SHARING HOW TO BE A BETTER SUBMISSIVE
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Posted:Jul 27, 2019 9:51 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2021 11:35 pm 4614 Views
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Absolute credit goes to one of My favorite authors Elise Sutton.
She has helped formed Me into the Sensual FEMDOMME I am today.
If you don’t know her, please take the time to read this Wikipedia page and learn much more by her teachings!
Elise Sutton
Interpretation
Elise Sutton
Elise Sutton is the author of a website dedicated to personal relationships where the woman is dominant and the man is submissive. She is a self proclaimed Libertarian, Christian, and Supremacist. In addition her website, Sutton has written and published books, " Domination" (2003) and "The FemDom Experience" (2006).
It should be pointed that Sutton refuses to make her true identity known, perhaps for privacy reasons, however her anonymity raises the question to whether it is a single individual that runs her site and writes her books.
Her admirers claim that she brings a practical approach and a reality based perspective to what is often a misunderstood sexuality. Sutton is known for encouraging loving and caring relationships where the woman is the dominant partner. She advocates Loving Authority where the man submits the woman's authority and the woman rules her partner with love and respect.
Her critics claim that Sutton's arguments are based on misinterpretation of psychological, biological, and religious principles. Most of Sutton’s cited evidence comes from anecdotal accounts as a counselor for BDSM couples and testimonials from those within the BDSM community.
Domination
In her , " Domination", Sutton examines the supposed desire be sexually dominated by a woman. She explores from a psychological perspective why men have submissive desires toward women, where these desires originate from, and how this fantasy reflects any potential societal changes that may be influenced by this sexual desire in men. Sutton asserts that domination is a large tent with many forms, expressions and lifestyles contained therein.
In " Domination" Sutton takes the reader into the personal and intimate lives of forty couples practice different variations of the domination lifestyle. Through the experiences of others, Sutton depicts how the domination lifestyle can build a bond of intimacy, defuse arguments, relieve stress, transport sex a higher level than just the physical, empower women in society, and inject excitement into the mundane tasks of life such as household chores.
At the beginning of the , Sutton carefully explores her own unique experiences in this field and the psychology behind some men's desire to be controlled in the bedroom. The author examines the history of domination and the masochistic desires in men, mostly from the mid-Eighteen Hundreds the present.
She then goes on show how modern-day couples use domination within their own marriages, examples are incorporating discipline, English corporal punishment, leather sex (BDSM), cross-dressing, orgasm denial, and even cuckolding.
Sutton points that each is different and therefore must find what best works for them. The author also stresses that for any of this work, there must be love, intimacy, communication, and trust between the man and woman.
The FemDom Experience
Sutton's second , "The FemDom Experience" (2006) examines the Domination lifestyle by once again taking the reader into the personal relationships and sexual practices of everyday people live astonishing secret lives.
"The FemDom Experience" is a collection of personal stories of people (past and present) have observed, participated and encountered the domination lifestyle, not as fantasy but as reality. Elise adds insight and commentary as she examines what constitutes a successful FemDom relationship.
"The FemDom Experience" is separated into sections; the professional experience where a man submits a Dominatrix; the relationship experience where a man submits his wife or significant other; and the experience where a man submits an assemblage of women in a club or organization. The summation of the sections is an absorbing journey into the real world of domination as it is practiced in the United States and Europe.
Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Authority
Elise Sutton began a website in 1997 called, "Elise Sutton's Supremacy Page". It was primarily a resource list of books and other sites dedicated domination. Later, Sutton added a of articles, "How Introduce your Wife or Girlfriend the Domination lifestyle" and "How meet a Dominant Woman". Sutton also included her e-mail address and invited feedback. After growing tired of answering the questions from different people in e-mails, she started a Q&A forum on her site where she could answer people's questions in an open forum (based on her experience and opinion). Over the years it has developed into a resource of over 300 entries covering a wide variety of D&S activities and alternative sexual practices. In addition to sexuality issues, Sutton gives social commentary to Feminist issues, politics, and even spirituality. According to Sutton, her e-mail box fills up with dozens of inquiries and questions every day.
In 1999, she changed the title of her site to "Elise Sutton's Superiority Site" coincide with her new URL of www.femalesuperiority.com. Sutton wrote other articles for the site and she posted her "The Psychoanalysis of the submissive male" which was a series of questions that a wife or girlfriend could ask her male partner to better understand his desire for female domination. According to Sutton, many of the questions in "The Psychoanalysis" were the questions she used when counseling a submissive or a FemDom . Much like her Q&A forum, it became popular with a certain segment of the D&S community. Furthermore, some women were originally turned off by the concept of BDSM, D&S and FemDom began gain an understanding of the lifestyle and as a result, embraced the FemDom lifestyle and Supremacy philosophy.
In doing research for her , Sutton began to invite couples to share their experiences. The result was a section on her site called "Real Life Experiences" which became as popular as her Q&A forum. Also in conjunction with her research for her , Sutton began to post the many articles and links she found on the Internet that backed her belief that society is evolving from a patriarchal society toward a dominated society. Sutton posted a wealth of material about the superiority of women in education, business and all aspects of society. She called this section "Mainstream Research on Supremacy and Societal Evolution" and it currently has over 0 articles.
In the Fall of 2003 when her was finally published, Sutton once again changed the of her site, this time "Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Authority". The term Loving Authority emerged as the preferred classification of the FemDom lifestyle among the population frequented Sutton's site.
Sutton has other sites and such as www.femalesuperiority.com.and www.femalesupremacy. Her articles and parts of her main site have been translated into a of different languages including Italian, Spanish, German, Dutch and French.
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I’ll be your Man, one of My favorites
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Posted:Jul 23, 2019 5:49 pm
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2020 11:59 pm 5077 Views
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If you want a lover
I'll do anything you ask me
And if you want another kind of love
I'll wear a mask for you
If you want a partner, take my hand, or
If you want strike me down in anger
Here I stand
I'm your man
If you want a boxer
I will step into the ring for you
And if you want a doctor
I'll examine every inch of you
If you want a driver, climb inside
Or if you want to take me for a ride
You know you can
I'm your man
Ah, the moon's too bright
The chain's too tight
The beast won't go to sleep
I've been running through these promises to you
That I made and I could not keep
Ah, but a man never got a woman back
Not by begging on his knees
Or I'd crawl to you baby and I'd fall at your feet
And I'd howl at your beauty like a in heat
And I'd claw at your heart, and I'd tear at your sheet
I'd say please (please)
I'm your man
And if you've got to sleep a moment on the road
I will steer for you
And if you want to work the street alone
I'll disappear for you
If you want a father for your
Or want walk with me a while across the sand
I'm your man
If you want a lover
I'll do anything you ask me
And if you want another kind of love
I'll wear a mask for you
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Songwriters: Leonard Cohen
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One of My stories...
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Posted:Jun 21, 2019 5:32 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2021 11:57 am 5742 Views
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A little story
I was reading the book “THE LOVING DOMINANT “
with an open mind which brought where I am today,
almost 20 later.
After being an accomplished Professional Dominatrix
Living a fun life, fulfilling needs...
Traveling the world, very athletic. ego being fed.
Being in the best shape of life. Feeling Powerful, Sexy, loving comtrol, energy.
One day on a trip Vegas
A sub lost control of the car.
life was changed a moment.
broken bones most on the right side of My body.
Head trauma and punctured lung, fractured hip, shoulder.
I was the hospital 21 days until the insurance ran out (I suppose)
I was sent home heal alone.
I was in bed almost a year, gained 50+ lbs.
Wished everyday I had died in the accident.
Life was hard,! muscles atrophied.
My long blonde hair had be shaved off and life as I knew it was over.
Being a survivor I dragged and pulled My way out of the abyss...
Learning walk and use arm, not giving in any of
the 4+ surgeries they insisted I needed.
No surgeries! I did it My way!
This was 5 ago and the reason I am on My constant journey of Excellence!
I rarely have pain now, and can do almost anything I want. But As you can imagine I was in a very depressed state of mind.
I have worked hard on body mind and Spirit get back where I am today,
Not the but still , a great !
I am an Empowered Feminine Sensually naturally Dominant Mistress V.
A survivor and know I survived all this for a reason.
I try have fun, pleasure ALL I do. I do not judge others.
I try accept everyone for they are, I do not take small things for granite,
I appreciate the little things and do not sweat the small stuff.
I’m far from perfect and always trying better Myself!
you would never know what I have been though by looking at
Knowing first hand how fragile life can be has helped keep balanced
as well and knowing the importance of making the most with what I have left!
I wanted Share this part of My life.
We can all overcome our obstacles!!!
Mistress V ❤
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My sub
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Posted:Jun 8, 2019 10:37 am
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2021 12:52 pm 4647 Views
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The unknown...
I go sleep
Wake up alone...
What happens today is unknown
Maybe I will find the one I crave
The one who will capture
As I capture him
It is something we cannot live without
Sometimes I wonder, have doubt.
Will it happen
My dreams come true.
It’s what we crave...
So where are you?
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