Mistress Buick
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Posted:Apr 27, 2024 5:48 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 11:16 pm 922 Views
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I met this lady on the site in late April. She claimed to be American and would be moving locally to me in a few days. She said she was looking to humiliate and train a sub discretely. She specified her previous experience and said she is dominant, possessive and demanding. I was certainly very interested until she started insisting Bitcoin was sent to her 3 days before we were due to start. It left me wondering what was so appealing and what that says about me.
I have some experience playing both the dominant and submissive roles.
She wanted honesty, respectfulness, attention, and open-minded with good communication. All intimate relationships require these.
She would always be willing to take my thoughts and opinions into consideration but the final decision hers. That approach is common in D/s relationships and I do the same when the roles are reversed.
She wanted reverence to her superior and for me to relinquish control. Relinquishing control to one’s partner is the basis of D/s relationships. For me, it works best when some control is handed over and the extent and depth of control builds over time. It is important to learn about each other and build trust-experience over time. Jumping straight in can be a lot of fun during that initial euphoria at the start of the relationship but such arrangements tend to burn themselves out after a few weeks. I would be content with such a fling but my ideal would be a long-term relationship.
The activities she was offering included:
• Face sitting – I am happy to provide cunnilingus in any position; both in kinky liaisons and vanilla ones.
• Rimming – I started this when my face-sitting partner became increasingly mobile as she became more excited. The ‘wrong’ hole was licked. She then kept holding herself in that position before wanting to experience it beyond face sitting. She reciprocated too. I prefer to receive anal play than to rim. I give it as a submissive or for mutual fun.
• Pussy worship/pussy licking slut – I have experienced this as a demonstration of superiority; where the woman wants it at random times to demonstrate who has the power. If she is not having her period, it is fun for me too. If she lets me continue util she orgasms, so much the better.
• Blindfold, cuffs, bondage, gags, collar and leash – fundamentals for relinquishing control. There needs to be an alternative to using the safe word if gagged. Dropping keys, coins or cloth for example; especially during the early phase of the relationship.
• Body worship, massages and oiling her – good sensual fun either way round; in a kinky relationship or a vanilla one.
• Discipline – I dislike receiving corporal punishment but have given it. I do realise that it is part of the deal around submission. I have not experienced the endorphin ‘sub-space’ but have had a sub who has. This mistress offered a gentle start to determine my limits in the various forms of discipline and then to stretch them. That is the ideal compromise.
• Being her sex toy – the basic premise of D/s relationships. It is wonderful to be wanted but frustrating when the sub is horny but the dom is not. An opportunity for the sub to try and ‘top’ from the bottom, if allowed. There is usually a way for a sub to ask/suggest without challenging the dom’s authority. Not being in the mood, but having to make an effort to serve the mistress, gets me in the mood.
• Sensual teasing and orgasm denial – tie ‘n’ tease was my gate way into kink. I really enjoy getting my partner/sub edged closer and closer without the climax. I then flipped it and made her cum even when she did not want to. It is a great way to learn about the sub’s body and exercise control at the most basic level.
• Humiliation – the various forms, from general belittling to small penis humiliation (irrespective of the size) is an art form. For me it is not about psychologically crushing the sub over time but reminding the sub of why the roles are as they are. When humiliating a sub, I prefer it to be on something the sub can do improve on. What humiliation I receive is in the hands of the mistress.
• Water sports – I see the appeal; then animalistic side, the humiliation and power implications. I have had a partner for whom this was a fantasy. Once she had done it a few times, she got the idea out of her system. I have been squirted on, so this is very similar for me. I have not been a human toilet. It is not something I would ask for but if a mistress insisted on it, I would not be resistant. This mistress did not want that. I have had subs drinking it straight from my tap. It was a preference of theirs.
• Foot stool – such forms of service go to the power dynamics.
• Nipple clamps – I have not tried this before but have used them on subs. I enjoy trying something new.
• Role play – I am no actor and need a little warning, so I can get into the role. A context is useful. A porn film, scene from a film/drama or similar perhaps. Role play can be a lot of fun.
• Train my arse to take strap on – yes please. That is a fantasy of mine. It is the ultimate submission. To be ‘taken’ as, when and how the mistress wants. It is to be vulnerable before, and emasculated by, her.
Her general approach was that I’m her slut and will be taught to please her. That is the basic premiss of most D/s kinky relationships; the sub is trained to please the dom while getting his/her needs and wants met too.
She did raise the idea of a vibrating butt plug that is controlled via an app. It would extend her control but I am doubtful as to the practicalities of wearing such a device while asleep, at work, etc. It would need to be limited to particular times of day. Unfortunately, kinky fun does clash with day-to-day vanilla life. Sexting is a better way to go for me.
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Face sat by large lady
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Posted:Apr 23, 2024 3:23 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 11:16 pm 1032 Views
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The last time I enjoyed messing around with a large lady, I teased her about not having a boyfriend. She sat sideways on my lap and fondled her boobs. She pointed out that I would not mind getting my hands on them. She stood up. I knelt in front of her and helped myself to her boobs.
She was enjoying having her blouse opened and its contents played with. I realised she took her skirt off too but not her knickers. She pushed my shoulder to tell me to lay one the floor.
Quickly, she knelt over my face and told me I should apologise for my jibe orally, not verbally. I thought it only fair. Once she came on my face and raised herself a little to recover, I expected that to be the end of that phase. She decided that I should lick clean the mess I had made. I was not in a position to object. The ‘problem’ was that turned her on again and now she wanted seconds. How could I refuse?
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