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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

Birthday Surprise
Posted:Apr 25, 2022 6:00 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:58 am
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So March has now rolled in and I've limited my subs orgasms in the last 3 months to basically 1 per month. I have not been limited and have as many as I want, when I want, either with him or when I'm alone at home. For him, keep in mind, that up to about 12-18 months ago he went months, sometimes years, without an orgasm. But in the past year he had been getting them fairly regularly, and not that he was being obnoxious about them, but I missed him in his "always horny" mindset.

In December I decided to slowly ease him back into long-term denial play as I think he missed it as well. So now it's early March and he has been teased quite often since Valentines day and being edged to point of almost being able to cum only to be denied over and over. I had been using a vibrator on him at times, being careful not to push him too much though and then he came up with another idea that has been really fun to do. He put one of our remote electrical plugs in the bedroom and attached the vibrator to it. I was now able to be in the other room and turn the vibrator on and off as it was left under his balls while all he could do was squirm tied down to the bed. That was fun.

He was turning 60 on the 23rd of March and I had something special planned for him. About a week before his birthday I milked him so that he cleared out some semen since it had been about a month since his Valentine orgasm. I think he was really thinking that he would be allowed to fuck me again and why he was milked but all he got was teased. But on his birthday morning while he was tied to the bed I really surprised him and went down on him. I took my time with sucking and licking his cock and balls and making a big deal out of it because actually it was a big deal. This would be his last orgasm for a very, very long time but he didn't know that yet. So I took my time and was surprised he lasted so long with my constant licking and sucking. I was pretty impressed to tell you the truth. Once he did cum I continued even though his cock was very sensitive from cumming but I was enjoying myself by thinking it was a great way to start a denial period again by tormenting his cock so much when he couldn't stand it after an orgasm.

Being the mean one, as I've been told a few times on here (I am, LOL ) I didn't tell him right away that it was his last one for the time being, but just played it off and kept the teasing going through the rest of the month. I finally told him about a week later that he would not have any more orgasms any time soon and he was not to ask to fuck me or ask for how long. I had already been talking with some NSA friends that would be able to take care of my needs in a much bigger way if you get my drift.

Next post: when does chastity start?
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Denial play continues
Posted:Apr 18, 2022 11:09 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:57 am
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2022 - First Real Post of the year
Posted:Apr 10, 2022 5:01 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:56 am
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Maybe?
Posted:Dec 1, 2021 12:47 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:55 am
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's been awhile, new posts in the New Year?

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Chastity Continues...
Posted:Mar 16, 2021 2:06 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:53 am
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Mr Stubbs has now been on for seven weeks straight without a break, which is just amazing me. I love that he can wear everywhere we go and so far, everything we do. I highly recommend this device for all of you little cocks out that need be locked up.

Yesterday, knowing was the seven week anniversary, I got dressed in a cute outfit I know he would like - a pair of favorite jeans and a midriff showing tight sweater. I took a picture of myself and sent it to him at work, to give him a preview.

I put on white ankle socks and a pair of pink keds, propped my feet up, and took a picture of just my ankles down to really tease him, as he loves little tennies! I had plans for those later on in the evening. I even put on makeup, which I have to admit, has been hit or miss during this stay at home covid time, lol. He really appreciates it when I do my eyes up.

I sent him a few more texts during the day, to keep him horny and thinking about what might happen later.

He got home from work, and we had dinner, then we went into the bedroom for the evening. I got onto the bed, fully dressed with the exception of my bra, which I had removed as soon as I came into the room. He stripped, and then joined me on the bed.

We started kissing, and doing some light petting. The makeout session lasted a good ten minutes, which was very, very nice. Then he moved down to my left foot, and removed my shoe and sock. He gave me a foot massage with his hands, and then with his tongue, and then worshipped my foot with his mouth and teeth. He spent at least ten to fifteen minutes on that foot, then moved on to the right foot. He took off the shoe, then massaged the foot with the sock on. Then he removed the sock with his teeth, kissing his way down the foot, and proceeded to give this foot the attention the other one got, giving each separate toe individual attention. felt like heaven!

He spent at least fifteen twenty minutes on this foot, then he removed my jeans and panties, and kissed his way up my legs, and kissed and sucked on my inner thighs until I was moaning, then he started going down on me. didn't take long for me have two long, hard orgasms, as I was so worked up from everything he had done. I pulled him up, kissed him, and he said, "My turn now?" I just laughed.

I rolled him over his back, tied him spread eagle, and played & teased him for awhile until he was begging cum, then kissed him goodnight and told him "sorry, not tonight!", and then cupped his balls until I feel asleep. Not sure how long he stayed awake all sexually frustrated. 😁
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Pampering Time
Posted:Mar 5, 2021 1:43 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:53 am
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Last night I took a nice, long shower, then called my sub into the bedroom and I laid down naked propped up on my pillows with my feet at the edge of the side of the bed. I told my sub to put on on of my favorite videos as I needed a mini pedicure (sans polish). Although I love color on my toes, I do prefer to do that part myself, also knowing he would be doing more after the initial part of the pedicure, I didn't want to wait for the polish to dry. So he knelt at the side of the bed and started.

When he had finished the task at hand, he put away the tools and washed his hands, then came back to his kneeling position by the bed and started worshipping my feet. He sucked, nibbled, massaged and lavished attention on the left foot, then turned his attention to the right. He had me absolutely moaning in pleasure. You can see why I skipped the polish! LOL When I felt he had given sufficient attention to both feet, I had him go wash up, and then come back to the position yet again.

I had flipped over my stomach while he was gone and scooted towards the edge of the bed. While I do not do this very often I was in the mood for last night and I told him to use his tongue and rim my asshole. felt very good as I haven't had that done for a long time. After a few minutes I once again had him go wash up for his next task.

This time, I had scooted the edge of the bed, and had him use that wonderful tongue in my pussy instead. I told you I had been unwell for a little while, so it has seemed like forever since he has gone down on me. Every time I let more than a couple of days go by without him doing it, when he does it again I am overwhelmed with how good it feels, and wonder why I let even a day pass without having him do it.

Between the foot worship, rimming, and attention to my clit I came very hard twice. I stopped and let him get up and go wash up. Funny how he never complained about having to go wash up as each time he came back to the room he got to do something else he enjoys very much. He came back to bed, and I tied him for sleep, and then just cuddled up to him and played with his little caged cock and tight little balls until he fell asleep. I know he was very horny but I told him I love him being frustrated and don't worry you will cum again at some point. Since I wasn't ready to go to sleep yet, I left him tied and came out and made some tea, and decided to write this while he slept, dreaming.
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luv'ing Mr Stubb's!
Posted:Mar 2, 2021 7:00 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:52 am
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I have been over the moon with this new device, the Mr Stubbs! My sub has been able wear it 24/7 since we got it, with the exception of twice when it was removed for short periods for prior commitments.

But now it has been on for over thirty-five days. The longest he ever went in any other device was twenty-one days and not mention that he is now over months of denial as well. The best part is that he has been able do so much with the device on that he never would have even have dared try with any of the others, including house remodeling, moving large appliances and as I mentioned earlier, attending a live sporting event. So as far as I'm concerned he can continue wear it for the foreseeable future!!!

He does complain about it and wanting be able get out let his cock and balls stretch. I look at his little balls locked in between the rings and grin knowing they haven't swayed freely for the past month and a half, it's so cool knowing that in 2021 he has been locked in a cage 59 of the 61 days. Another complaint for both of us is that for the past couple of weeks I have not been well and part of the time was not even home, which meant I wasn't even able tease or with the cage and his locked up balls at all, which makes being locked up very boring. It isn't fun, or exciting, or sexy, be put in chastity if you're just ignored. You actually have with your little toy 🤣 or it just feels abandoned! Of course with him nice and locked up I knew he wasn't going be able to by himself while I was gone as well.

It is almost as easy for him do his daily hygiene with it on as with it off, though he complains it takes much longer. I guess I'll have time him next time it's off and see what the difference is. If it is longer than he will need start getting ready earlier. I also get quite the out of thinking of him carefully shaving his balls around the device.

I do so love the feeling of it pressed against my ass at night when we sleep, knowing that is as far as he can go - that is, in those few nights he isn't tied for sleep. and I love press my ass back against it and pull him just a little closer and whisper those sweet words, "You know, if you weren't wearing a chastity device, I wouldn't even be able feel you at all!". The other nights when he's tied spread or in the sleep sack I can cup the cage and balls and tease as much as I want! I love teasing him!!!
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Valentine's Morning Tease
Posted:Feb 14, 2021 2:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:50 am
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My sub always wants a blow job, (who doesn't enjoy one?) and will ask for one often, knowing he will not get one. He used to get one for his birthday every year before we started practicing long-term chastity and denial but that stopped as I didn't see any reason why he should expect one that particular day and be ready for it if it was during one of the long sessions. He missed three birthdays during the 3+ year denial after all. Lately he has been asking me if we can take the device off so he can go inside me. So I decided for Valentine's day I would give him a special treat and give him both - a blow job and let him go inside me, but of course it would only be on my terms.

So, I woke him up this morning playing with his balls, and getting him really horny, then started sucking and biting on his nipples until he was really hard inside his little cage. I also did another trigger for him and started biting and sucking his underarms. Something about that area seems wierd but when it's being sucked on its very, very intense.

He was squirming as much as he could but being tied down I had the upper hand of course. Once I finished with his nipples and underarms I took the covers off and went down and started sucking his balls and rolling my tongue all over them. He was getting so hard in his little cage and I started tonguing the tip of his cock through the slit in the top. I love how about a 1/4" sticks out. Every so often I would stop and use a fingernail in the slit. I then lifted the cage and took the whole thing into my mouth and sucked gently. I told him "There I just deep throated you and took all of you inside me so now you have had your blow job!". He wasn't very happy about that as he says that there is very little feeling with just an occasional lick on the shaft through one of the little slits on the side of the cage.

What I did next was even a little meaner as I climbed up on top of him and spread my pussy and lifted the cage, and put the cage inside of my pussy and said, see, now you have gone inside me as well. The look on his face as he couldn't feel me at all was priceless as he was so frustrated. I knew this wasn't anything like what he had had in mind!

Once I teased his cock enough I moved back to his nipples and attacked them again as well as his underarms. I left some nice Valentine's hickeys under his arms too.



So all that work made me horny so I climbed up on his face and rode his mouth and tongue reverse cowgirl so I could play with his nipples and watch his cock bob around in his cage as I enjoyed a few very hard orgasms. It was so cool that even from a distance I could see the tip of his cock poking out of the top of the cage.

It's been a year since being able to meet anyone for a cuckold session, and the little tease got me very excited that pretty soon I'll be able to meet with others very soon!

Happy Valentine's Day, cuck! I love you.
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January Chastity Update
Posted:Feb 4, 2021 11:16 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:49 am
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As I mentioned in a couple of recent blog posts, I'm slowly trying get my sub back into a denial period of my liking so slowly easing him into . Ok, wasn't that slow but on top of starting the denial again, he's back to chastity almost full time as well.

This is a chart that shows the month of January and how often my sub was locked in chastity and with what device. A "c" by the device is that it was off for cleaning and an "r" means he had a release from milking. Cleaning means it was off for a couple of hours . The second column is the amount of times he orgasmed that particular day. As you can see, his being allowed cum stopped pretty quick. The third column shows if he was tied that day, and if so, in what position. "T" is for tied in the bed, "B" is for a sleepsack and "CH" if he was tied in the chair which usually meant he was tied for bed later as well.



I think we started the year off pretty well, and with the new chastity device it made it so much easier to keep it going. I still have a little laugh when he thought this was going be a short session to try out the new device. I sure he's dreading to see how much he will finally be locked up for February and how all the cells will be filled.
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Road Trip Fun
Posted:Jan 30, 2021 3:15 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:48 am
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We took a quick trip to get away from the house for a few days and watch some live hockey. Of course we always plan on doing fun & kinky things while traveling. One evening we went to one of the local adult superstores as they usually have a good selection of clothing at a reasonable . But nothing was of interest so we kept our for the time being.

The next morning we slept in and then headed for a late breakfast with plans to go to another of the chains store. We ate, got and as we were heading toward the freeway my sub spotted a different adult store so we stopped to see what they had. Big mistake on his part, I fell in love with a of different outfits. We spent over an hour there and I came out with two lingerie outfits, a pair of leggings and panties. Panties are always fun to .



On the way home I told him I wanted to play before the game for about an hour. We brought our chair as we didn't want to bring the other larger pieces as we were in a new hotel and not sure how much space there was. So within about mins of getting back to the room he was strapped in the chair with the isolation hood on. I decided that I wanted him more secure than our earlier tests so we brought a few more straps, and did they work. Once all straps were in place he was able to wiggle just a little. He had straps on his biceps, wrists, upper calves and ankles as well as rope from the hood to the chair to keep his head up and, of course, clover clamps.

I left him to squirm for about mins, it was fun to hear the chair creaking and his little moans. I went over and took the clamps off and attacked his nipples with my fingers and teeth. It was so nice that he wasn't able to move away. Of course the clamps went back on for another mins or so and repeated the torment again before releasing him so he could do something for me before the game.

On the walk back to the hotel I told him I wanted to try the chair again before bed. So once again he was strapped in with clamps on his already sore nipples, which got more sore with another two sessions. The third sessions I used electro clamps on his nipples. Usually I have to let him know ahead of time to use them, but tonight for some reason he didn't complain. 😂
It was so fun watching him jump with the electro pattern.



Once I thought he had enough, the clamps went on again for some more torment. To add to the fun, mine not his, I used my little metal flicker on him. I love how it leaves such nice marks. I probably left about 30 goods marks on him and, surprisingly, there are still about of them still showing the next . His marks usually never last no matter how much I do and one of the reasons I like the flicker.



I took the clamps off and tormented his nipples again and then decided to end the evening with the nipple suckers. They were left on for about mins and then attacked his nipples for the final time of the evening.

It was a great way to end the last night of our trip. He is also still in chastity and did the long drive and games with it on. This new device has worked very well. That's not to say I didn't get satisfied, even though I didn't connect with a local guy for sex, I used his mouth, tongue and fingers a lot over the 3 days we were there which got him hornier!!! 😂 😂 😂
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