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Posted:Jan 2, 2014 5:08 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2024 9:15 am 1552062 Views
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Cruise Piano Bar - Lovense Style
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Posted:Apr 27, 2024 10:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 7:34 am 649 Views
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As words are still be deleted from the first message this will repeat as the first comment.
The second night of the cruise, which was a day at sea, I had my sub go down on me quite a bit throughout the day. The best session was out on the balcony with a drink. After dinner we went to a show, then back to our room.
I am a big fan of the piano bar, which my sub doesn't really care for. I found a way to make it more interesting for him.
After the show, it emptied right where the piano bar is. I had my sub save us seats in the bar, and I went back up to our room with the excuse of using the restroom privately. I came back down, and my sub had drinks ready for us, and I asked him if he would like to play. Of course, he said yes and started to get up to leave his own personal hell. 😆
I laughed and told him that I put the Lush toy in and he could control it for me. We had seats where he was able to use his phone and not be noticed. He turned it on and used the 3 programs that he had saved previously to warm me up. As the night progressed, he started making his own rhythms, and I had to be careful how much I squirmed in my seat. LOL. The first orgasms felt really good, but the second orgasm came really quick and was much harder, and I'm surprised no one noticed. If they did, they ignored it or just enjoyed the show.
My sub was always on the lookout for new seats and finally found one in the corner of the bar on harder seats, which works better with the toy. It was also across from a young couple who didn't pay any attention to what was going on, so he was able to use the toy at will.
In all, I came nine times while in the piano bar and I have to say the thrill of using the toy in a very public setting, which worked so well into my exhibition tendencies as my sub filmed some of the orgasms. The funniest part of the evening was when the pianist was able to get more dirty with her playing. Her first toast was something like this:
Drink like you never drank
Dance like no one is watching
Sing like you don't know you're tone deaf
Have sex like you're being filmed.
My sub laughed and said, " Have orgasms in the piano bar and hope no one is watching." After a while, I didn't care if they did. But I found a way for both of us to enjoy the piano bar.
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Vacation Time!
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Posted:Apr 25, 2024 8:11 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 5:15 pm 1247 Views
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As words are still being cut off this will repeat as the first comment.
On our way to another cruise (I know, the retired life, lol), and we were flying to Texas to catch our ship. The airport was a different one from our last trip and at a much older airport.
We have TSA Pre-Check, so we can skip the long lines and not go through the full body scanner. I went through first and my sub got stuck a little further behind as the agent who was checking ID's was doing two different lines. Once my subbie got through he walked through the metal detector and it went off. We knew that his device didn't set it off and the guard said that he had been chosen at random for a physical search. I had already cleared the scanners so I was able to grin from afar as this time he had to have a pat down search and wasn't able to go through the full-body scanner. The agent patted all around his groin area but not his crotch. He was cleared, pick up his belongings and walked over to the area I was at laughing. I told him "random my ass, they love you!"
As most people reading this blog know, my sub is just about in permanent chastity the past couple of years and has been wearing it for travel now too since we got TSA pre-check. The device is resin with a plastic lock so it shouldn't set off any alarms, but how random is this search if he gets pulled for it every time?
Since there is no metal and no one has commented on his device, maybe it is just a weird coincidence, but I'm not so sure. We'll have to see what happens on the cruise ajs on the way home. He's not looking forward to the flight home. 😀
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Remote Toy Fun
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Posted:Apr 9, 2024 9:04 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 5:15 pm 4106 Views
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Words are still being deleted from the main post, so this will repeat as the first comment.
In February, one of the online shops we buy toys from had a Valentines sale of buy one, get one half price sale on Lovenes products. My sub asked if we could buy a couple for use on car rides and such. I was a little skeptical on the "such" part but allowed him to make the purchase as I am sort of an exhibitionist.
We bought a Lush 3, which is a vibrator, and Gemini nipple clamps. Both were used on an earlier car ride and work well, but it took a while for the vibrator to give me an orgasm so I was a little disappointed with it.
Sunday night, we went to a late afternoon hockey game, and when it was over, we decided to go out to dinner since we hadn't eaten since lunch.
When we got to the car after the game, my sub showed me that he had brought the Lush and said it might be fun to use at the restaurant. Soooo, as soon as we got into the restaurant, I went into the restroom, inserted it, and turned it on.
I walked back to the table with a grin on my face and sat next to my sub, and he started it up, which made me jump a little and the grin went to an open mouth "ohhh". The waiter came to the table for our drink order, and the vibe was on the whole time we were ordering drinks. Fortunately, my sub couldn't turn it up or down at that time because he would have to use his phone, but as soon as the waiter left, he started fiddling with it. Up and down, waves, constant high, etc. I found that it works much better when you squim on a hard seat that has no padding.
He kept it on a constant high for a while, and of course, I had an orgasm. I turned my face into his arm so no one would notice. He was having a lot of fun with it, and it didn't take long for me to come once more. At this point I found that sitting on the corner of the seat really pushed the Lush into the right area. Our food arrived, and I told my sub to turn it off while I was eating as I didn't want to orgasm while eating. LOL
I finished eating much quicker than my sub did, and without me noticing, he started it up again, full force. I about jumped out of my seat! I came again. This one was much harder than the first two. I was still recovering from the orgasm when he changed the pattern again, and I came again about 3 minutes later. My sub had such a proud look on his face after my last orgasm as he turned off the vibe. We finished our drinks and paid the bill, and he turned it back on as we were walking out of the restaurant. That was a trip, walking and feeling it vibrate.
He kept playing with the speed and wave patterns while driving to keep me on the edge. But with the softer seats, I was able to hold back any orgasm and told my sub that my next orgasms would be with his tongue and not the vibe. He was a little disappointed, but once we got into bed, he went right to work and gave me two more hard orgasms. In the morning he gave me two more when we woke up.
All in all, it was a very nice experience, and one we will repeat in the very near future. I'm a very spoiled Mistress.
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Opening Day Chastity
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Posted:Apr 1, 2024 6:35 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2024 10:34 pm 4655 Views
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As words are still being removed from the posts, this will repeat as the first comment.
I was away for the last week of March, and of course I left my sub locked in his chastity cage. Since I was gone, there was no reason for it to come off. He reminded me that he was going to Opening Day and he's always been allowed to take it off since the restrooms are always packed and even more so the first game of the year. I originally told him he could and then put it back on when he got home.
But over the course of the week I thought about it more and the night before told him no, I wanted it left on as it's been on since the 1st and see no reason why it needs to come off this month. He argued that I told him he could take it off earlier and my reply was that's the nice part of being in charge; I can change my mind.
I also told him I wanted pictures before to prove that it was on for the game. And as I had memorized the number on the lock before I left, I wanted pics of the lock number with a date stamp afterward.
He delivered beautifully, with pictures before in the car, while in the stadium restroom and finally when he got home. For him doing a good job, he was rewarded when I got home by rimming me and playing with my clit until I orgasmed. Unfortunately, this month my orgasm total was significantly down compared to the previous month. We'll have to work on this in April.
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Birthday Update
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Posted:Mar 26, 2024 7:27 am
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2024 9:15 am 5532 Views
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As posts are still losing words, this will repeat as the first comment.
It's been a while since a post, so we will have a few updates in this one. We just celebrated my subs' birthday this past weekend, and with it came some cool milestones.
The real milestone for his birthday is that it's been two years since his last real blow job. He was told back then that it would be a very long, long time before he got another one, if ever. I have gone down on him with the cage on, but he can't feel anything, it's just a tease to remind him of what he's not getting. Also, in two days it will be eighteen months since his last orgasm and being inside me. The best part of that is that he barely got inside me before cumming so he really didn't get to enjoy it. Of course, this doesn't count anal orgasms, as he has had a couple of those the past year or so. And I think they get more intense the longer he goes without a real orgasm.
Another milestone is that it's been eleven months since his cock was last touched, by anyone other than himself while cleaning or switching cages. Of course, he hasn't been allowed to take it off that many times this year so far, so even his touches have been very limited. In fact, this session the cage has been on since March 1st and probably not coming off again until at least mid-April. The last time the cage was off, I had him tied down in bed and was playing with his nipples to see how hard he could get. His cock has gotten shorter but the other thing was when he got hard his cock bent upwards. Looking into it bending found it's not a bad thing. This is a picture while he was still semi-erect.
It wasn't mentioned in the last post, but I did start teasing his nippples again in early February. I missed tormenting them, so I started playing with them again. He's been getting a good dose of fingers and clamps on them.
I verbally tease him quite often that I usually have more orgasms in a single day than he has had in the last few years combined. In fact, one of the last posts mentioned that I was on track to have over a hundred orgams in the month. I'm happy to say that I actually had 119 in February.  It is such a strong feeling of power and control to keep him in orgasm denial while he still has to service me with his mouth, hands and strap-on. The strap-on is the most effective as he has to go through the motions of fucking, but getting no satisfaction from it as he usually has numbing cream on his cock, while I'm orgasming over and over again.
I've told him that as long as I have his tongue, hands and the strap-on, I see no reason to have to use his cock to ever cum again. And I think he is just fine with that, as long as he gets teased and played with regularly. If I do want a real cock I always have the option to cuckold him with others. Not the scenario for everyone, but it works for us.
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500 Days without an orgasm
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Posted:Feb 12, 2024 7:09 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2024 3:01 pm 11764 Views
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Words are still being deleted so this will be repeated as the first comment
This week, we celebrated a huge milestone.
500 days orgasm free for my sub. Not the first time he has gone this long and probably not the last.  It's hard to believe it's been that long, but I have no intention of breaking it now, and after all, I'm still having as many as I want.
This past week alone, he has gone down on me every single day, with me averaging 4 to 6 orgasms each time. If I hadn't been away early in the month, it would have been the whole month so far, but I didn't get home until the 3rd. But he can keep going for the rest of the month. I have not hit 100 orgams in a month lately, so maybe this month?
He has also used the strap on dildo on me a couple of times, and I really teased him by going down on the dildo and telling him "there, you got a blow job". 😀
I have been tying him most nights and even got to use a paddle on him twice this week, which was very exciting. We are going to try to go to a hotel next month, so we can play for hours so have to work on his endurance. Maybe he might get his nipples tormented as well by then, but they are still off-limts for now. I can't wait as it's been a long time since a hotel play session.
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2024 Update - 78 days locked
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Posted:Feb 9, 2024 10:03 am
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2024 1:27 pm 12792 Views
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As words are still be removed by the system, this will repeat as the first comment.
It's been a while since the last update. Vanilla life got in the way, and we haven't been able to do much for a couple of weeks and I was gone for over a week.
The cage remained on for 78 straight days before it came off. This was by far the longest he remained caged without a device being removed for a cleaning or whatnot and the same numbered plastic lock was used the entire time. This batch is much more durable. The other previous time was 48 days. He had a doctors appointment that required it to be off, so I let him keep it off after the visit but there was still no touching of his cock. After it being locked up for so long it was very weird seeing him without the cage. His cock was also noticeably smaller and thinner.
As I was gone for a good portion of the time that the cage was off, he was on the honor system. As we have used it so much in the past, I didn't have any worries that he wouldn't be a good boy. Before I left, I did make sure that he went down on me and used his fingers A LOT, so I was fully satisfied before leaving.
On the night of January 31st, he put the cage back on so the count could start at the beginning of the month. He also used the black Mini-me as he knows I prefer it so much. Unfortunately, he won't be able to keep it on as long as the last session, but it will still be a few weeks at least.
One other thing that he will be missing is having his nipples played with by me. I decided that starting January 1st, those would be off limits for the foreseeable future as he gets so turned on by having them played with via my hands, mouth or clamps. I thought it would be a nice evil thing to do and while I'll miss playing with them he will miss it a lot more since his cock is still not being touched either and not having that outlet either. Once again he has no idea how long it will be before I start playing with them again. I did see some nipple shields that can be left on for a number of days using adhesive so I can make it really rough on him if I decide to.
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Airport Adventures
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Posted:Jan 15, 2024 9:30 am
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2024 5:07 pm 16410 Views
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As words are still being deleted from the main post, this will repeat as the first comment.
We went on a trip on New Years Eve and our New Year started with a kinky, possible exhibitionist start. A few days before we left, I told my sub he could take off his chastity device for the airport security, but he would be putting it back on before we boarded the plane. However, after thinking about it for a couple of days, and since we have TSA Pre-Check, I changed my mind and told him that morning he would be wearing it through security. He argued that he would need it off, but I won.
He had no problems whatsoever getting through security as it was the old fashioned walk through detectors (he wears a plastic device with a plastic numbered lock so no worries of metal detectors) and not the scanner type. I told him it won't be removed at least until we are home from the trip, which wasn't until the 7th. He was at 57 days with it on at the time of the trip, the longest he has ever had it on without removing, and the reason I wanted to keep him locked. I'm not sure when we will be able to go this long again, so I really wanted to keep it going. In addition to being caged, he hadn't orgasmed at all in 2023, and I have only touched his cock once for about 3 seconds the entire year.
Our return flight turned out to be a little more hectic as our flight was canceled in the morning due to the panel come off a plane a couple of days before. So we were scambling to try and book another flight and get home that day. As we weren't sure we would get the TSA Precheck, he suggested he take the cage off. I just looked at him and said that it would be the only thing that stayed the same. When we got to the airport, he was very relieved that our tickets had TSA Precheck and saw that a couple of the lines had the old metal detectors, so he made sure we were in one of those lines. But as luck would have it for him, wouldn't you know it as we were going through the metal detector, he was randomly chosen to go through the new full-body scanner as well. But he made it through with no problems, although he was sweating bullets, LOL. Of course, I had walked through before him and was laughing at him from the end of the counter, 
And of course, now that we know he can go through with no problems, I won't have to let him take it off for the next trip.
I am looking forward to a great 2024 with him caged the majority of the time and denied the entire time. I can't take the credit for this quote as I got it from another site, but I really like it; "one year more, for '24"!
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2023 Results and 2024 Goals
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Posted:Jan 2, 2024 6:48 am
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2024 5:06 pm 19229 Views
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As words are still be deleted this post will repeat as the first comment.
Happy 2024! 2023 seemed to have just flown by whichnis surprising as my subwas home a lot more and everyone said it would make things go slow, wrong. LOL. Our Femdom marriage enters roughly our 32nd year. This year the milestones going into the new year are:
His last orgasm: 461 days
Last time he was allowed to go inside me: 461 days
Chastity with very short breaks: 359 days - one of the highlights of last year is he slept in chastity every night which he has never been able to do before.
Current continuously locked period: 58 days
Goals for 2024
One of my main goals for the new year is to do a lot more cuckolding, at least once per month, but prefer twice a month. Use the theater method to have the possibility of multiple guys in one session.
Continue the constant chastity regiment
Get together with our femdom couple friends and meet and play at least once every two months
Go to a munch or class at least once every three months.
Go to a dungeon or hotel at least once every two months for BDSM play
Of course, this is all while navigating through our vanilla life, which has had some major changes this past year and keeping everything separate is always a major trick as most of you already know.
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