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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

Saturday Night Cam Recap - Part I
Posted:Dec 3, 2013 8:05 pm
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2019 7:56 pm
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Well, you would have thought this was our first time camming if you saw our session. Hoping to be on by 4 we had to keep delaying going on-line. Getting to the hotel late, longer to set up than expected and the real amateur move; forgetting the keys to a set of locks we didn't know were locked on the under the bed restraint system. My sub had to go to the local Home Depot to purchase a hacksaw to cut them loose.

After a 2 1/2 hour delay, we were finally on cam. But stress from the evening not going as planned and running out of time before our friends came over to play, things were awkward and probably not very good to those that watched.

There were two highlights from the evening that I very much enjoyed. The first was having my sub on the swing stand and whipping his ass and back. I did get to use my new double floggers on his back and it was very nice. I do have to work getting use to them as one arm was more dominant than the other. We tried for an over the knee spanking but that just did not work out. I didn't want to mark or get him too sore as I wanted to save him for our friend so she could beat him. bslap;

The second highlight was my sub in the swing while I fucked his ass. After getting his ass opened up a little I switched to a larger dildo and it slid right in as he let out a loud gasp from the shock of it. Once inside his ass I started playing with his cock, which for the first time on cam was not in his chastity cage, and slid a sounds in. I have been working on getting him used to moving up on the sounds and I think have done a good job. LOL.

I started to get into a good rythm fucking his ass while moving the sounds in and out. He seemed to enjoy it as he came in the ass a couple of times and after a while he shot out a wad of cum. Luckily I pulled out the sound just in time. Since he made the mess I made sure that some of it made it into his mouth.

After a quick cleanup he was locked into his chastity cage and then put in his punishment cage to await our friends arrival. He thought that he would only be in there for about 15 mins, but poor lil sub was caged for about an hour as they were a little later than expected.



I was nice and after about 1/2 an hour released the ropes tying his balls to the back of the cage and keeping his head to the top of the cage. He stayed in the cage for about another 10 minutes or so after they showed up and our Femdom friend said he could come out.

Next post will be on the session with our friends which was not cammed but went oh so much better.
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New Video - Sounds
Posted:Nov 29, 2013 5:55 pm
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2019 7:56 pm
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For the members that can view videos, I have uploaded a new one which shows me using a sounds in my subs cock while fucking his ass. A little preview of what I hope to do on cam on Saturday.
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Web Cam Session
Posted:Nov 25, 2013 10:29 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2019 9:18 pm
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So we will be at a hotel on Saturday and hope to web cam in the afternoon around 4ish Pacific time. We will be getting to the there about 3 and will take some time to set up. Probably be online for a couple of hours, so hope some of you will be able to watch.

Its been a long time since we've been on cam so hoping this goes well and the Internet connection is good. You never know with hotels.
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Sounds
Posted:Nov 17, 2013 6:20 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2019 9:18 pm
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I have been doing more sound play on my sub, and have finally gotten the hang of it. It is a lot of fun!

I am up to the third size now, and it seems the larger sound I use the easier it goes in. They are going almost all the way in - with less than an inch left out. I was almost afraid the whole thing was going to disappear inside his cock,

Today, I used a vibrator on the sound while it in him. He seemed to enjoy the sensation quite a bit, although this was the first time he didn't release while I was using them. I guess that's the difference with him not being in denial; he is able to hold off, lol.

Here is a picture of the second size, it is only about half-way down. Hopefully he will be opened up enough soon to use the little cage I bought awhile ago.
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40 days
Posted:Nov 8, 2013 12:12 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2019 9:17 pm
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My sub was finally let out of his denial period on Monday evening and allowed to cum inside me. He did take a little longer than I expected considering it had been so long, but it was no marathon. LOL. The next couple of days were a lot better.

He is not in denial again just yet. Have to clean out his plumbing to make sure he is ok. Of course he never knows when I will cut him off or for how long. That's my secret and I like to mess with him.

We'll be in San Francisco early next week and hope to check out some shops and other kinky things in the City. It will be a short trip but hopefully something kinky will come out of it.
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Couple of Busy Weekends
Posted:Nov 3, 2013 10:24 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2019 9:16 pm
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So we have been busy the last couple of weekends and finally in a good way. Last weekend we had dinner with two different Femdom couples, one that we had played with before, and really enjoyed getting to talk kink with like-minded couples. Both couples have been in the lifestyle for awhile and its nice to compare notes.

This past Friday we went to a local dungeon with the couple we played with last month. It was Femdom night at the dungeon so it wasn't that crowded so we were able to play immediately with our choice of equipment. To start off my sub was placed in a spreader bar and his hands raised above his head on a large wooden bench type device. His legs were spread wide with another bar and Clover clamps placed on his nipples. The other sub was placed face down on the bench behind my sub and his Mistress and I took turns paddling his ass with various devices. In between implements one of us would go back to my sub and played with the clamps and raising his arms a number of times.

After the subs ass was a nice shade of red we switched the subs and started the process again. In addition to paddling my subs ass and back his feet were treated to a little torture as well.

We took a quick break and switched rooms, my sub once again with his hands spread high above his head and our friends sub on a paddling bench. This time we not only paddled his ass but flogged his back and caned his feet. We added extra weight on my subs clover clamps to add to the stretch while he was hanging around. This time he was ordered to turn around so we could whip and cane his ass. I was able to flog his back as well during this session. We played for about 45 minutes in this room and towards the end I placed a clothespin zipper on his pubic area. I had a lot of fun teasing him with that and boy did he dance when I finally pulled that off.

At this point our subs were pretty wiped out so we tagged teamed on another sub that we knew from the dungeon. We tormented him for about 45 mins before finally calling it a night.

We compared our subs bruises on Saturday and both had some nice marks left on them.

On Sunday we went to a local dungeons annual bazaar and picked up some new toys, plus a new corset for me. I wanted/needed a new cane and wound up buying both short and long versions. Also finally bought new floggers so I can do double floggings on my sub, something I've been wanting to do for a while. Can't wait to play with everything.
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Denial Continues
Posted:Oct 25, 2013 12:27 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2019 9:15 pm
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So we were suppose to go to a dungeon tonight with our new Femdom friends, but I hurt my back so the visit was postponed. Earlier I had told my sub that he might be able to cum after we played with them again, but since we aren't playing I guess he has to wait a little longer.

We are meeting them for dinner and I'm sure the talk will center on kink so it will just add to his frustration. Maybe a milking when we get home?

We are planning on going to a dungeon next week and I think it would be a good idea to keep him on edge until afterwards. Of course I'm not saying how much longer after, now am I?
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Sounds
Posted:Oct 17, 2013 5:11 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2019 9:14 pm
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I was finally able to use the sounds again on my sub. I had him tied spread-eagle (as usual, LO and blindfolded so he would not see it go inside his cock.

I used a slightly larger sounds this time and once it entered his shaft it slid right in. He was soft when I started to insert it but was hard almost immediately when it went about half way down. The larger side of the sound stopped it from going further.

A mistake I might have made was placing clover clamps on his nipples prior to starting. The sensation of the pinched nipples with the sliding in of the sounds had quite the reaction and he spurted cum within about 10 seconds. ...\8

He said he really didn't get any satisfaction from this so its either going to be deemed a "ruined orgasm" or a milking. His nipples are very sensitive as that is most of the enjoyment he gets while in denial.

Will have to try the sounds again soon without the clamps to see how he does. I love experimenting. LOL
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Latest update
Posted:Oct 13, 2013 11:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2019 9:13 pm
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It occurred to me that I have not updated on the blog of my subs chastity and denial in some time.

Its been about 3 weeks since he has been allowed to cum. While he has not been in the cage all the time, I still keep him in denial. He was left in his cage the weekend after we played with the Femdom couple at the dungeon and I continued to tease him throughout the weekend as he was so horny after the dungeon.

He thought Monday morning after the dungeon when he removed the cage for work that I was going to allow him to cum, but he was very disappointed. During the week he was tied for bed so he was not able to try to "convince" me otherwise. LOL.

I finally milked him this morning much to his dismay. He was really hoping for a different type of release, but I don't think he earned being able to fuck me just yet. We're going out with the same couple again later this month, I doubt if I'll let him cum before then. He'll be much more compliant to us if he's still in denial. This may be a long month for him.
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Friday Night Party
Posted:Oct 5, 2013 6:44 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2019 9:13 pm
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Last night we went to a local dungeon, where we played with another FemDom couple we had recently met. It was FemDom Friday at the dungeon, and we practically had the place to ourselves.

My sub was not completely healed from an injury, so I wasn't able to play with him the way I usually do, so I just suspended him up by his arms with his legs attached to a spreader bar, and then the other Domme and I turned our attention to her sub.

We had him kneeling on a spanking bench, with his hands tied down in front. His feet were tied down in back to keep him in place. We started spanking and paddling him out slowly, first with a long-handled wooden paddle that had a basket type end. As we switched to various types of implements we had both brought. We took turns hitting him everywhere on his butt down to the soles of his feet. We had him tied for about an hour before we released him, with his ass a nice shade of red.

We took turns making sure my sub wasn't completely left out by playing with the clover clamps that I had placed on his nipples about midway through the session.

After a quick rest we moved to the "medical room" and it was my subs turn to take some punishment. He was tied with his feet in the stirrups and his arms down to the sides and his collar tied so he could not lift his head. Out came the clover clamps again as well as plastic clothes pins that went on his balls and chest. The other Mistress had fun with the slapper paddle and kept up a steady rhythm of punishment on my subs inner thighs. Of course the clover clamps came on and off while he was tied so we could torture his nipples. After taking off the clamps for the last time she started whacking his nipples with the slapper while I caned his soles of his feet. He has some nice bruises on his chest as well as his thighs as you can see from the picture. He was daring and still wore shorts the next day.



Once my sub was done, her sub wanted the same treatment which we were too happy to do. So he went on the table and we had fun with him as my sub recovered.

We weren't quite finished yet but took a short break to change rooms and get some water and food. We went back into the first room and it was my subs turn to be tied onto the spanking bench. We took turns caning his ass, legs and feet and also hit him at the same time so he did not get much time to recover between blows. We didn't get to hit him as hard as I would have liked as I didn't want to "damage" him anymore than he already was.

The final session was her sub back on the spanking bench and we gave him a working over again, changing the nice shade of red to a dark shade. Seeing that he has not been on the receiving end of the implements much before, he took everything extremely well.

We called it a night after this and can't wait to play with these two again because they were sooooooo much fun!
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