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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

Fuck Machine Fun
Posted:Jul 11, 2022 8:39 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:10 pm
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With the 4th of July holiday, kink play was limited the past couple of weeks. But towards the end of the week we were getting very excited of meeting with friends for the first time in almost 3 years to play! More on that in the next post though, so just a tease for now.

We've had a mini-fuck machine for some time now and while it was fun to use I didn't really use it all that much. It spends a little more time collecting dust in the closet it seems.

I always have the fascination of my sub sucking a cock and we finally came up with a way to have him do that and toment his nipples as well. Its a shame we didn't think of this long ago as it really worked well.

My sub was on the side of the bed on his knees with his hands cuffed out towards the ends of the bed. Good thing for 10 cuffs placed around the bed. His posture collar was then clipped to another part of the under the bed restraint system to keep his head in place while the dildo was slid into place in his mouth. Finally, clover clamps were placed on his nipples and a rope was placed behind the dildo rod and those were attached to the ends of the clamps.

He couldn't move back as the clamps would cause a lot of pain and he couldn't move forward too much as he would swallow a lot of cock. Either way I'm in for a good show.

Now for the fun! I switched the machine on and the cock slowly started going in and out of his mouth. The rope was just about perfect with the amount that it stretched his nipples. I was able to get a great view as I did have to hold the machine in place. He has to come up with a better way to have the machine stay in place for future uses.

I loved seeing the dildo go in and out of his mouth and I adjusted the speed a number of times on the various test runs we did. Each time the dildo would go just a little further as I adjusted where it was placed. I think overall we played for about 15 minutes with it and he had a very sore throat afterwards. Poor baby! LOL. His nipples weren't all that sore so they may have to be tighter next time.



This is something we will definitely do again and hopefully very soon.

For those who can watch videos, there is a video in our profile.
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Teasing
Posted:Jun 28, 2022 12:14 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:09 pm
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Part of the tease I have doing with my sub is not touching his cock. As of this past Monday it was 2 months, 23 days since i last played with it.

During this time I would play and caress his balls and rub and scratch his pubic area but his cock wouldn't get played with at all. Maybe a stray finger going from his balls to the pubic area may just get a stray touch, but nothing more. He strained so much to get me to play with it that I'm usually laughing watching him.

This morning I started playing with his nipples with my fingers, then biting and sucking on the right one. He was getting pretty worked up with that but he still complained when I bit the side of his body. Of course, this meant I had to do it again,

I then went down and started playing with his balls, and squeezing his thighs really hard, because I knew they were sore from some chores he's been doing this past weekend. I was laughing again as he tried to squirm away. I finally let go of his thighs and starting playing with his balls. Squeezing hard then soft, mixing things up with some pubic area scratching.

He didn't have his cage on so I could see the precum leaking. Then, I reached over and took his cock in my hand. He leapt up at my touch, and was getting rock hard very quickly. I stroked it up and down twice, then stopped. He started squirming and begging for more. This time, I actually continued since I had already planned on playing more with his cock as I had something really evil to try on him when the time was right.

I alternated stroking his cock or using just my nails on it very slowly. This went on for a few minutes and he was leaking so bad I knew I would have to stop soon. I intended on stopping the touching denial but not his orgasm denial and I didn't want any accidents.

It was fun starting and stopping the teasing, strokes or fingernails, he was moaning so much and pushing his hips to get more reaction. The noises he made when I would stop were great as well. When he was edged to the point of a possible accident I left him tied in bed to calm down. When I came back in he was limp and with a very large pool of fluid that leaked out. I asked him if he enjoyed it and he nodded his head. I untied him and let him get ready for the day with a promise that more was on its way. And he was wondering if that was going to be good or bad? LOL.
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Strapon Harness
Posted:Jun 20, 2022 11:57 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:08 pm
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So over the past 20 years or so I've haven't let me sub go inside me very often. Prior to me using others for sex, we would use didlos or a strapon for him called the ""Facilitator". We actually went through about 4 of them over the years they were used so much. LOL.

The couple we use to get together with for playing had one of the last working facilitators and I hope she is keeping it in good shape. The bad part is that they quit making the facilitator about the same time I started cucking him so it wasn't as big of a loss at the time. However with things the way they are now I'm still very hesitant in meeting others and not having a good strapon that he could use while in his chastity cage is an issue. Of course he has volunteered many times to take one for the team and have sex with me and I just laugh at his comment. This current session of him not being allowed inside is just over 4 months so why would I want to stop now?

We have tried a few different strapons but none fit over the cage in a good way. I really wanted both of us to feel the motion of having sex but these only allowed him to be cageless which left him being able to poke me while using them which I didn't want, or it put a lot of unwanted pressure on his cage. There were times he would just use his hands to use the dildo but that wasn't the same either.

We kept looking and finally found a new version that looked like it might actually work. The cost was high so waited for a sale before purchasing as returning it was not an option. It had a little pouch for him to be in while it was on and the place that the dildo is secured at was higher up. When it arrived it looked nicer than the couple of pictures shown on the ad.

We tried it on him later that night and the little pouch worked perfectly with the cage when he put it on. He didn't put a dildo in the harness so he had to take it off again to put one in so i couldsee how it looked. It looked very nice on him, so much that I figured why waste him putting it on and decided to take it for a test drive.



It felt really good having something inside me again with the normal rocking motion and it didn't take long before I had my first small orgasm. We didn't stop and and in about 3 minutes, while playing with my clit as well, I had my second and third very hard orgasms. I'm glad we had an empty house that night as I was very vocal that I'm sure the neighbors were wondering what was going on.

We've used it a couple of more times and each time it has felt great for me as we've switched dildos each time. I just need to remember not to want too much and take our largest dildos too soon, it has been a while and need to work on girth. LOL For him it was very good as well as he was able to get really into using it and not have anything pull or strain on the cage. While he has been wearing his smallest cage while using it so far, I don't think any of the other three chastoty cages that are in the current rotation of wear will be an issue with being placed in the little pouch and having enough room while we play. So doesn't look very good for him to be allowed inside again any time soon!

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Anal Orgasm
Posted:Jun 12, 2022 1:37 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:07 pm
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So after the cruise we had a lot of vanilla events lined up and luckily none of them had alcohol as we had to dry out from the cruise. LOL.

The day we got home from the cruise he was allowed to remove the cage so he could shower and shave but it then went right back on. It was left on for about another 10 days after the cruise before I finally let him take it off. He didn't get any releases up to this time at all so he was a very horny guy.

We finally got a chance to do some anal play and I used a glass didlo that was purchased about 2 years ago. To start off I had him on his back with his wrists, thighs and ankles secured in leather harnesses so that he could keep his legs up. His butt was also at the edge of the bed to make it easy for me. I wasn't getting the reaction I wanted so after about 10 minutes I had him roll over so his butt was in the air.

This was not easy as he was still secured in the harnesses so he didn't have his hands to help roll over. Maybe I should have taken the nipples clamps off too before he started as well but it made it very fun to watch as he was trying to roll without pulling the clamps. LOL.

He finally made it over to his knees and I started playing with the dildo again and this time the reaction from him was much better. Some may remember from past posts that he has the hardest anal orgasms and since it's been a few years I was wondering if I could get him to explode on the first try out.

This position worked wonders as it took about two minutes for him to have a small anal orgasm. Once he settled down I left the dildo inside him as it took some time to get it in the first place and it looked so nice in his butt.

While he was resting I slide under his chest and removed the clover clamps and started playing with his nipples to get the blood flowing again. I'm so helpful sometimes. They had been on for about 20 minutes so they were very tender. While I was playing with his nipples he was moving his butt around trying to enjoy the dildo. I got an evil thought in my head and put the clamps back on him.

I stayed on his side and started playing with the didlo again with small strokes matched to his movements. With my other hand I started to pull the clover clamps chain to add some pressure up there as well and he really started moving. His rhythm started to get ahead of mine so I just held the didlo in place and let him do all the work. While he was moving a long stream of cum slid out as he massaged himself to a release. It was about a minute after that the huge anal orgasm took place. He was really rocking into the dildo and I started to match his rhythm and really pulling on the clover clamps. He came so hard i thought he was going to break the harnesses. He slowed down a little and I kept the didlo inside him and tried to get him to have one more orgasm but he was spent.

I left the dildo in him as I removed the clover clamps and tenderly massaged his really sore nipples. I decided to leave him in the harness while I removed the dildo as I figured he would be very sore and try to squirm away if he was free. It was a good move as he gave such a yell when I removed it. And this was one of our smaller ones. He really is out of practice. I let him stay that way for a few minutes to calm down before finally releasing him to clean up and put his cage back on. After all, he released so he could be looked up again as far as I'm concerned. LOL.
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Cruise
Posted:May 31, 2022 6:53 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:05 pm
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Alt has once again denied my post so further editing has been done. See if this one passes. As the system is still cutting out words and has been edited as they denied it once again, this post will be repeated in the first comment.

We went on a four-day booze cruise a couple of weekend's ago just to get out for a short break. We went with a few vanilla couples, so couldn't do too much in the way of play, but we did get some fun in around the ship.

My sub thought that he would finally be able take the chastity cage off for the trip since we would be with friends, but I had other plans and made him wear the Mini-me cage the entire cruise. LOL. I did tell him that if he went swimming or in the jacuzzi, I would let him take it off, but it was kind of cold and overcast over the weekend, so I decided that I didnt want to go swimming, so on it stayed.

The first day we put our drink packages to the test and racked up a pretty good amount of drinks at various bars throughout the ship. The last place was the piano bar where I sang with every song, and I'm not much of a singer. Once we had our fill there it was time to head off to the cabin and get some rest. But before my sub was going to be able to sleep I was already lying down with my legs spread and he slipped right in with his mouth and gave me two awesome alcohol induced orgasms. I think he was hoping I would have him remove the cage and let him cum as he was horny from all the sights during the day, but I rolled over and told him to spoon so I could feel the cage.



The first morning we slept in, and he woke me up by going down on me again. He used his fingers as well, and I came really hard. It was a great way to head off for lunch and more drinking.

On the second day after coming back to the ship everyone headed to our room to leave port as we had a very nice balcony at the back of the ship. After they left I decided to model my swimsuit for my sub out on the balcony and of course he took a lot of pictures and video. I'm always up for a photo shoot, lol! It was a lot of fun and got me horny again so before showering for dinner I had him go down on me once again for a few more orgasms. He was quite the horny boy by then with all the sights and constant teasing. I teased and played with the cage throughout the ship, pulling him in close and giving him a deep kiss while cupping his cage through his shorts. Any time I felt his cage it was pretty full from trying to get hard in his cage. Poor baby.

That night after more drinking and fun, I had had a lot to drink, and told him to take a shower and get cleaned up when we got back to our room for the night. When he walked out of the shower I told him to lie down on the bed on his back. I got in between his legs and teased his still locked up cock and balls with my mouth. After a few minutes of teasing him, I told him to lift his legs and hold them up and I got a little lower and reamed him. He just about jumped in the bed! He was going crazy with me alternating sucking on his balls then his asshole. It was a very nice way to tease him, since he wasn't getting anything else on this trip and it also set up my next part of his re-aquaintance to play within the next couple of weeks.

Once I was done teasing him, I washed up and told him get everything packed and I was going to sleep as I was exhausted from all of todays activities and drinking. When I got up everything was packed and our walk off outfits set aside. I love having a sub!!!
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No Touching
Posted:May 23, 2022 12:47 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:04 pm
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As the syatem is still cutting words out of blogs, this will be reposted as the first comment.

Also, as this post was orginally denied, this has been updated for the dates.

So I have already told you guys about starting to put my sub in long term denial, he's also not allowed inside me at this time and he's now in one of his chastity cages most of the time as well.

I started prepping him for the cage after his blow job birthday but i wanted to be a little more strict for his first time going back into long-term denial. Once again I slowly stopped touching or stroking his cock. I might have played with it a couple of days in a row then skip a day, then another two days of playing followed by two days of not touching it, etc., until I got to the point where I hadn't touched or stroked him for almost two weeks before I barely touched it again. By the end of the first week of April it was hands off his cock all the time.

Now during this time I still played with his balls regardless if he was in the cage or not, as well as his pubic area. I'll pull his balls away from his body if they arent in the cage or squeeze them. If they are in the cage I'll still pull them but they won't go as far but I get a great reaction from him as they are strained a lot more. I'll also run my nails between the ring of the cage and his balls which he says feels very good since his balls dont get to move a lot while locked up. He loves having his pubic area scratched as well with my nails so I'll do it nice and slow. I'll make a big production of just getting ever so close to his cock, only to slowly move away as he's left to try and squirm to touch my fingers. LOL.

Another way I teased him and get him so frustrated is to play with the.cage and act like I'm stroking his cock. My talking doesn't help as I tell him that "I really wanted to play with your cock tonight but I guess since you have it locked up it will have to wait until later", among other things. His lil cock strains and pokes through the end of the cage so I'll tease it with either a fingernail or if I'm feeling really generous, the tip of my tongue. I don't do that very often as I don't want to make him feel too good. LOL. I also like to blow on the cage. Either on the side through one of the side vents or from the front so my hot breath spreads over his whole cock.

So with this post, the following milestones are active:

Last time he was inside me - 3 months and over a week
Last orgasm - 2 months
Last time his cock was stroked - a little over 6 weeks

My sub was off work today and we slept in. When we woke, I played with his cage a little, then rolled over and spread my legs which he knows for him to go down on me. In the cage he can't lay flat, especially this morning since he was hard in the cage already. LOL So he was on his knees which is a bonus for me as he could put some fingers inside me as well. I had a very nice double orgasm. After we recovered I had him go on his back and straddle his mouth again and told him to go slow and I finished editing this post in this manner. Since Monday's seem to be our blog post days lately, this might be an every other Monday final editing procedure.



So tell me guys, who would want to be in his place seeing his denial schedule????
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Rimming & Binder Clips, oh my! LOL
Posted:May 19, 2022 12:16 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 5:02 pm
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As the system is cutting out words, this will be repeated as the first comment.

Since my last one got denied he is a bonus blog for allnof you. Last night, I took a shower before going to the bed. When my sub came in the room shortly after my shower, I was lying naked, face down on the bed with my legs spread. I told him I wanted him to rim me, something he always wants to do, but I seldom allow. He was very happy to oblige and pretty much dove in between my legs!

He rimmed me for a few minutes then he used his fingers to stimulate my clit while rimming for about ten more minutes. I loved grinding my ass into his face. He had to be on his knees this entire time as he was so hard in his lil cage that he couldn't lay flat. LOL It was extremely pleasurable, but I wasn't able to cum that way, so I had him go wash his face.

When he got back, I was on my back. I had him go down on me, but told him I really liked the finger action, so he could use his fingers inside me at the same time. It didn't take very long for me to have a very big, long orgasm.

I then tied him for the night, arms spread, but the legs only spread a foot wide because when he is in the cage, spread-eagle is not the best position. It can make a ball slip out of the cage when it's for over night.

I have been using those large black binder clips on his nipples the past week, and am in love with them! Even though these have been stretched to not be so severe, they still absolutely flatten his nipples. So I put those on him, and started to tease his balls and tickle his neck and ears, driving him crazy. I took the clips off after about ten minutes, rubbed his nipples to get the blood circulating again, and then put them back on again, and did it again. Unfortunately I didn't get a picture of them on and will have to do it next time.
I kept this up for about half an hour, then put the clips away, and left him completely horny to try and get some sleep. It was a fun night!
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Previous Post Deleted
Posted:May 16, 2022 7:20 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 11:01 am
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So the powers to be at alt decided my last post on how I'm not touching my subs cock was deemed too offensive and they denied it, after over 100 people had viewed it and it recieved comments. I guess a word I used they found offensive and used that as the reason. So I'll wait until next week to repost the earlier post.

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Chastity Begins
Posted:May 9, 2022 6:11 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:59 am
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I finally got my sub back into chastity on a pretty steady basis. As I mentioned before in the earlier posts, I already started controlling his orgasms and getting him back in denial. But I had held off on the chastity devices because it had been so long since he had worn them, and I wanted him to get used to the mental aspects of denial first, before I reintroduced the physical restraints.

I had him put on the Ghost for two days in mid-April, to see how it looked and felt. I really like how the Ghost looks and feels, because it's black and has a matte finish as opposed to a shiny see-through surface, but I feel like it's too big for my sub. It's funny as when he got that one a few years back I thought it was so small. LOL He has too much room to move around and grow in it. It almost a solid case, so I can't get a finger in to touch or tease at all.

Then a few days later, I had him put on the CB6000s. He had it on for a couple of days as well. I hadn't realized how big it looked on him. It was supposed to be short, but doesn't look so short on him, LOL. I liked playing with this one a lot because I could stroke it up and down and tease him that I was stroking his cock, even if he couldn't feel it.

I next had him put on the latest cage in the collection which was bought about a year and half ago, Mr Stubbs, for a couple of days. This was all done within two weeks in April. I really like the way the Mr Stubbs looks and feels, because it's small, and has slots, so I can play and tease with it on. It's clear medical grade polycarbonate, so you can see his cock in it which is nice, but it only emphasizes the fact that my sub is too small for it. His cock looks tiny in it, and he still has a lot of room to grow in it.

All this was because I had ordered a new cage for him and wanted to surprised him with it. It's called the Mini-me, and is quite a bit smaller than the Mr. Stubbs. It is also part of the CB series, so uses the same base and pins. When it arrived I had him come into the bedroom when he got home from work and let him open the package. The look on his face was so cute when he saw what it was and I told him to swap out Mr Stubbs for it right then and there. He complained that it was going be way too small and that there was no way he would fit in it. Of course, I had to prove him wrong. He grumbled but as usual I got my way and it was locked on him in about 2 minutes. I was so happy with the size of it.

It fits him perfectly, and the best part, there's very little room for him to grow in it! So when he gets hard, it gets very uncomfortable. Which is one of the perks of chastity. At least, for me. Can't wait to see how the Points of Intrigue work with it.

We found that, because of the size, he can do a lot of things in it that he was unable to do in the other devices, so he is able to leave it on longer and for more activities. He kept it on pretty much straight for the first 15 days of putting it on. Seems like with each new cage I always say this one is my new favorite, and this time it's no different. The Mini-me is definitely my new favorite.

Here is a picture of all four
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Impact Play
Posted:May 2, 2022 8:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:59 am
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So I know I said this next post was going be about chastity, but I decided to change things up a little. The past 2 years it's been difficult to do any big BDSM play. Not having an empty house and hotels closed for the most part or staff watching your every move, we just haven't had a chance to do much.

I might get one swat with a paddle every so often but that was about it. He was tied for bed most night so I was able to tease and abuse his nipples, cock and balls. But those were short sessions right before we went to sleep, so neither of us were really satisfied with that.

The best time we had for impact play in a long time was in early March. We were watching a hockey game and it was at the beginning of when my team started to drop out of contention. That night they got killed in the 1st period, allowing 5 goals, and I was not happy. As we had an empty house, I got up and told him that we were going into the bedroom.

He thought he was going to go down on me but I told him to strip and lie face down on the bed. I attached his hands to the side cuffs and his feet were cuffed straight down to the foot of the bed. I placed the bondage belt around his waist and tied that off with the side straps. He was not going be able to wiggle much. I had also placed the incline pillow under him so his butt was at a great angle.

I only got out a few things as a hockey intermission is only 18 minutes so I didn't have a lot of time. A long wooden flexible paddle for warm up, my lollipop paddle, a leather and a rubber strap. The last two were gifts from friends who had mostly retired from impact play. I love them.

The long flexible paddle was used first to warm his ass up and I could do both sides of his butt at once. Quick short hits were done for about 3 minutes with no stopping. As he put it later, even though they weren't that hard, the constant hitting let him know he was getting hit. I then moved on to the lollipop and I did a couple of easy hits to get the distance right and then started hitting full force. The hits were about 5 - 8 seconds apart, not as fast as the flexible one, but he felt these hits a lot more. His ass was red by the time I finished.

I don't remember exactly which strap I used first but basically, I immediately started with heavy hits and used each of them for about 3 mins each. The leather one was used at a faster pace but the rubber one was used with about 15 second breaks in between as it's more severe.

We wrapped up in time for me to get back and continue for us to watch the game. Well, for me to watch it. Since I did all the work during the intermission, I had him sit on his sore ass on the floor and massage and worship my feet during the 2nd period. Unfortunately my team did no better in the period and let in another 2 goals. This time at intermission I just got up and said let's go. He tried arguing a case not to be hit again but I had my mind set. He was tied down in the same position and this time the lollipop was used first, followed by the straps. The flexible one wasn't used as I wanted solid hard hits. During the session I kept switching between the 3 to keep him off guard. He was trying to sqiurm but he was held down tightly. I really love the under the bed straps. LOL

When I was finally done his ass was the reddest it has been in a long time and very hot to the touch. I was very pleased with myself. I told him I was going to leave him tied so that I could come back in and not have to waste time securing him again. For those who are wondering why I didn't hit him without tying, I prefer subs to be g restrained so if they move the wrong place isn't hit. Before I left, I put a blindfold and ear muffs on him to isolate him more.

Unfortunately, I had to let him out before the game ended as we weren't going to have an empty house much longer. I got in a few more smacks before releasing him and let him get dressed to watch the rest of the game. My team only let 1 goal score in the 3rd so I probably wouldn't have hit him too much after all. Here is what his ass looked like after the second session.



It was nice as he had some bruises for the next couple of days. Even though this session was a couple of months ago, I am hoping to start this type of play again more regularly.
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