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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

Plans gone wrong
Posted:May 21, 2010 6:05 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2019 7:56 pm
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Well, we had the house to ourselves for a few hours this evening, so we thought - Hey, cam session! We got the tripod set up in our bedroom, got the laptop table set up next to the bed, and my sub had just stripped out of his clothes and was getting ready to lie down on the bed when we heard the front door open.

Our eldest 's plans had fallen through and she was home for the evening after all! There went our plans for a kinky evening! Thank goodness for our bedroom lock, lol! So, we ended up just watching a couple of tv shows for a while, while our made alternate plans.

Once the house was empty again, we realized we only had about 45 minutes until the next was due back home, which wasn't enough
time for a cam session. But it was enough time to play a little.

So off went my subs clothes a second time, and I had him lying on his back on the bed. He was locked up in his cb6k, so I teased him for a while, licking his balls, and making him get hard inside his cage. Then I stripped off my thong and climbed up on his face had him eat me out until I came a few times, while I played with his nipples.

All in all, it was a nice evening, even if we didn't get to go on cam. Maybe tomorrow night the will cooperate, lol!
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Yes, we're still here!
Posted:May 15, 2010 10:32 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2019 7:52 pm
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Sorry it has been so very long since I have posted. I can't believe how time just gets away from me.

We have been doing a some playing just between the two of us; private sessions rather than playing with other couples or broadcasting online. But there have been some pretty good sessions, and we did videotape a couple of them, and took pictures of others, so we might post some later on.

He has been on and off of denial, and I have really been enjoying those wonderful new condoms. They are such a delight - for me! He, of course, isn't quite as fond of them, as he knows when we use them he isn't going to get to cum.

I did one session where he was tied spread-eagle, and I used about forty clothes pins on various tender parts of his body, and he was gagged so he couldn't complain. That was a fun one.

We hope to start playing a lot more often, online and off, alone and with others. And, of course, on cam! I for one am ready to push the envelope and do more and see if I can really make him scream, LOL. And I love company, so the more the merrier. And I am still looking for the right female sub to play with. I can't wait to try that, domming a female and my sub at the same time!
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15 Days in Denial
Posted:Mar 2, 2010 1:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2019 4:37 pm
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Yes, it has been fifteen days so far, and he still has not been allowed to cum, although I have fucked his ass a number of times, lol. He does get a great deal of enjoyment out of that, however, I never touch his cock while I am doing it, and he is usually tied during the course of it, so he can't try and jerk himself off, so he can't shoot off a wad while he is getting reamed. Poor baby!!! He is getting so very frustrated now.

I have attempted to milk him a couple of times, but to no avail. A lot of pre-cum, but I guess he just hasn't built up enough semen yet to let loose. Maybe tomorrow night I will have better luck (I will be working late tonight and won't be able to try).

Haven't had a chance to use those wonderful condoms again yet, but I am afraid at this point even they wouldn't stop him from cumming, he is so damn horny, lol. He has gone down on me most nights, either with me just sitting on his face while he is tied up in bed, or with him kneeling on the floor with his hands behind his back. Either way, I get to cum, and he gets nothing. Which is the way it should be, right, girls? And actually, it's not that he gets nothing - he gets the satisfaction of knowing that he satisfied me!

We weren't able to get out to a dungeon or hotel and have a real play session this month as we had hoped, but hopefully soon we will have a chance to really play in earnest again and there will be some new videos and pictures to share with you.
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Wonderful New Condoms!!!
Posted:Feb 23, 2010 8:52 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2019 4:35 pm
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Just starting to get back into the swing of things after too long of a delay. Man, its amazing how just a minor little surgery can knock you for a loop, lol.

We have slowly been getting back into bdsm: light bondage at night,
some playing over the weekend, getting back onto alt as much as I can. He has been in denial for the past nine days, and today I thought I would give him, and myself, a little treat.

Last week, I purchased some wonderful new condoms, called Trojan's Extended Pleasure. They have a numbing lube on his side of the condom. So, today, I got him hard, and rolled the condom onto his cock and rubbed the lube all over. And then we started to fuck, and man did it feel good, for me, at least. The only problem was, he was numb, and couldn't feel it well enough to cum!!!

We were able to change positions four or five times, with me cumming each time, and he just couldn't get enough feeling to get his rocks off. By the time I had had enough, he was just about able to cum, and I made him stop. Man, was he pissed!

But, it was such an enjoyable afternoon for me. I strongly recommend these condoms to all you ladies in charge out there, lol. As I told my sub this afternoon, they are worth their weight in gold!! With these, I'm not sure I'll let him cum again, lol.

Ms Jay
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No good updates
Posted:Feb 8, 2010 1:08 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2019 4:30 pm
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Well, its been a while since I've posted anything but I haven't been able to due to some minor neck surgery which has limited my movements. The web cam session we had in the last post was my last hurrah before the surgery as I knew that I would be out of commission for at least 6 weeks. So I'm glad we had a good time.

About another two weeks to go and hoping to be able to go to a dungeon party later this month. Not sure how much I will be able to do but it would be nice to be out among kinky people again.

He's been kept in denial for the past couple of weeks by necessity. But the last couple of days I have been up to doing things and have been very horny and so he has been able to have releases. Which he is enjoying very much.

Hoping to get into the "swing" of things again very soon if you get my drift.

Ms Jay
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What a Blast!!!
Posted:Jan 23, 2010 9:40 am
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2019 4:14 pm
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Despite the rain and in-climate weather, we were able to get together to play Friday night with our friends and the web cam went off as planned. For those of you who missed it, you REALLY missed something!! We had a blast.

We used strap-ons on both guys, tag-teaming them at times. There was one great time where the other Domme was on her back on the floor with my sub straddling her strapon, and me standing over her face, with my sub eating me out. Definitely a Kodak moment, LOL. Her sub was kneeling in the corner, hands behinds his back, with a hood over his head, so he couldn't even enjoy the show.

We used a variety of whips and paddles on both of them, again tag-teaming on them, sometimes doing both at the same time, sometimes switching partners. Her sub quickly learned that I have a much heavier hand with the whip then she does,

We had them tied in many different positions, using ropes, cuffs, arm binders, and even saran wrap. We even had them tied spread eagle to the beds, one face up, the other face down, at one point.
At that time, I sat on my sub's face while he had on a two-ended dildo gag, and she sat on her sub's back with a dildo strapped to it. We really enjoyed that.

We used a hell of a lot of clamps - clover clamps, adjustable clamps, and of course, good ol' clothes pins! We twisted the hell out of them, played with them for the longest time. I honestly think their nipples are going to be sore for the next week!! We made a game of seeing who could make their sub scream first (her sub lost), and then we switched subs a few times as well.

All in all, it was a fantastic evening. I think we played for about four hours, all online! Hopefully we can do it again real soon. I know I can't wait for round 2!!! Any other FemDom couples out there looking to play in real-life?

Ms Jay
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Friday Night, 1/22, Cam Show
Posted:Jan 18, 2010 9:45 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2019 4:12 pm
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Just wanted to give everyone notice that we will be web camming on Friday evening sometime after 7PM Pacific time. We will be with another couple so things may be a little different from our other cam shows, but it will be interesting. There might be two cams going as well.

If you need to know what time it will be in your time zone please look up a time calculator on Google.

Hope you can watch.

Ms Jay
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Saturday Night Webcam Fun
Posted:Jan 10, 2010 6:36 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2019 4:10 pm
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For all of you that tuned in last night for at least part of our webcam, Thank You very much. I hope you enjoyed it as much as we did!

We webcammed for over three hours straight, starting a little later than we expected due to technical difficulties (you never know what you are going to run into when you rent an hotel room, lol). We started broadcasting around 7:30, and went until about 11:45, so I guess it was actually four hours, LOL. My, how time flies when you are having fun!

I started out with him tied to a chair. His arms, hands feet, legs, shoulders and back were all tied down with rope, and he had a hood on that was tied back as well so he couldn't move his head. He was wearing his new CB6Ks, and nothing else. I began the session by putting clothespins all over his chest and crotch area, then left them on while I talked to people online for a while, then I removed them one at a time, and twisted and squeezed while he had to remain quiet, because of neighboring rooms, LOL.

I did a number of things throughout the night, including strap-on play, paddling, clamps, having him go down on me, and having him fuck me with a device that goes over his cb. I had a few costume changes throughout the night as well, just to keep things interesting. The night ended with him tied up for the night, spread-eagle across the king-sized bed in the room. He's used to sleeping this way in a queen-size bed but I was able to stretch him a bit more in this bed.

While he was fucking me with the facilitator, which is the device that fits over his cb, he actually came! He got hard in his cb, and came through the cage! I couldn't believe it! I told him he would have to be punished, but I couldn't whip or cane him in the hotel room because it would make too much noise, and the neighbors would have heard. So I told him he would be both caned and whipped with the rubber whip (which leaves a very nasty mark!) when we were alone at home. Also, as punishment, his time of denial would be doubled. Of course, since he didn't know how long he was supposed to be denied, he doesn't know if it is now going to be doubled from 2 weeks to 4 weeks, or from 2 months to 4 months! Poor baby!!!

For those who weren't able to peek in on us at all through the night - I'm sorry you missed this one! Hopefully we can get an empty house soon, or find an excuse to rent another hotel room in the not too distant future, and you can catch up with us then.

Talk to you all soon.

Ms Jay
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Web Camming
Posted:Jan 9, 2010 4:29 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2019 4:08 pm
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We're having a night out tonight to play and hopefully the hotel has decent internet service so that we can broadcast some of our fun. This is for Saturday January 9th after 6PM Pacific time until we get to tired, LOL. Please don't send a message asking what time it means in your timezone, google a time calculator.

We're going to see how much we can do at the hotel and have a nice selection of toys already packed and ready to go. If you watch, say hi.

Ms Jay
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New Year's Treat
Posted:Jan 6, 2010 9:34 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 9:17 pm
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Well, I did let him cum on New Year's day, once about 1:30 in the morning, and once again about 8:00AM. And then later on that day, back on went the CB6Ks, and there it has stayed, LOL.

He thought once it came off, he was going to get to stay out for a while, and actually cum quite a few times (which is what I usually do after a long denial spell). But this time, he only got the holiday treat, and that was it.

I haven't told him how long it will be this time, but at least a couple of milkings will take place before he gets to cum again the normal way, or what is normal for him .

So who else has been locked up since the New Year? Or wishes they were? Dommes, what plans do you have for long-term denial. Would love to hear your plans and schemes.

Ms Jay
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