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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

After Hockey Fun
Posted:Nov 7, 2022 11:47 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 6:01 pm
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This post will repeat in the comment section since words get cut out...

This past week we have not been able to do much as it was a pretty busy vanilla week and my sub worked longer than normal at his job.

Friday we took a drive to another City to see a hockey game so we were able to talk a lot about kink then. On the way back we listened to some kinky podcasts as it was a same day turnaround trip.

On Sunday evening we had a hockey game which my team lost, again. It's going be a rough year. We did plan for a little play fun for after the game. When we got to the arena we drove around a little to scout locations while there was light and found a couple of places that would work, away from the street and no cameras.

After the game we got to the car and my sub set up the tripod and light. Then we drove to the locations we visited earlier. The best location had someone working nearby with the big door opened, so we went to option 2. Always have options my sub says and it worked out. LOL Option 2 was more of an open area which I prefer as the risk of being spotted is higher, it's the exhibitionist in me.

So we parked and we got out and set up the camera on the ground and I was ready in position. It was a cold night, by Southern California standards, and we just left an ice rink so he was in a hurry. Record was pressed and he came over to the car and I gave him 10 quick strokes. I really wished I could have used my left arm as I would have been able to hit harder.



The smacks sounded so nice being outside, but unfortunately, the fun didn't last that long. As soon as I was done with the 10 smacks, he jumped up to pull his pants back up as he was cold. It was a very quick play but being outside and in the open was a huge turnon. Of course when we got home and into the warm bed he made sure I was satisfied before going to sleep. Hopefully we can do this again and a little longer.

For those of you who can view videos, it will be in our profile.
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Can't seem to catch a break, figuratively
Posted:Oct 31, 2022 12:15 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 6:00 pm
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So it seems like we haven't been able to catch a break lately with play. I have been feeling better and thinking that I could do some light play with my sub this past weekend as I thought we would have an empty house on Saturday night. My thinking was some light impact play and nipple torment on him followed by a lot of oral and strapon play to finish the night. It would light play as earlier in the week I thought my arm was better and gave him a smack only to find out that my arm is still healing. Man, did that hurt and not in a kinky way.

Well, it turned out the one that lives at home was going to be gone for the evening, but then found out one of the who had moved out was coming home overnight. So that changed plans dramatically. By the time we finally got into bed, it was too late to do anything as I was getting up early in the morning to go to Disneyland for a few hours.

So, to tease my sub on what he would have seen while we played, I put on the short skirt I had planned on wearing and modeled it for him before heading to bed. As a further tease, I didn't tie him for sleep so he could feel it as I left it on all night long. I will have to wear it more often as I woke up a number of times with him running his hands over the skirt and under. He would also catch one of his fingers in the belt loop to caress my body underneth the skirt and not slip off.



In the morning, I decided to give him a quick treat and sat on his face for a brief time and turned around so he could enjoy all sides of the skirt. I thought it looked nice and can't wait to wear it for a cuckold session and see how both my sub and FWB react.

Last night he slept tied again in his usual way and was also off work today so I decided he was going "sleep in". Which means he would be tied and teased all morning after I got out of bed. Before I got out of bed I did climb up and sit on his face and had two really hard orgasms. It was a good way to start the morning. When I went into the room at various times I would play with his cock, balls or nipples. At one point I left the clover clamps on him for about 20 mins before coming back in to take them off and bite his nipples. I also took the time to bite his sides and left some nice marks. It was a fun morning.
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Been Awhile
Posted:Oct 24, 2022 2:27 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:58 pm
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We haven't been on much lately as vanilla life and a couple of injuries have slowed us down. But with both of us almost being healed, we are getting back into kinky play very soon. While the injury I sustained could have been more kinky/sexier it was just me slipping out of a hot tub and breaking my elbow. Man, did that hurt. The sexier part could have been that I was actually having sex with someone and lost my balance but unfortunately that wasn't the case. My sub had an injury about the same time so it was best to just take it easy.

But just because I wasn't able to do anything to him with my paddles and canes, I did start another denial period for him and he is currently at 27 days. Of course while taking care of my elbow I was still being pleasured, but instead of holding his hair with both hands as he used his mouth on me it was only with one for now. Slowly I'm starting to get back into the habit of using both hands.

Not sure how log this denial period will be for him but I don't think he should expect a Christmas miracle. Hopefully more to come soon.
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Sounds
Posted:Sep 7, 2022 1:19 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:58 pm
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Its been very hot in Southern California the past week and a half, and this weekend it was over 100 so play has been very limited. Haven't even tied him up for sleep its been so hot that he sweats all in one spot. So mostly I have only tied him for a couple of hours in the morning for some teasing.

I've wanted to play with something different than what I've been using and brought out the sounds kit. He was blindfolded so he couldn't see me getting it out but his attention became very alert when he heard them rattle when I opened the case. LOL. I started to massage his balls to relax him and giving him little strokes on the cock shaft.

It's been a few years since I've used the sounds on him so I started with the second smallest rod. Of course the diameter of his cock isn't that big so I'm not able to use the largest ones on him. These rods have two sizes, one half is larger than the other. I started with the smaller end first and it took a few seconds to glide it in. Once I was able to get it moving it stuck at the larger end. I tried to move it back and forth and also removing it completely, but no luck.

So after a few minutes of frustration I took it out completely and tried the larger side in his cock. It took some effort but I was finally able to get the sound end and when I let it go, the whole rod slid right into his shaft. I think it's so cool when it slides in on its own. I left it in him while I took some pictures and played with his nipples.



I spent about 20 minutes playing with it and tried the next size up as well but wasn't able to get it in him. To change things up on him I used a vibrator on the shaft of the rod and he jumped so hard it was a good thing I had him tied down. I played with the vibrator for a few minutes. That was the only sensation he felt as the room was warm so the rods weren't freezing like they nornally are when I use them. He hates when I put a cold rod in so most of the time I run it under cold water before play. I wasnt happy that I wasn't able to get more than the one in , I will have to practice more to stretch him out again.
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Happy Anniversary - lows and highs
Posted:Aug 23, 2022 8:53 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:57 pm
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This weekend was our wedding Anniversary. I know that a lot of couples on here say they wish they could have met someone in the scene earlier. My sub and I are the exception. We met when we were very young, talked about BDSM on our first date, and have encorporated it into our entire marriage. So it is only fitting that for our anniversary, instead of the traditional flowers and dinner, we do something kinky and out of the ordinary for most.

Once I started to cuckold my sub, I thought it would be especially evil on special occasions such as Valentine's Day, our birthdays and anniversary, to get a hotel and meet with a guy for me to fuck, before going on to have a full BDSM session with my sub after. I was really hoping to do that again this year, now that the whole covid scare is over. We originally had a hotel room for Saturday night but found out we would have an empty house both Friday and Saturday so cancelled it. Bad idea. Friday turned out one of the was sick so stayed home and that messed up an impact session I had planned. Figured we still had most of Saturday and would just do a little more that night. Well, Saturday didn't prove any better for us. Cancelled plans turned into another day of no play for us at home and I was really regretting canceling the hotel room now.

We didn't have time for a whole night in a hotel, but we had a couple of hours to meet up with someone if the location and timing was right. I was horny and didnt want to pass up an opportunity. Went online and immediately was pinged by someone that I had been exchanging messages with for awhile, but had not met up with before and he was never verified. So about 15 minutes of IM's and a call to verify we were both real we headed out under the guise of "going shopping". I was excited and horny, and teased my sub on the way over to his place that this was the way all our special occasion days would be from now on. My sub was locked in his cage, and very frustrated, and horny as well and pretty soon all he would be able to do was hear me having fun.

We got to the guy's place, and he was waiting at the door shirtless and noticed he had a nice upper body. We went in, and immediately went upstairs to the bedroom. We knew we only had a couple of hours, so I didn't want to waste any time that we had, lol.

My sub set up the video then undressed, and I blindfolded him and tied him to a chair in the doorway of the room, leaving the door open so that I could see him in his cage. The guy was very surprised when he saw how small the cage he was wearing was. We started kissing and undressing each other, and he put on a condom, and then, nothing. I mean, nothing. We tried for an hour, and he was beating himself up, but he just couldn't perform. He wasn't as much embarrassed as pissed off, as he had been trying to get together with me for almost 3 years. He kept telling me it was just nerves or something, and begged me to give him another chance later, and not to write him off. My sub later told me that he noticed he kept tugging at his cock while he was getting things setup and while the guy was pretty big, he wasn't getting hard so he was wondering how things were going to go.

I went home frustrated and hornier than before so I told my sub I was going to let him fuck me later tonight at home. Man, was he excited! I kept telling him all afternoon and evening how good it was gong to feel for both of us, with him pumping into me, hard and fast and deep. I was really getting him turned on!

So when it was finally time to head to bed without looking too obvious, I went into the room to get ready. When he came into the room, he saw me lying on the bed, and next to me, the strap-on that goes over his cage that he can fuck me with and he realized I wasn't going to let him out to fuck me. His face just dropped. I asked him why he thought I would have him fuck me with his little cock, that would go soft, when I had a nice, big one right here, that would stay hard forever? And also why would I want to let him go inside me since we have a nice streak going of over 6 months since he's been inside me. I wouldn't want to ruin it after this short period of time now would I?

So he fucked me with the strap-on and did a great job with it as I came multiple times, and then followed up with going down on me afterwards for additional orgasms. It helped that i had put numbing cream on his cock before we started so he could go a long time without any issues. So after a very awkward and frustrating two days of not getting some play in, I was finally able to enjoy myself and it turned out to be a very nice anniversary after all, as I came and he he remained frustrated. So as I mentioned earlier, today was not something that you could bring up in an ordinary conversation.
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Bag Time!
Posted:Aug 18, 2022 11:28 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:56 pm
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Last week after the impact session I had wanted to play again the next evening as we had the house to ourselves again, but I wasn't feeling well. I still wanted to torment my sub a little while I rested as he had a long week and decided to place him in the canvas body bag.

I love this bag as it's very thick and heavy and he says it's very hot when he's zipped in. It was a 90+ degree day so it would be perfect for a session and not let him be too comfortable.

When he came home from work I told him I wasn't feeling well enough for a complete play session but had an alternative and let's head to the bedroom. He of course thought we were going to have sex but figured out very quickly that wasn't going to happen when he saw the bag.

When I told him to strip and to get ready to be put in the bag. He started to complain that it was too warm and it would get too hot. I just looked at him and he started undressing. I had the isolation hood on the bed as well. This hood is very thickly padded and he can't see or hear much once it's on. He also has limited movement with his head from side to side. The only thing missing is a way to secure it to the headboard. I have to have him add a ring on the top soon. To add to his isolation I put wireless earbuds on him. Before securing the hood on his head I gave him a pill to take and told him it would relax him, then he was laced and strapped up in the hood.

Now I maneuvered him onto his back and helped him get into the bag. This bag also has arm slots so he had to shimmy up first and then shimmy down to make the fit right. Once he was centered and his arms were sealed I started to zip up the bag. The bag has 3 zippers so the first one went up to his neck and he thought that would be it. But I had other plans. I then pulled the other 2 zippers to his crotch so his cock was left outside the bag. I played with him for a couple of seconds before starting to make his confinement tighter with the straps that wrap around his body. Once the straps were done I secured the bag to the bed using the 6 straps from the under the bed restraint system. He was very snug and not going anywhere, though I still would have liked to secure his head to the headboard. LOL

I played with his cock a little more and then leaned in to his ear so I know he could hear me through the hood and ear buds. Nothing was playing yet so he could hear me if I talked loud. I told him that I knew that he didn't get to use his viagra pills very often so that is what I gave him to enjoy his time in the bag. He started to complain and wiggle as much as he could as ingave his cock a little pat before moving away.

We have an old phone with various video clips on it and I told him I was going to let him relax and enjoy his time in the bag. I then selected a 3 minute clip of me during a cuckold session where I was extremely loud as it was in one of my favorite positions, me sitting on a table while the guy is standing in front fucking me. The camera was very close so it picked up everything especially me saying "fuck me" and "harder" in various tones. I thought him hearing this clip over and over while he was secured would be a great way for him to spend his time in the bag. I put the sound loud enough so he wouldn't be able to hear me come in and out of the room.



I played with his cock a little longer before kissing the hood and telling him to enjoy his rest. He was already getting hard and I don't think it was from the pill. As I left the room I decided that he didn't need the fan on and shut both the light and fan off and went out to relax on the couch. For those worried about him being left alone, I can keep an eye on him via a cam so I would know if there was any trouble, and I can hear him, so he just needs to cough if he needs help.

I went to check on him a few times and he seemed to be enjoying his predicament as he was hard and leaking a lot. I was nice one time and gave his cock a few strokes but then just left him frustrated. Through the cam I could see him trying to move his body to get any type of relief on his cock, but to no avail. He would just stay a horny little guy.

After about 2 hours I decided he had enough in the bag and released him from the bag, but kept the hood and video playing. I walked him into the bathroom so he could relieve himself and then brought him back to the bed and tied him in a spread eagle. I laid down with him for a few minutes and played with his nipples, but not too much as he was still very horny. I kept away from his cock as it was still semi-hard and I wanted to frustrate him as he was lifting his hips trying to get me to play but I ignored him. But seeing how much he was moving I put the bondage belt around his waist and strapped it to the side so now he had very limited movement. I love a tightly bound sub.

I left him tied for about an hour before finally releasing him. After 3 hours of hearing me cum over and over again he was very horny so I made sure to stay away from his cock. Wouldn't want to have any accidents to happen now would we. It was a nice evening for both of us as I got to relax and he was secured very tightly which I know he enjoys very much.
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Play Time!
Posted:Aug 15, 2022 9:54 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:55 pm
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This post is about a week late as vanilla life took over the past week or so and will bevrepeated in the comment section.. We finally got an empty house, so I decided that impact play was in order.

We went into the bedroom I had my sub strip and lay face down on the bed, securing his hands to the side of the bed and his feet to the foot of the bed. He had too much play with his feet so I connected them again so they were locked on both ends and he had very little wiggle room and keeping his legs very straight. A blindfold over his eyes and we were ready for play.



I decided not to use any crops this time, so I started out warming him up with a leather paddle, one of the easiest in the collection. I began slow and easy, then started to go a little harder and faster until he was really red, and was beginning to try to move away from the hits. Of course, there was no where for him to go, lol, but he was trying!

I then got my long, thin, wooden paddle; the one that is really bendy. I didn't bother going light with this one, but went straight to some nice, hard smacks. I got a few good welts with this on his ass, then moved to his inner thighs, and just did about thirty repetitive fast strokes in the same spot on each thigh. He was really trying to dance away from me with those. I then went down and did some light ones on the bottoms of his feet.

I switched to the prison strap that one of our friends gave us, and he just about jumped through the roof. He probably would have if he hadn't been tied down. I only used this one for about eight strokes as it is so heavy duty.

Then it was on to my favorite paddle, the wooden lollipop. I just love the sound it makes when it hits the ass, and the sound a sub makes afterward. It's a double delight! And then the skin gets so red and shiny and so hot to the touch, it makes me so excited I just want to fuck that ass!!! So I tend to save it for last most times, but this time, I decided I wanted to do a few more things, since we had extra time.

We have a double tail whip that seldom gets used, so I used that next. It is not a very painful one but I can get a few nice licks in.
I only use whips on his back, not his ass so this gave his ass time to rest. I used this about a dozen times, then switched to the single tail. I have rarely used this one on him, and he was surprised at just how much it hurt, lol. I did this one about ten times, then called it quits on his back. He is used to only having the crop on his back, so this was a lot for one day.

Then I took out my two favorite canes, one of which we have had for more than thirty years, and went back to his ass. I gave him ten hard strokes with each cane. Since his ass was already very sore he was reacting very nicely with each stroke. I thought about doing another set of canings but had other plans for him.

All the toys I used.



When I was finally done with the impact play I let him rest while I got things ready for the next part of play. I untied his legs and place a large wedge pillow under him so his ass was in the air and lubed up my long ridged metal dildo to open him up. I love the way his ass just sucks it in and him complaining I went too fast. LOL. His ass did all the work. I fucked his ass with the metal dildo for about 10 minutes and he had a few nice anal orgasms, see I can be nice every so often, I then switched to a glass dildo thats not as long but much thicker and fucked him until his asshole was too sore to take anymore, but he did have 2 massive anal orgasms with it.

All in all, I'd say it was a pretty successful night.
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finally, a cuckold session again
Posted:Aug 2, 2022 10:50 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:14 pm
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So, as I mentioned in earlier post, I finally got the chance to meet up with a guy again for a sex session, after such a very long break. It took a long time until I was comfortable to get back out after covid, and I also had my health problems to sort out as well. It didnt help that I had lost contact with the guys I had fucked before, so there was the issue of establishing new contacts and vetting them by texting and emails, which always takes time.

One of the guys that i had started to talk with right before the shutdown had kept messaging me thoughtout the shutdown to keep the interest. Since we had already established a rapport prior, he seemed like the logical choice to start with. As he was from out of state but visited often we had to find a time that worked for both of us. I always prefer meeting with guys who travel as it just makes things easier.

On the eveing we played I wore a black tank top and denim mini skirt. We met up in his hotel room, and after introductions were made and the room was set up with the camera for future teasing sessions for my sub later on, I tied my sub to a chair and blindfolded him. Then I was finally ready to have some fun again.

We went over to the bed area, in earshot of where my sub was tied, and started to kiss and grope each other and I was liking what I was feeling in his crotch. As we started losing clothes, he found out I was wearing red lingerie, that I left on. He took off his underwear, and I found that he had not exaggerated at all on the length of his cock. He was already rock hard, and I was very happy to help put on a condom and begin. I reminded him that he might not be able to get the whole thing in and we would be taking it slow.

We started out with me lying face up on the bed, with him between my legs, with my legs up in the air, and I will admit it took a couple of minutes before I was able to take all of him. It had been a long time since I had something that big in me, lol. But man, did it feel good, and once I was able to take it all, wow! We stayed on the bed until he came, which was about fifteen minutes and I had cum at least a dozen times. We had moved around the bed and used about 3 positions and he probably went the deepest when he laid on top of me in the missionary position rather than holding himself up with his arms.

We then took a very short break for a drink of water and a new condom, and switched positions to one of my favorite hotel positions - in the window. We did this one standing up, me facing the window, and him behind me. This position doesn't usually work for me because of my height but I was leaning over far enough, and he was long enough that it worked fine. It is always such a turn on for me looking out the window, this time at the cars passing by on the freeway while getting fucked! We both came pretty quickly in that position.

After that and another quick break, we moved over to the couch, where he laid down on his back, and I sat on top of him. The way he was lying made it so I was able to keep one foot on the floor, which gave me all the control on how deep he went inside me, and the rhythm of the fucking. It was very nice, and I kept changing the rhythm, and when he got too close to cumming, I would pull off a little until he got his bearings, then start again as I didnt want him to cum too soon and I ddint get my fill. We kept going like this for about twenty minutes, until I couldn't take it anymore, and started a fast rhythm going until we both came hard for the last orgasm. Once again, I came over 10 times in that position.



When we were done, he told me he was pretty much spent, which made sense since he had just cum three times in less than an hour. As it was my first time with a big cock in me in over 2 years, I was also max'ed out and already very sore. So I got dressed, untied my sub so he could pack up our stuff and said our good byes.

All in all, it was a very good fuck. I mean evening. Lol
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#400 - Who would have thought we would have gone this far
Posted:Jul 25, 2022 11:42 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:13 pm
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According to alt this is will be our 400th post since we started blogging our adventures way back in April of 2008. I thought that we might have put a few blogs up here and there to keep our membership, but then I really enjoyed doing them.

Early on it was almost exclusively just about me teasing my sub as I kept his lockups and orgasm denials longer and longer. Looking back at the earlier blogs I laugh at how we thought 5-7 days of being in denial was the worst thing for him. Now that's not even a warm up session as most denial periods are a minimum of 3 months or more.

In re-reading the older posts it shows how we grew with our play to harsher BDSM play to including others in it as well. The various couples and single subs that we met and played with,
some were great connections and others being blah and one and done. Probably the biggest growth for me is playing with female subs, once I did I found I enjoyed it very much. We also seemed to be one of the few that actually use real pictures of our adventures as so many will tell a story and then post an internet photo so it leaves a lot of doubt. Those who use them to say this is what they would like to try is fine.

The long term orgams denial and chastity play that has been discussed has also let me explore cuckold play and getting together with guys who are much better endowed and long lasting to satisfy me and sharing those adventures with everyone as well.

The past 5 years have been very tough keeping up the blog as the many issues that alt has with members constantly being restricted on what they can do on the site. In addition to the many spammers who have taken over the blogs and drown out the BDSM and other kink related topics because they want to be seen and talked about over nonsense rather than kink play. When we first started all the blogs were kink or sexual related. Comments are also way down compared to the earlier years and sometimes I wonder sometimes if just keeping a private diary to log the experiences might be a better idea.

Probably the most irritating thing on the blogs though is how the system cuts off words in the blogs, and now we found out a lot of the photos that accompanied posts have also disappeared. I wanted to try and put a gif of various pics from the earlier years but found most have been removed.

Over the years there have been so many friends on here who have disappeared. Some said bye, some we still communicate with on other sites, a lot have just gone without saying a thing. There are still a few friends that are still active on the site and we are very glad they are still here. As for the dedicated that read our blog everytime, we really appreciate that you do.

Maybe this post would have been a better one for a milestone of 500 but as my sub says, we have to be realistic about how much longer we actually are going be able to keep play going as we have an expiration date. He has always said he doesn't want to be that guy who walks into a dungeon barely able to move and with a cane, and not the one he gets hit with. Unfortunately we have seen this a few times over the years and it was a session killer. Early on we posted a few times a week, then less and less to where now we try for once a week, so getting to 500 is 2 years out at a minimum. Of course who knows how this site will be by then as well, will the spammers have taken it over completely or will alt even still exist?

So thank you to those who have enjoyed our stories over the past 13 years, at least we hope you have enjoyed them and will continue to read. Hopefully the gif of the earlier pictures is below, otherwise a few select ones will be placed in the comments.







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play Session with Friends
Posted:Jul 21, 2022 7:02 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:12 pm
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One of the things we have missed the most the past couple of years was getting together with others and playing. This week we accomplished both a BDSM session and a cuckold session. It was so nice.

This post will be for the BDSM session and next week I'll fill you in on the cuckold one.

The friends we played with we had met a while ago, but like most, haven't seen them in over 2 years. We had played with them a number of times before then and had always had a fantastic time together. Our worry was that with the time away it would make a difference and things would be awkward. It was anything but that, the four of us hit the ground running like we last met a week before. It was so nice.

We were meeting for an early afternoon session as we wanted to maybe play outside if it wasnt too hot, but it seemed like the fates were against us. In the morning we didn't have one family situation to try and take care of, but two! It was looking a little sketchy if we were going be able to make it to our friends house. We got one situation under control and checked with them to push the time an hour later and it was no problem so we were going try and take care of the second situation. About 30 minutes after we were originally suppose to leave we got everything taken care of and packed a toy bag up quickly and left thinking things were finally going in our favor, only to get caught up in very bad traffic most of the ride. What normally takes about an hour forty- five minutes to get to their house took us almost 3 hours, but luckily with all the delays it worked out for everyone.

Once we arrived and our toy bags bought inside there was a little chit chatting to catch up on everything between the four of us. Her sub had already setup most of the equipment that we were going use and my sub helped him set up the final piece, the X-Cross. They have fantastic furniture that we are able to use. Would love to be able to have it at our house, but can't.

Her sub excused himself and came back about 5 minutes later with nothing but his chastity cage on, just like how I like subs. His Domme locked it in place and he headed to the spanking bench where he was secured at the knees and elbows, but his hands were free. The plan for him was that he was going take a very long snake in his ass and we wanted to make sure he wouldn't want wiggle free. LOL.

As I was prepping him, our friend took my sub to the X-Cross and secure him on it. She also used our bondage belt to keep his chest on the cross. My sub was going have impact play done on him.

I would glance over every so often but wanted to concentrate on her sub. I love playing with him as he can take all sizes of toys. I had a variety of huge dildos that I wanted to try out, because I knew from prior sessions he could take a lot, and he said he they had been doing play to get back into things more often so I really wanted to try and use as many as I could.

There were three massive dildos sitting on the table when we got there, and I brought one with me that was equally huge, that had never been used in anyone before. When I say massive, it wasn't so much the length of them, they were probably between 8 - 10 inches, it was the width that was so intimidating. I certainly wouldn't have wanted them in me, lol.

I started with the smallest of them, which was about the size of a large man's fist. His ass just sucked that right in like it was nothing. I fucked him with it long enough to get him used to it, then pulled it out, and grabbed the next one.

This one was about an inch thicker and longer. I eased it in, then fucked him with it for a little while. When I pulled it out, I noticed a little blood, and asked him if he wanted me to stop. But he said that was normal, and he was good. So I pulled out my dildo, which although the same width, was about two inches longer. It also had a handle, so once in, it was very easy to fuck him with. He really liked that one, and said he needs to get one of those,

After that, we decided to take a short break, before using the 24 inch snake one on him.

This next part is from my subs perspective. After he was secured, our friend started with a small paddle and starting on his ass. She kept a good rhythm and switch paddles 3 times. After the first round of paddling, clover clamps were placed on his nipples inside the cross. She then went up behind him and grinded on his back and ass, reaching around and playing with the clamps and his chastity cage and biting his body in various areas. She then wrapped their 4' flogger over his shoulders and neck. He said the between the smell of the leather and everything else it was very intoxicating and different than our hard quick sessions we have been having to do at home.



She started with the paddles again and this time got his thighs in addition to his ass. He had to be careful as one of the hits made him jump and the clamps caught on the cross so he got a double jolt. She then used a paddle on his balls and he really jumped. She stopped and asked if he was ok and he explained how one of his balls was very sensitive after a long ago surgery. She continued to hit them but in a way that he could handle it and they could still play how she wanted. It sounded like great communication during a session.

She used various paddles and canes on him and when I took my break with her sub so he could recuperate, I came over and started paddling my sub in my delicate manner, LOL. He jumped again and knew already who was hitting him and said it wasn't my turn. Guess he was wrong as I continued. After I had my fun I went back to her sub who looked like he was ready for round 2. She again used the various implements on my subs back, thighs and balls while also grinding on him a couple of more times. It had been awhile since any real impact play was done on him so they stopped before us.

After my sub was untied, he was finally given a break, and she came over to help me with the snake-like dildo. It wasn't the same one that we had used on him a couple of years before, this one was an actual dildo, just two feet long. It was very heavy, and squishy, and very hard to work with, which is why you needed two people to use it.

I started to insert it, while she held the back half of it steady. After everything that had already been done to him, we were only able to get about 1/2 of it in and it took all of our strength to keep pushing it. He was doing his best in trying to accommodate the dildo. I think we both need to work out before we try that one again and maybe different gloves as well to help from slipping so much. I am always amazed on how much he can take, it's pretty awesome to see.



Since it was our first session together in over 2 years we had agreed ahead of time to take it slow and just do a minimal amount of play. So after play was over, we had dinner and talked about everything we did and that it didn't feel like we missed a beat after 2 years, and all the things we would like to do the next time. We just want to make sure the next time is a lot sooner than 2+ years, lol.
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