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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

Ass Whipping
Posted:Oct 17, 2009 12:21 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2015 9:29 pm
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So a special treat, two posts in two days but this one is needed. I received a call Friday afternoon from a couple we met on Alt and have gone to drinks with a few times, always wondering when we would play. They were free for the evening and so were we so we packed our "bags" for an evening of fun.

After some light snacks and kinky conversation we got down to business. My sub was first and we had him on the couch with his shirt pulled up and shorts at his knees and proceeded to paddle and cane his backside which included back, ass and legs. He took it quite well and our friend can hand out the punishment as well as me and seemed to enjoy herself a lot.

After my sub's ass was good and red he stepped aside and we then got to enjoy paddling and caning her husbands ass and back. We took it a little easier on him and he enjoyed it as well. Going from hard to light between the two was a challenge as sometimes I just wanted to give him a good hard one ?*.

So it was my sub's turn for round two and this time his shirt was off and shorts down around the ankles for an even harder session. The funniest part of the second time around was when he yelled out "chuck roast" during a spanking game she created. Our friends will find that funny so we put it there to remind them. I really enjoyed the the mind games she played with him, it was so much fun. We were really getting into, I can't remember a time when I enjoyed BDSM more! She really tortured him when she took off his socks and went to town on his feet. After dishing out more whips, paddling and back scratching he was told to get up.

Round two for our friends husband was just a little heavier and after awhile I was doing the paddling only and really got into just doing the lighter side of the SM thing and hearing him moan, especially liking his chills when I started scratching his back. I played with him for about 15 minutes by myself.

We had a great time and are looking forward to more extended play times with this couple in the near future. This is a very busy weekend for us and who knows, you may get a third posting this weekend from me with tonight's activities. Have a great day.
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One day shy of a month
Posted:Oct 16, 2009 12:42 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2015 9:28 pm
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Yes, it has been twenty-nine days since he has last cum, and he is still going strong, (or still going weak, however you want to say it, lol)! He has been milked a total of three times in that period, but no actual cum.

Yesterday was the best, I thought. I woke him up early by going down on him, something I very seldom do. I kept at for a long time, stopping whenever he started to pump or get a rhythm going. I sucked his cock, and his balls, and basically drove him crazy with my tongue. When I knew he was about to cum, I stopped. Then I straddled his stomach, (wearing nothing but a tiny thong) and bent down and started to suck on his nipples and bite and kiss his neck. He was going crazy by now, so I got up, and told him to go get ready for work, and that he would get something good at lunch.

So he came home from work, thinking he was finally going to get to cum, (after all, it had been almost a month), and I told him to take off all his clothes. He eagerly complied, then I had him lie down on the bed. Then much to his chagrin, out comes the trusty old prostate massager and lube, and I proceed to milk him yet again.

Now, I have not been successful at milking every time I have tried, but this time, man did he blow!! I guess sometimes after so much teasing and build-up, you just have to let it out! So after cleaning up the mess, he got to get dressed again, and go back to work, unfulfilled and unsatisfied yet again. But at least with a load off, lol. Until next time,
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22 days and he's really feeling the pain!
Posted:Oct 9, 2009 4:47 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2015 9:27 pm
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Yesterday afternoon, he came home for lunch. He only has about an hour for lunch, so I decided to make it worth my while. He has a real fetish for little girl outfits, or school girl outfits, and being a Domme, I seldom dress up like that for him. But seeing as he is being denied cumming, I thought it would be a real cruel tease to dress up like that for him, meet him at the door, make him think he was getting something, and still deny him. So when he got home for lunch yesterday, this is what he saw



He really thought he was going to get to cum, as I led him into the bedroom. I had him undress and lie down on the bed, then I took out the leather paddle and proceeded to paddle him until his ass was bright red. Then I took the cane and and gave him ten whacks with the cane right across his already red ass. I told him to get dressed again, that that was all he was getting. He couldn't believe it. Even after he saw the paddle he still thought he was going to get to cum afterward. Silly boy!
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My latest teasing
Posted:Oct 4, 2009 4:59 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2015 9:26 pm
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So it has now been 17 days since he's cum and he's getting hornier every day, LOL. The first week or so I was under the weather and he got nothing, and I mean NOTHING. Things were looking better for him, or so he thought, early last week but he never was allowed to cum.

The past few days I have a new trick for him which he isn't too fond of. Either before we go to sleep or when we wake up, either way he's tied, I get him hard and then slip him in me. Because he's tied his movements are limited and I control everything. Because I'm not feeling 100%, ok more like 40%, I don't want to cum but it feels nice having a cock in me. So he's trying to pump away and once I've had my fill I slip off and he's left hard and wet but not from his cum, . If it's night I roll over and go to sleep or if its the morning he gets unlocked and kicked out of bed to get ready for work. He isn't wearing his CB's right now because I'm enjoying this too much.

This afternoon I wanted him out of the way and he wanted to watch football. I won.



I was in a mood to have him very restrained and not bother me while I did other things in the room. He was put in his full body zential suit with mask before being placed in the bag. His feet are cuffed together and his hands are cuffed behind his back.
Our most restrictive hood was placed on his head over the mask and locked to the headboard. Once in the bag the straps were tied down and his legs secured to the footboard.

He was left this way for about one and a half hours while I did other things in the room. Of course there was the occasional teasing on his nipples and cock, but with all the layers it was a little difficult. Not too mention he was pretty worked up and I didn't want to have him have an accident. I'm thinking he needs to be milked again tonight as I've built up a lot of pressure.

How long will I keep him from cumming? He asked me that yesterday and at first I told him I thought about until my birthday, which is only 5 days away. However, with the milking and the fact I like leaving him in this condition I've decided its going to be a lot longer than that. How does a Christmas present sound?
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Can You Say MOO???
Posted:Sep 29, 2009 5:33 am
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2015 9:23 pm
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So my sub started complaining that he really needed some release, that the pressure was really starting to build up and his poor balls were hurting. Poor baby!! I really did feel sorry for him, so I decided to take care of him, my own way.

Last night, I got out a special vibrator, that is made for anal stimulation. I had him on the bed on all fours, and inserted the vibrator in his ass, and started to massage the prostate.

It took about fifteen minutes, but suddenly a huge release of seminal fluid squirted out. It was not a cum, he was not even hard, it was definitely a milking. I told him to say moo!!

Now that he has had the release of pressure, I told him he doesn't need to cum for at least another two weeks. Ha ha!
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Nine days and counting
Posted:Sep 26, 2009 6:21 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2015 9:22 pm
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Well, not too much to blog about as we haven't done much in the past nine days. He was gone on a trip for four days, and I teased him over the phone and by texting, telling him of how I was using the vibrator and didn't miss him at all. He came home expecting that I would let him cum, but by the time he got home, I wasn't feeling well, so he got nothing. And when I say nothing, I mean NOTHING - no tweaking of the nipples, no teasing, no anything at all for the last five days.

He has just had to suffer in total denial. I figure, if I don't feel good, why should he? Right? As soon as I start to feel better, maybe I'll let him cum. Or then again, maybe I won't.
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Screw the Denial - I got some last night!!!!
Posted:Sep 14, 2009 12:34 pm
Last Updated:Nov 1, 2015 2:21 pm
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So last night, after a wonderful evening spent with a great couple talking about kink all evening long, we got home and I started to tease him. He thought I was just going to tease and walk away like I usually do, but I was pretty worked up myself after the evening talk, so I just climbed up on top of him and rode him hard. Needless to say, he didn't complain!

So, he rolls over and goes to sleep, perfectly content, but even though I had cum hard, I was still horny. I lay there for another forty minutes thinking about sex and everything we had talked about during the evening, and just got myself all worked up again.

Not really caring that it was now almost midnight, and he had to be up very early the next morning, I started playing with his cock and nipples, and got him hard. He woke up, and asked what I had in mind, and I said "get on top, I want more!" Again, he didn't complain.

So after nine days of denial he got to cum twice in less than an hour! At his age, I was impressed he was able to, lol!

To the wonderful couple from last night, you know who you are, thank you very much.
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A little tease
Posted:Sep 12, 2009 9:55 am
Last Updated:Nov 1, 2015 2:20 pm
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So last night he came home and I was already in bed. I was only dressed like this



So before he was able to get into bed I had him caress and kiss my ass for a few minutes. He tried playing in front a few times but I kept telling him "NO!". Due to outside commitments he wasn't wearing his chastity device so he thought he might be able to get something more.

After I was content with my ass being kissed, I had him get into bed and tied him down for the night. I started teasing him by stroking his cock and alternated by kissing and pinching his nipples to get him even more worked up. Remember that he has not cum for six days at this point and has been locked up so this was the first time his cock had been touched in that time.

He knew that I had played with two other subs earlier in the evening online, as I texted him to tease him about it as I knew he wasn't able to come home, so I should be pretty worked up. The first was a local male sub and its interesting what you can make someone do with a carrot and web cam.

The second was a submissive girl who I teased about a fantasy of hers and one that we have been talking about for a while. I'm wondering if and when she will really want to make this fantasy a reality??? I know I'm ready.

So back to my sub, here he was all worked up and tied down and I'm pretty much naked on top of him and tell him the big news, "good night". When he protested I told him that I already came a couple of times tonight while he was gone, once in the shower with my shower massage and then a couple of more times with the bullet when I knew he was on the way home.

In the morning I left him tied while I wrote this and he will find out his fate later today that he is still going to be denied a little longer, or a lot longer.
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In his CB
Posted:Sep 10, 2009 2:41 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2016 7:42 pm
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My sub has been wearing his cb2000, interchanging intermittently with the cb3000, for a while now. Night before last, I had him tied to the bed, not spread-eagle as usual, but with his hands above his head, slightly apart, and his legs to the footboard, again slightly apart, just enough that he couldn't put them together.

I thought it would be a nice break from the spread-eagle, as he would be able to roll over to sleep, albeit with some difficulty, but still, roll over. I was being nice, and yet he had the gall to complain to a friend that he didn't sleep well because he was tied too tightly. I told her I didn't know what he was talking about, I slept fine!

But, just to be sure that he knew I wasn't pleased with his comment, he slept the same way last night. Only I teased a lot more, and kept him awake a lot longer, so he really had something to complain about this morning. And, when we woke up, I was so horny, I made him go down on me and make me cum, while he was begging to have his cb taken off so he could cum too. Guess what? It's still on. And, he had to ride his bike to work today, as well. So Dea, if he complains again, let me know, lol!
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Smothering and Humiliation
Posted:Sep 3, 2009 4:13 pm
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2017 6:50 am
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I hadn't let my sub cum since last Monday, (that was a week ago Monday, not this past Monday), so he has been incredibly horny these past few days. Yesterday found us with an unexpected empty house after dinner, so I decided to take advantage of it.

I ordered him into the bedroom and forced him to strip. I laid out an outfit for him that I had been saving for just such an occasion. I had a denim micro-mini skirt and a white blouse with a camisole underneath that I made him put on, and a pair of white anklet socks, and a pair of white keds tennis shoes. I had a pair of white lace panties that I had had made specially for him that he had to put on as well. Those of you who have seen pictures of him know that I have made him grow his hair long right now, and I parted it down the middle and put it in two pony tails. He was totally humiliated!

I made him lie down on the bed and I tied him spread eagle, with a ball gag strapped on to his face. Then I proceeded to humiliate him and I even took a few pictures of him for good measure! I may even post some later on. I took the nipple clamps and played with them for a while, did a little face slapping, then I took the gag off and sat on his face.

He was so horny by this time, that when I started to smother him by sitting on his face, I reached back and tweaked a nipple and he actually came!!! Would you believe it!! No stimulation to his cock at all, just my sitting on his face and he squirted all over the place!! Well, of course, he had to be punished for that!! But first, I had to finish riding his face. Then I pulled the panties off him, and he had to clean the cum off them with his mouth. Then he got the cane. He really needs to learn better control, lol!

Ms Jay
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