orgasm.
 
He laid down sideways on the bed and went in between my legs, my legs over him.  I put his lil cock on top of my wet pussy and teased him that this was the closest that he has been to getting inside me in the past 8 months. I let him stay there for about 30 more seconds as I wiggled to tease him and then hopped off the bed and headed to the shower, leaving him hard and frustrated for the bus ride home. 
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Early morning fun
Posted:Mar 11, 2017 12:52 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:21 am
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Last night, my sub wasn't feeling well, so I was very nice and let him sleep unbound and uncaged. I teased him quite a bit, playing with his cock and balls, getting him rock hard, then stopping until he came down and doing it again.  I kept that up for almost an hour, then rolled over and let him go to sleep.

Early this morning about 6AM, I let him use the facilities, then tied him spread eagle to the bed. I proceeded to use my hands to tease him again, alternating between his cock and balls and his nipples. I started sucking on his nipple, teasing him that there was something else I could suck, but I wouldn't. I played for about 30 minutes before going back to sleep.

When it was finally time to get up I woke him up by teasing him again, he got hard pretty quick from all the teasing.  In between sucking his nipple I would tease him about sucking his cock, something I have not done to him for I don't how long, well over a couple of years.  I also teased him by saying maybe he can go two years in denial but that seemed to make him go soft pretty quick.  LOL.

After about 10 minutes of teasing I thought I would give him a huge treat since he's been such a good boy and going over a year of denial. I went down and licked the tip of his cock.  He moaned so loud and tried to stretch up as much as he could while being in the spread-eagle. I closed my mouth around it, and slowly took his lil cock in my mouth and slid up and down about three times. I thought he was going to faint,  lol.  But I stopped immediately, didn't want any accidents. Then I untied him and told him to have a good day and to wonder how long it will be until he gets that reward again.
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Its been a year
Posted:Mar 5, 2017 12:51 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:19 am
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First, thank you to those who left or sent messages hoping for a speedy recovery. Last night was the one-year mark of my sub's orgasm denial and unfortunately all the great plans I had laid out for him fizzled with me not up to par.

The night was not a total loss as I did tie him spread-eagle about 10PM with a blindfold and gag and teased his balls and nipples. I have purposely not been touching his cock that often as he likes that way too much. Also, since he has been in his cock cage so much lately I can't touch it then so I just keep ignoring it when he's out. I did promise him a milking but decided not to as I have plans for the cum when I do and wouldn't be able to do it then.

About 10:20 I started using a vibrator on his nipples and balls that has various speeds. Of course the speed I used was the one that would turn on and off about every 2 seconds so he could not get into a tempo that would give him a lot of satisfaction.

At 10:29 I took off the blindfold and showed him my phone and the status and turned on the vibrator on the low steady setting. I kept it on his balls in the prostate area until 10:30 hit and then stopped. Needless to say he was not happy about this, but oh well. LOL. I put the blindfold back on him and removed the gag and told him to go to sleep as I was going into the other room.



I kept him tied spread until about 1AM as I was not comfortable. At 6AM I woke him up and told him he was going into the cage as I wanted to sleep and not have him moving in the bed. Since it was a chilly morning, for us at least, I made him wear his footie onesie to stay warm. I left him in the cage until 9:30 when I wanted him to cuddle.
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No Cam After All - Sorry
Posted:Mar 4, 2017 4:48 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2017 7:08 am
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Unfortunately, my bad week continued into today, and I am not feeling well enough to do what I had planned. Still hope to do an abbreviated session, just between us, but even that is looking iffy. Of course, he still won't be allowed to cum. I will have to reschedule to another day. Such a bummer.
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Flowers
Posted:Mar 3, 2017 8:27 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:19 am
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So, my sub hubby came home from work yesterday with flowers for me.  He said he bought them because he knew I had had a bad week, and he wanted to cheer me up.  

It was a very nice gesture, and I'm sure had absolutely nothing to do with the fact that tomorrow is the one-year anniversary of his orgasm denial.  I'm sure he never thought, "hmm, maybe if I bring her flowers, she might be so grateful she might just let me cum on Saturday. " Right?  At least, I hope he doesn't think I'm so weak that I would cave just for that. 

But the fact that I've kept him going for a full year, I'm sure has made him realise I will not be persuaded to let him cum until I am good and ready to let him cum.  And it won't be tomorrow,  lol!  Maybe spending the night in here will do him some good.

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Almost a Year
Posted:Feb 28, 2017 5:05 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:18 am
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This is a repost of a message my sub submitted on another site. Think he says it all.

This Saturday will be the one-year anniversary of his last orgasm so I will be teasing and edging him quite a lot this weekend. Hopefully a good deal of it on cam. Here he is spread and caged, he can expect to be like this a lot this weekend.


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I'm a little more than 11 &1/2 months of a year long denial period imposed by my wife/Mistress. At first only regular orgasms were stopped but about 6 months in she stopped anal orgasms as well and also allowing me to go inside her at all. There has been many, many tease & denial sessions over the past year, so its needless to say it has been very sexually frustrating for me.

During this period I have been in chastity for a good portion of it but not able to always wear a device due to work or vanilla events. We recently obtained a new device that she absolutely loves me wearing so it has been on a lot since it was delivered.

My wife has had many orgasms during this time via oral, hands, strapons and a fucking machine so she is always content or sexually satisfied. However, she told me there are other things she wanted to do this past year with me in denial that she hasn't been able to do yet.

With the year ending, she has already told me not to expect to have the denial period end right at the year mark as she already has plans to extend the denial. Also mentioned that since I have not been allowed to cum on my birthday for a number of years, this year should be no different. So I know the time will extend past the end of March. If things work out as she hopes and keeps trying new things her goal would be to keep extending the denial period.

As most in this situation the knowledge of being able to cum has mixed feelings. Who really doesn't like to cum, especially after being denied for a long period of time? But the double-sided effect of a let down from cumming and the drop, as well as wondering if this really pleases your partner plays with the mind. I thought that as the year timeframe came close to an end I would be like "I'm ready to cum now, please", but still mind fucked on the whole thing. Part of it also has to do with how my wife brags about it to others and how proud of her accomplishment she is that will I be letting her down if I came?

She does have plans to have a long tease & denial session on the night of the 1 year mark, which will continue through the next day. As horny as I am now it is difficult to imagine how I will be after this session and keep wondering how long it will be before actually cumming again.
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Long Absence
Posted:Feb 12, 2017 3:46 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:17 am
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Finally getting back to the kinky life. We had an unfortunate family passing and then other family emergencies that changed our plans for a kinky January. We had hoped to meet with a couple of other Femdom's but one flaked anyways and the other was very understanding and we pushed playing with her until the end of February. It will be nice to have a nice long SM session.

My sub is still in his year-long denial and is about 11 1/2 months now. I've told him that he will not have an orgasm right at the year mark, as I plan to make him go just a bit longer. However, he does not know how long of a time frame a "bit" is. It could be a day or could be 3 months. Only I know the day he will get released. I do plan on having a major teasing session to mark the one-year anniversary of his last orgasm. Depending on how things go I might try and cam portions of it on alt. I'll have to see how that goes and if we can get the cam to work. Last time we tried the changes they made we weren't able to connect.

Earlier this month I did purchase a new chastity device for him from Custom Chastity. Its called the Ghost and made of surgical nylon. He's worn it for the better part of the week and increasing the length of time, he's currently going on 3 days in it and I don't plan on letting him out for a few more days to check on him. In his CB-6000s he was able to wear it from 10-21 days without removing it. This one seems better so far as he is able to bend and do more things without it pinching him or squeezing out and its much smaller, which is something I really like about it. The other ones seem so big on him. LOL These photos were taken the first day he wore it. I think it looks great on him.

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Back from Vacation
Posted:Jan 14, 2017 9:34 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:17 am
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Back from vacation and ready to start playing. My sub is now in his 10th month of denial and I'm still having sooo much fun with it. He wasn't milked for about 3 weeks and he was having some testicle issues. I tried to milk him before I left on vacation but the cum wouldn't release so he had to suffer for the next week with the discomfort.

Last night I tried again and after about 25 minutes of a vibrator and massaging between his balls and anus, he was able to release a large amount of cum into a condom. It was a good milking as he did not feel any type of orgasmic feeling so he is still very horny and the pain in his testicle went away almost immediately . I told him to go clean up and get back to the bedroom ASAP.

When he came back I was on the bed and pointed to my pussy, and him being the proper little subby/hubby went immediately between my legs and started servicing me. About five minutes of him using his tongue I pulled the condom out and let some of it drip onto my pussy so he had to lick and clean it up as he continued to service me. I did this another two times as I didn't want to waste it all at once. He was not too excited about this but continued licking. After the third cum dumping I finally came and it felt so good. I had him come up to me and I put the condom in his mouth and squeezed the rest in his mouth and told him not to swallow until he got to the bathroom and to clean up and be ready for bed.

When he came back he was tied in a spread eagle with a blindfold for most of the night. He was released for a couple of hours as he was getting used to being tied again, a week and a half of not being tied and he is out of rhythm. LOL. As we had an empty morning we stayed in bed until about 10AM, it was nice sleeping in on top of a spread eagle sub.

We're hoping to get 2017 rolling in a kinky way as we have a play date with another Mistress next Saturday and making arrangements with another one the following week. Also hoping to get a couple of subs somewhere in the next month to play with. Hope that we don't get a bunch of no shows or cancellations.
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Happy New Year!
Posted:Jan 2, 2017 9:05 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2021 5:15 am
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Hope everyone had a safe and Happy New Year and was able to do some kinky play over the holidays. We ended the year with a bang. OK, more like a bam and sting, LOL. We didn't make any plans for New Years Eve as we had some issues that took a lot of our time and we had been getting up early. It turned out we had the house to ourselves for a couple of hours so I decided to get a little impact play in.

Wasn't sure how much time we had exactly so it was a basic tie for him; face down, arms spread out to the sides of the bed, while lying on a wedge pillow to keep his ass in the air. His legs were secured together to the footboard.

I told him that he would not get any warm up and the strikes would be quick and full strength. Since I didn't want his reaction to be heard by the neighbors I put a panty gag in his mouth. Since it was New Years Eve I thought a special gag was required so I fished an old, worn pair out of the laundry and stuffed them in his mouth.



I started off with my wooden lollipop paddle and his ass got red really quick and he was jumping all around, or trying to at least since he was tied down. After about 25 whacks I moved to my new leather paddle and he got quite a bit more. By now his ass was hot from the paddling so I took a break, removed the gag and left him tied.

After about 10 minutes I came back and put the gag back in and used the 3 different canes on him. Each one had a completely different sting or thud to them. I really like my new thick cane as it has a wide strike area, but I think my original cane will always be my favorite. Once I was done with the canes I picked up the lollipop again and told him that I was going to hit him repeatedly with full strokes until I was tired. I got in about 30 strokes and he was bucking like mad as the strokes got longer in the count.



I left him there for a couple of minutes to regain his composure before releasing him and having him put all the toys away. We then went out to welcome the New Year.
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