The Script and the Visage
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Posted:May 10, 2024 6:12 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 9:47 am 1030 Views
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So, for any who don’t know, digital puppet 101 is pretty basic from the avatar creators’ POV: steal (copy-paste) someone else’s profile pictures to use as a stunt double, write a usually grammatically and content garbled textual replacement to tell the unsuspecting about “yourself” (while most likely ignoring not so subtle sensible pairings of age, ethnicity, etc,) and throw a dart at a map to select a pretend city location. Then use the dreaded script questions (e.g., what are you looking for? how long have you been here?) to warm up your marks before asking for money for some “urgent situation” or another. You can’t unsee these tired plays once seen. And the ones running this soft con to extract dollars from lonely people have ruined this site and others like it (e.g., AdultFriendFinder) for the legitimate community in search of real people to meet. But such is life. When fed shit, start a garden. Right? So stay tuned. I’m going to let every artificial flower bloom here for all to see. It’s spring time under the hood!
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“Diane”
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Posted:May 10, 2024 9:23 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 11:06 am 1037 Views
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Diane says she likes to travel, but gets lonely, and she is only now recovered enough from the heartbreak inflicted on her by her cheating fiancé to venture out into the world of men again. She’s sweet, professes her honesty, her faith in God, and her firm commitment to doing whatever it takes to make her next, and hopefully forever, mate happy. She’s also rich, having inherited a fortune from her late father, and feeling pressure from her aunt to marry a man of her choice so she can get a cut of the money somehow.
Diane won’t settle for anything but true love, though, and age is not a factor.
So, really, what’s not to like about her? Only this: Diane isn’t real.
She’ll trickle out increasingly revealing photos, and rather quickly profess her love for the recipient, counting the minutes until she can finish her contract in an exotic locale like somewhere in Turkey - of which she has photos, as well - but then, tragically, her return will be delayed by a sudden illness or accident or bank snafu, and she will be in need of some assistance to get back on the road home to her new love.
Pray he doesn’t fall for it.
Her profile will go dark once enough fish are on the line, and stay that way until the con has run its course, then she’ll pop back up on the site again, only with a different user name, and a new profile with certain details changed to protect the guilty.
In the meantime, “she’ll” (?) pump out at least one steaming pile of text a day to her mark, slowly reeling him in with a play-by-play of how her heart swells (along with both her new love’s heads), as yet another professionally made-up gorgeous digital puppet manipulates some vulnerable soul into believing that, for unforeseen but entirely reasonable tragic reasons, this beautiful young capable lovebomb needs this site and the help of a stranger to disentangle herself from the sticky web she’s in.
Oh, Diane. Silly rope bunny. Such tricks are not for , or adults, who don’t deserve to be conned out of their resources by the likes of “you”, whoever “you” are. But “you” do “you.” The world will turn, the sun will come up again tomorrow, and if justice is served in a new day, those who live by the con, will die by the con, since everybody has to let their guard down sometime, and there will always be a bigger and/or smarter, more confident thief waiting to take from “you,” too.
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The “Hi, I’m New” Gambit
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Posted:May 10, 2024 4:19 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 7:16 am 968 Views
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We doms like to instruct subs, of course, training being one, if not the, most pleasurable aspect of new relationships for us. No wonder, then, when a supposed newbie alights on the site, we flock to the call of “I’m new. How do I do this?”
Con artists also know we can hardly resist helping a helpless bird, so one of the most prevalent ploys utilized here, as elsewhere, is what could also be called the Barbie Finale (because yes, it was even used near the climax of the recent Barbie film to get the Kens to help). But just take a moment to think it through, and you should see how utterly see-through it is.
Are there truly some red riding hood babes in the woods asking possibly big bad wolves for help? Yes, they might occasionally legitimately reach out amongst us, though their profiles tend to come and go as fast as tourists on a San Francisco street car. (That, or they are so inundated with the wanna-be-dated they shut the show down to regroup (regrope?)). But again, easy to see how this supports my point: how many legitimately gorgeous inexperienced subs-to-be know enough to get on a lifestyle site like this one, but know so little about the lifestyle that they think if they just show up, surely only the doms will come to their rescue, and it will be easy to spot these “real rescuers” when they arrive? Who would advise them to do this? Not this two thumbed ape.
Once doms take the bait, though - which is perhaps more akin to chum in the water in some parts (no offense to sharks) - they get hooked (is this why it’s called hooking?), and the standard reeling in begins, for the same reasons the doms got involved in the first place; they want to help.
It’s sad, really, and again this kind of manipulation for money does real damage to the legitimate community of caring, responsible members who can become jaded if routinely taken advantage of in unfair power shares.
And what dom worth the salt in his/her/their wounds is going to be willing to admit to being owned by a newbie sub? Right. Zero adjacent. And so it is also likely this happens more than is recorded or reported, which does nothing to help put a stop to it.
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Telltale Signs That You Are the Mark of a Muppet
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Posted:May 12, 2024 8:30 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 4:18 pm 677 Views
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Ever wonder why so many of the non-paying members on this site, and an increasing number of the paying, want to take the conversation offsite so fast? It’s because whether it’s Gchat, Skype, Text or whatever the other platform preferred, you have to provide a number or an email, and if you are foolish enough to give ones that are real and unprotected from prying eyes, you may also be giving out at the same time, access to your address, your profession, your business address, other phone and email addresses, and useful credit information like birthday, income, last four digits of your SSN - if not all of them - emergency contact information, all of which then can lead to finding you on other sites, like Facebook, X, etc., until a file on you is so rich in detail that passwords can reasonably be hacked, or you can be blackmailed if concerned that others not get into your private interests. It’s information that has value, in other words, so it can be collected to be sold, while you lose what little protection this site can provide you by being able to deactivate solicitous and fake accounts, and allow you to block these posers from contacting you further in the meantime.
What to do?
Search for free apps that allow you to create fake that nonetheless work to allow you to receive texts on alternative platforms, while never revealing real contact information about you.
Go to ‘settings’ on your real contact sites and deselect all the information you don’t want to be public once you accept a new contact. Do the same for any new email addresses you set up, so you don’t use your regular emails, and don’t give anyone photos or video of yourself that you wouldn’t want to see online, because guess what? You likely will. The reason being your image and information can also be used to create fake profiles on sites targeting audiences you might never see, control, or realize what it says about you as you, or how it interacts with others as you.
So, first telltale sign that you are the mark of a muppet is being almost immediately asked to take the convo elsewhere.
Another are the dreaded boring scripted questions discussed in a previous blog.
Then there is the impossibly beautiful people telling you how impossibly beautiful and charming and sexy and cute you are, no matter how you look or what you do.
And there is the fact that nothing you say or do seems to trigger pushback of any kind. Everything is fine. Everyone is just so agreeable.
Another category, also as previously mentioned in an earlier post, are hints that get dropped that the people you are talking to are in a vulnerable situation that might go bad for them at any moment, leaving them no choice but to ask you for your help.
Another is how the con artist is always asking the questions, and rarely responds in kind with detailed information about themselves that isn’t cut and paste scripted responses, that these often have your name wrong, or contain details about conversations you’ve never had, or details about the muppet that are different from what their current profile shows.
And these are just the big and easy to spot signs and warning flags, of course. It can take several exchanges to expose others, like the incredibly unbelievable demands for relational exclusivity to occur after only a few days, before ever actually meeting anyone in person, and exchanging less than spit with someone, who not uncommonly might also offer to move across the world to be your everything without even knowing who you really are, what you really want, where or how you really live.
So, just remember a lot of these profiles are no more than the creations of con artists with their hands up their puppets’ asses (and not in a good way). Don’t be taken in, block and report them, and help us real people take back this site.
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The Care and Feeding of Kinks and Fetishes
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Posted:May 14, 2024 10:13 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 10:39 am 432 Views
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Kinks and fetishes run deep, so deep that the kinky and fetishists rarely have clear ideas about where their kinks and fetishes begin and the care and feeding of them might end.
We know, of course, kinks, or bends, in sexual behavior are expressed in some forms of non-conventional, aka non-straight, aka non-vanilla, sexual norms and desires, and we know that a fetish is generally distinguished from a kink by virtue of whether it enhances or replaces another’s sexual pleasure.
But that’s just Wikipedia talk.
This doesn’t begin to get at the overwhelming emotional response we have to things that can practically short circuit our normal reasoning skills, and perhaps compel us to literally forget what’s best for ourselves and others when in hot pursuit of sexual gratification.
“Impulse purchasing” has nothing on the means and ends to which we sometimes think we will go to satisfy kinky and fetishistic urges. And said urges are fairly common given some form of them are reported to be experienced by up to half of the world’s adult population.
We also know that kinks and fetishes are NOT necessarily connected to long standing myths about childhood trauma, fear of intimacy, and/or low self-esteem. There is, in fact, no data showing that people who enjoy kinky sex come from more troubled backgrounds, are less emotionally healthy, or are less self-regulated than everyone else.
Do some kinky people exhibit such traits? Of course, but so do many other people, and perhaps more, who take their sex straight, or with a splash of vanilla.
What it’s really mostly about for us is playing with power in spaces that we feel are emotionally and physically safe, which are nurtured by plenty of open communication and trust, which often take time to develop, and are usually based on mutually consensual behavioral agreements and/or long term relationships.
But if you are actually living the lifestyle, you probably know all of this and then some.
You know who doesn’t know this? The typical inexperienced money-grubbing con artist who seeks to exploit us and thinks all they need do is cater to the naughty nabobs of negativism in terms of quick and dirty, no strings attached appeals to the lizard brains on heat-seeking missions to find the right realm of non-reason to rub up against just long enough to doff sexual frustration and get off.
These fucks ironically don’t give a fuck about what drives their marks to this weak tea party, because they have no plans to leave with the ones they bring there. They just want our money.
So, fuck them, and the ignorant shallow premises they ride in here on. We have important work to do, they don’t get it, and so should get nothing more from us than a hard rail out the door (which should be fun to make happen for some of us, at least).
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Chances Are Good That You Are Talking To A ‘Chatter’
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Posted:May 16, 2024 1:45 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2024 10:30 pm 178 Views
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And will soon, if not already, be talking to AI bots (see recent story in Wired about Onlyfans contracted ‘chatters’ that respond to DMs as if they are the people fans think they are talking to, and companies training AI to take even this over in the very near term).
Mic drop,
Peace
Drdom Out
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