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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

One month of denial and counting!
Posted:Jan 24, 2021 4:55 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:47 am
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Looks like the blogs are still chopping off words from the original post so this will be repeated in the first comment.

Chastity and denial has been very good for us this year so far. Well, for me at least since I'm the one dolling out the denial. The past year with the pandemic I had been nice since my sub still has go into work daily and have allowed him to cum more often than in previous . Now when I say more it was still only about 2-3 times a month. LOL.

As I knew I was going start getting him back into a long-term denial session, I was very, very nice for his last orgasm and gave him a very rare blow job on Christmas morning. I guess you could say it was a Christmas miracle! 😂

Of course he had no clue to what I had in mind and thought he would still be able to go inside and cum in the New Year. On Monday it will be a month of denial for him. Another thing I did make it even more frustrating for him was, after the blowjob, I have made it a point not touch his coc I've played with his balls and nipples a LOT but not the shaft which really drives him crazy. Another way I have been teasing him is like the picture below and the result makes his balls so dark it's makes for a great blue balls pic.



Another reason that I haven't touched his shaft is that the majority of time it's been locked in the chastity cage. He was in the CB-6000s for the first few days of the year and then Mr Stubb arrived, and with the exception of about 3 hours, it has been on his privates since. This month there was only 2 days he has not been locked up which he hasn't been too thrilled with as he was just cut off. He will be out of it for a couple of hours on Monday but will be locked up again once he gets back home and showers and shaves.

This new device has been a dream, for me at least, for him it's more of a nightmare. 😂 It's much smaller than his others so is easier to wear under his clothes and is not as restrictive. Not only has he been able to wear it to work, but he's able to do the majority of home chores with it on as well. For those who have worn a CB or been part of a partnership with someone who wears a device one of the biggest turnoffs is the smell that comes with wearing them and while I can't say it's gone completely it very minimal. This is a huge plus as nothing was worse or more of a turn-off than playing in the area and having that funky smell on my fingers or just being there.

We will be going on a mini-trip this coming week and before the new device was ordered I thought he would have to be out of a cage. But once again Mr Stubb's saves the day and I've decided that he would be able to wear it for the drive as well as the hockey games we will be attending. I think my playing in the car will be a great tease for him and making him uncomfortable in the cage while I'll get cum as much as I want. And of course that's only the drive and not counting how many times we will be doing something in the hotel. 🤣🤣. I'm sure we'll be going a sex shop as well as there are a few very nice ones in the area. Poor baby will be so frustrated by the end of the wee Or should I say even more frustrated!

I think he's really regretting mentioning that there was a new device available seeing that it will be quite awhile until his cock is touched. How's everyone's else New Year going?
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Chair Fun
Posted:Jan 19, 2021 8:36 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:46 am
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Going try and put the story here again. If it looks like words are missing the story will also be in the first comment.

We've been trying to do what we can during the pandemic and at the end of last year I told my sub I want to try and do more, even it's for a short period of time. We had another opportunity to play again last night.

We had bought a wooden folding chair a while back to take with us on my cuckold meets. The chairs in most hotel rooms don't let me tie him up securely enough and I wanted something to make him less mobile while having fun. With the pandemic it has yet to be used for that purpose.

The chair was bought specifically so that he can be tied at various points to restrict his movements. We found some nice chair binders from sub-shop that we used with the chairs at the hotesl and we thought would work better with the wooden chair.

We had finished watching a hockey game, my team won, and since it was an early game there was some time to play but I had things I needed to get done. I had texted him to see what he had planned for after the game and his reply was "not much but get ready for bed and work the next ". Perfect, so I told him to go to the bathroom and then the bedroom after the game. Funny how you have to sometimes even while home.

Once in the bedroom I told him I wanted to finally try the chair and for him to get it ready while I got some other things . Since there isn't a lot to it, 6 ties looped around various places, he had it setup pretty quick. I flipped a blindfold, posture collar and nipple clamps on the bed and got him in the chair. Two sets of the ties were used on his arms and one set in his ankles. The posture collar made sure his head stayed up. Ear plugs were put in and then industrial hearing protector ear muffs were placed over his ears to further reduce his hearing. The ear muffs were another item purchased that haven't been used yet. While I want him to hear while doing something with someone, I don't want him to listen to us talking in between sessions. He was now pretty much deaf and blind. I didn't use a gag as I wanted him to be able to tell me if something happened with the chair or ties since it was the first time using them together.

Once he was completely secured I put clover clamps on his nipples and used the O-Ring in the collar to stretch them a little. I was in the room with him doing other things and he could not hear me all as I went over a couple of times and squeezed the clamps or took them off and tormented his nipples with my fingers and caught him by surprise.



After about 30 minutes I switch the clover clamps for vacuum twist cupping nipple suckers. I love how his nipples are pulled and stretched while these are on. He says the pressure is like his nipples are being pulled off. Problem with these is that the worse pain is while they are on and not after taking them off. I took them on and off a couple of times and played with his nipples, but I got a better reaction from him after taking the clover clamps off.



Once I was done with all my little tasks I able to concentrate on playing with him a lot more. I got out my little doctor hammer we have as well as a couple of Wartenberg Pin Wheels, one with one row of needles and the other with 5 rows. I used them both all over his body and had him jumping, at least trying to, pretty good. I had the sucking devices on his nipples at the time and took them off one at a time and ran the wheel over his sore nipples. He was really trying not to yell with those. .

Before I let him go I climbed on his lap and took some more pics. Unfortunately the mirror I was aiming at was too close and they didn't come out so well. He was trying to figure out what I was doing sitting on him and leaning into him but he was enjoying it a lot.



As it had been about an hour and a half and he had to get up early for work I started to let him loose. When we started play he was blindfolded and I was in regular clothes and a team t-shirt, when I took off the blindfold he saw me in a leather- lace nightgown he didn't know I ordered. He words summed it up nicely - "Wow!". LOL. That made me feel really good.

We talked about a few things we would change the next time around. We would swap the upper arm binders for another set we've had for a long time that can connect via a strap that's could go through the back bars of the chair. This way we can use that set of binders for his knees as he had too much play in his legs. The posture collar needs to be secured to the back of the chair as well. He had too much play and was able to move his head forward, but the collar kept his head upright. Loop the clover clamp chain a couple of turns around the O-Ring of the collar to really stretch his nipples out, maybe even use the nipple tree. Now that we know the chair works well, a gag will definitely be in use the next time as well. The ear muffs worked well too and should be good for this type of play as well as for my meets when I don't want to have him hear.

This post turned out to be longer than I thought it was going be. Hope you stayed for the entire post and enjoyed reading about our latest last minute adventure as much as we did having it.
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Locked up in his cage continues
Posted:Jan 14, 2021 1:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:44 am
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Going try and put the story here again. If it looks like words are missing the story will also be in the first comment.

As I mentioned at end of my last blog post, we had ordered a new chastity device. We haven't been able do a lot of chastity past couple of and I really miss , so this year I want have him locked as much as possible. new cage arrived last Wednesday, sooner than expected, and while I was not home when he got home from work, was left bed with a note have by time I returned.

's a new device offered from CB-X and we already have a number of cages from them. I really like seeing a in chastity, ok, female chastity belts are pretty hot too, and the ones from this company are clear so you can see the cock while it's locked . We ordered cage as rings and spacers from other devices can be used . 's called "Mr Stubb" and shorter than his other cages that he normally wears. As you can see for the picture below the older one in the right is much larger. This one is 1/2" shorter and looks so nice him. When I tease him and get him hard really fills cage.



cage was for days and fit him perfectly! He even wore it work, something he hasn't done in a couple of . I missed him wearing during day and knowing he's uncomfortable and maybe in a meeting and he has move differently. LOL. He had a longer spacer between ring around his ball and cage because he said edges of cage were sharp and they will wear down with . I had fun at night as I had him tied for bed and was able molest him. Of course his nipples were included in torment as they are a huge trigger for him and the cage filled nicely.

Friday evening came off as he had climb roof take down Christmas lights and I didn't want a major injury, I do need him wor LOL. He also had another commitment that evening that he wouldn't be able wear so that's why lights were taken down Friday evening as I didn't want him out days in a row. Once he was back home he showered, shaved and locked back . This time with shortest spacer as edges were better already.



was really nice having him in chastity all day over weekend. Keeping him tied for bed has been great as I get tease him and knowing he knows he can't do anything about . His cock still has not been played with this year as it's been locked or I've ignore couple of days he was not caged. I've also put him in sleepsack with it and did zippers so cage sticking out but he fully secured. Of course in sleep sack I can't tease his nipples so he gets little teasing while in it, just his balls played with. Too bad for him! LOL.

We did wind with an empty house for a very short time over weekend and I really wanted do some impact . 's been a while since I've been able really him So I had hold back a little. Even though we were limited time I was able a leather paddle, long wood paddle, the lollypop and a cane. I started off sort of light and worked from there. Being that had been awhile and his butt wasn't worked for I had limit about 20 strokes each one, but I did get some good hits in.

Last night while we were in bed I was teasing him and telling him how nice it's been having him locked . That he was able do whole week with no problems and even was able wear wor Of course he wasn't able answer and argue as his mouth was busy at moment. . Maybe because he has a lil cock has worked so well, but I have really enjoyed him locked in this new cage. Before his alarm went off for work this morning I was playing with cage again while he was asleep. After a few minutes he woke and I continued tease his balls and nipples, I could feel how hard he was through cage. After a few more minutes of playing I untied him and then fell back sleep before his alarm went off. I didn't wake again until he was out of shower and dressing for wor I told him that was too bad I fell back asleep as I was going let him out, but now since he's showered and ready for work there was no reason for him to be let out. He wasn't really going be let out but I like the face he made thinking he had a chance to be let out and missed .

I think he was hoping this would be a semi-short period be lockup'ed, like a few days or so, but I think he's realizing that may be a little longer than he expected.
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Locked up to start the year!
Posted:Jan 3, 2021 6:48 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:43 am
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Going try and put the story here again. If it looks like words are missing the story will also be in the first comment.

Hope everyone is having a Happy New Year so far and have tried to have a kinky weekend to start the year.

In my last post it was about my sub being placed in the sleep sack for the afternoon and he would be sleeping in it again that night. However, I changed my mind and decided that he would start the New Year in chastity instead. After he was released from the bag I had him take a shower and while he was in the shower I noticed his chastity cage and that's when I changed my mind.

When he got out of the shower the clothes I wanted him in for the evening were on the bed as well as the cage. He texted me to see why he had to have it on tonight as that wasn't the plan, as I think he was hoping he would be able to use his lil cock later on, but I never answered the text. When he finally came out of the room he had a very disappointed look on his face as I grinned seeing the slight bulge in his pants.

When we finally got to bed I had him go down on me so at least I could cum that night and of course the cage stayed on. After I came, I had him clean up and then tied him down for sleep. We woke up about 5 and I released him for a while but a couple hours later he was tied back down as I wanted to sleep in very late and I wanted a human body pillow. We finally got up about .

As for the cage, it has stayed on through the weekend and we had some errands run as well as meeting some people for quick social distance visits and swapping gifts or food. As we were outside it was chilly, So Cal chilly, so I knew his cage was getting tight with the chill and making him uncomfortable. LOL.

Saturday night we were watching videos in bed on Fet and Alt and I was getting horny while watching a great strap-on video so I had him go down between my legs and use his mouth and tongue on me while I continued to watch. He was still able to hear as he had a headset in but could not see. The last mins or so of the video was very hot as the male was flat on his stomach and she was laying completely on top of him with the large dildo inside him. For those that can watch videos on Alt and are into strap-on play I highly recommend JNS243 videos as they have a lot of great videos.

My sub noticed about a week ago that the CB-X company released two new cage models which are smaller than the ones he currently has. While I love him in the Custom Chastity Ghost, I really enjoy seeing him in the CB- X ones as they are see through and I can see his cock clearly through it. Last night while watching the videos I decided that he needed to put an order in for one of the devices. The device ordered should reduce the empty space in the cage.



He also added a few of the other parts of the cage to the purchase as we have had some break or they have been used for a long time. Hopefully the order comes in soon and I can have him locked up with the new smaller cage. It will be nice rotating another cage into the lineup.

As for now, he's still locked up and in the New Year his cock has gone untouched. I have played with his balls quite a lot while in bed, as well as his nipples, but his cock has gone without much of anything. I might let him out tonight as I want to have him in the bag for bed so I'll see how that goes. But of course in the bag with his arms in the sleeves and the bag covering his cock it still won't be touched. I'm hoping that he will be able to start wearing it soon to work again and not just once he gets home.

It's been a good start to the New Years for me!
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Happy New Year!!
Posted:Dec 31, 2020 11:54 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:42 am
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Going try and put the story here again. If it looks like words are missing the story will also be in the first comment.

Last day of 2020, a year that none of us expected nor wanted. So much was cancelled and fun stuff stopped dead in its tracks.

On the kinky side, we had so much planned and people to get together with, but like almost everyone else that all stopped mid-March. Our personal BDSM play is very few and in between as we seldom if ever have an empty house.

Today my sub, who has been having to go to work everyday, surprised me and came home early. I was busy with things around the house and I didn't want him to bother me so I decided a good way to end the year was with him being tied for a while. I've had him tied spreadeagle lately for sleep so didn't want to do that again so the canvas sleepsack was brought out.

Before putting him into the sack, ear plugs and a goggle blindfold was put on, followed by a leather hood so he was double blindfolded. He then climbed up on the bed and I guided him into the sleepsack, getting his arms in the internal sleeves was an adventure but got them in. Once he was zipped in I attached the 6 connectors from the under the bed restraint system so he had very little wiggle room. The final touch was attaching the D- Ring on the top of the hood to a rope at the head of the bed. So he really wasn't going anywhere. I gave him a kiss on the lips and left him be for 2 hours. I checked in on him a few times but left him alone so he could rest. For those who can see videos, one will be uploaded soon.



It was a nice way to end the year and hope that we can get back to kinky things again very soon. The sleep sack is still on the bed so he will probably be spending the night in it as well once we go to bed.

Happy New Year everyone! Hope you have a kinky one.
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Love tease & denial
Posted:Dec 9, 2020 7:10 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:41 am
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Going try and put the story here again. If it looks like words are missing the story will also be in the first comment.

So we've been back from our quick trip for a few weeks now and I've kept the teasing up for a good portion of time. I was able to keep his nipples very sore for about a week after but took a little break with Thanksgiving.

So that I could have complete access to his nipples as soon as we got into bed each night he would be tied in a spread eagle, and on would go the clover clamps. I teased and played with them for over 30 minutes a night to keep them very sore. Every day when he went to work, they rubbed against his shirt, and reminded him of everything we had done.

Not all that time is spent on his nipples of course. I have been doing other things as well while he is tied, playing with his balls while he is locked up in his cage is another favorite activity. Getting him so worked up that his lill cock is trying to squeeze out of his little cage, the tip poking out of the pee hole is always fun to see and play with. Once his cock is as hard as it can get in the cage, during this time we're watching videos, either our homemade ones or others on other sites while I'm continuing to tease his cock and balls or taking the nipple clamps off and twisting his nipples. A few times once I'm getting ready to shut the lights off for the night I'll climb up and smoother his face while taking off the nipple clamps so I can feel his mouth on me as I'm torturing his nipples. Once I'm done and happy with what I've done I'll curl up on him and go to sleep. He doesn't go to sleep as quickly as he is still very worked up and horny. Oh, the fun I get from teasing him!

There are other times where instead of him being teased, I have him going down on me as I watch the videos. We have ear plugs in and when he's going down on me I usually have a video of me with someone else so he has to listen to me being fucked as he is using his tongue on me. That gets me off so much. We had one great session where he went down on me for about forty-five minutes and I must have cum about a dozen times. Seems like my multiple orgasms are coming back and I like it.

He was allowed to cum once right on Thanksgiving, but that has been it. It was about a month before that he came last and now it's been going on for almost 2 weeks now. I haven't told him when he will be cumming again as I like keeping that a surprise. He did get a break this year as he was allowed to cum more than he has in about the past 5 years combined due to extra stress at work and everything else, but since I love long term denial and have missed it so much who knows if it will another month or year. I've missed how he is when he hasn't cum in a long time. We shall see.
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Finally - A short Get-Away
Posted:Nov 22, 2020 1:47 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:40 am
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Going try and put the story here again for the pictures. If it looks like words are missing the story will be in the first comment.

So after 8 long months we finally went on a little getaway. My sub's work has not changed and he's been going in everyday throughout this whole time so he really needed a break, even if it was only for 3 days, and me getting out of the house for more than a shopping trip was good as well.

We went back to the location where we were able to do an outdoor session before as we wanted to try again. We couldn't have asked for better weather as it was in the 80's in November. Another reason for going to the same place is that we knew it would not be very crowded so minimal exposure and risk.

Once we checked in we took a walk to scout out locations. I was hoping to do something a little different this time than the spread eagle. We walked on a trail for about a half-mile until we came across a dry wash. We started hiking up the wash to see if there were any trees that we could use. Unfortunately there weren't, but a rock formation that looked like it would be nice. We looked around to make sure it was isolated before heading back to the cabin with plans to go back the next day.

We went wine tasting after, well, I did as my sub doesn't drink wine, and I had two very good pours that got me very tipsy. Once we were done we headed home and once there we ended up on the bed and my subs mouth and tongue got to work. The wine got me very horny and as we were out and away from everyone I was able to be very vocal. Oh, did it feel great! He must have kept going for about an hour and I came so many times I was exhausted! Unfortunately for him he was in his chastity cage so he wasn't able to orgasm at all. Once I was completely satisfied we slept in a spoon position so I could feel the cage on my butt.

The next morning we got everything ready for our hike. Most people take food, blankets, water, binoculars, etc. Our bag had rope, cuffs, stakes, hood, blindfold, etc. We started hiking and got to the site and the sun was shining bright on the rocks but lucky for him they were still cool. He set up the camera equipment first in various places so we had different angles and I got the gear out I wanted to use. Once he was done I put the leather cuffs on him, turned him around so his back was facing the rocks and pulled his hands up. I climbed up behind him and tied the rope off so he couldn't move. We had planned to put stakes in to secure his feet in a spread position, but it was all large rocks and he didn't want to pound the stakes into the rocks. I climbed back down and put on a blindfold and gag.

I made sure his hands were still tight and then lifted his shirt and attached clover clamps on his nipples. I played with them for a couple of minutes and then let him rest with them still on and I got the next toy out. The best way to describe this toy was a small wooden beater. It's about 12" long and 1" wide on handle and about 2" on the beating end. Since a cane was too long to take this served as a good alternate as it had a good blow when it landed. I hit the front and side of his thighs as well as his stomach. He thighs were very sore the next couple of days as a result and I liked that he was moving a little gingerly. When I thought he had enough of the beater, I turned my attention back to his nipples and the clover clamps and took them off one at a time and "helped" the blood get back into them. LOL. OH, he was squirming trying to get away but all he did was drag his back against the rock. Once I was satisfied his nipples were tortured enough I put the clover clamps on them once again. If he wasn't tied I'm certain he would have dropped to his knees.



I left him tied again while I rested and got the next part of my play ready, and watched him squirm whenever there was any noise. There seemed to be quite a bit of noise with the wind. When I had him relaxed and unsuspecting, I flicked the whip I had snuck on the trip on his stomach, and boy did he jump! LOL. I haven't used a whip in such a long time and it left a lot of nice marks on his stomach. A few of the flicks did get the chain and the clover clamps for a little extra bonus. I whipped him for about 10 minutes and added the top of his thighs as well. He was really trying to remain still as he didn't want his balls hit as they were being forced out from the chastity rings. LOL.



I wanted to get a larger target so I released the rope and had him turn around and then tied his arms back around the rock; the clover clamps were still on so they dug into the rock. Lucky for him the front of his t-shirt fell in front so he had a little padding but it wasn't comfortable. I left him there while I took a water break and pictured what I was going to do next. There were still noises coming from all around and it was fun to watch his reaction to them as he couldn't see where they were.

I didn't warn him when I started so he had very little time to get ready and the first flick made him jump so he got it on both his back and nipples going across the rock. LOL. I whipped for about 15 minutes all over his back, butt and upper thighs with little breaks in between. Not much of a break as I would attack his nipples during them, taking the clover clamps off, tweaking his nipples, then putting them back on. He was really in a lot of pain but I'm pretty sure he was loving it. If not, I was for sure.

All this play had worked me up and I was pretty horny again. So I climbed back up behind the rock, he thought he was getting untied as he was still blindfolded, and started taking off my shorts and panties. The rock had a little platform so I straddled it and came up close to his face, leaned over and removed the gag and then scooted all the way up to his mouth. Once he realized what I was doing he immediately started eating me out. Not sure if it was because we had been out in the open or that it had been so long that we had done anything major in a while but it felt sooooo good. If anyone walked up I'm sure it would have been quite the sight; viewing the backside of a guy pressed against a rock while the female leaning way back straddling the rock with just hiking boots and knee hi-socks showing.



After a couple of very hard orgasms the position was getting to my back so I very reluctantly scooted away from his mouth and put my clothes back on and untied the rope holding his hands. When I got back down from the rock I had him stand against the rock facing me and took the clover clamps off at the same time and mauled his nipples. He was squirming so much as his nipples were so sore from having them on for the better part of an hour. Once I had my fun I had him gather up everything for the hike back to our cabin. When he had everything ready and he has the backpack on I pulled up his t-shirt and attached the clamps back on for the walk, he was not happy. LOL. We stopped once so I could attack his nipples again before arriving at the cabin.

Once in the cabin, I wanted to take a shower but had some other evil thoughts. I have been wanting to do a chair tie and when we got to the cabin the chairs did not look like they would work as the locations for the hands would be difficult. I guess since I still had the little high from the outdoor play I had him sit and got the restraints to work, though he did not look comfortable at all. Oh well! I pulled up his t-shirt again and pulled the clamps, forcing his nipples to stretch. He was squirming in his bonds as I pulled. I finally took them off and being the thoughtful Mistress pulled and squeezed his nipples to get the blood flowing again. Once he settled down I had something else planned. I was in back of him and arranged my panties and a sock that I was in all morning on the hike and folded them,with a nylon strap in between holding them together, and came up behind him and secured them over his nose. With the strap in place he would be able to smell me and my feet while I took a shower. I also put a ball gag in his mouth, so he was pretty much forced to breathe out of his nose through my dirty garments. Before leaving the room the clamps went on once again. Needless to say his nipples were very, very sore. I had a great time taking them off again while smashing my panties into his nose when I got out of the shower. Once I was done he was untied and told to shower so he could take me to lunch. He was very disappointed that he was not able to cum.

Unfortunately we have no video as only one cam worked and only for about 3 minutes. I guess the ghosts of the canyon wanted to keep things to themselves. It would have be great to see what we did afterwards.
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Gold again - at least for 3 months
Posted:Nov 2, 2020 6:45 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 10:38 am
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Icebreaker is gone, do we continue?
Posted:Sep 9, 2020 8:54 am
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Sounds fun
Posted:Aug 25, 2020 3:06 pm
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The blog post is in the first comment as words get dropped off with the main page. Enjoy.
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