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Posted:Apr 20, 2024 12:47 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 10:41 am 82 Views
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why do you approach someone and tell then you want a relationship that is real and not repond back or take your sweet time to answer back .All it does it tell the other person your not serious about it. it leads to the other thinking there is dishonesty in play here. it also just plain rudness .Dont start taking to someone who is polite enough to respond back to you. and it shows disrepect to then who gave you the time to answer you back
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why I stop with you
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Posted:Apr 15, 2024 11:14 am
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2024 11:48 am 1542 Views
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I stop with you for the following reason
1) the lack of contact
2) the lack of substance when we talk
3 ) your unwillness to share information about youself but you ask of me
4) you cant drive to a neutral place we agree on on your own dime
5) you lie to me one to many times
6) you were demanding money sent to you without meeting first in person
7) you refuse to obey the rules we agree on for the internet
 all the excuess you give when call out for your behavior
9) your failure to listen or your lack of comprehension of our conversation we are having
10 ) your lack of understanding what is BDSM our about
11 ) you are wanting a vanilla releastionship ( are you on a BDSM site for then I am looking for a LTR BDSM relationship
12) your not really submissive just horny
13 ) you fail to appreciate what I am offering one or given to one
14) you failling to meet when I make it so easy for you
15) you fail to show up at the place and time we agree on ..to call no show
16 ) dont tell me you want a real time releationship and wont put forth the effort to have one it not onesided
17) you want to stay in fantasy land of online and I want real life
1 you refuse to talk on the phone
19) you want me to automatically to trust you but you wont in return
20) you want to play games and not be serious
I will add more later as more will come to me
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who am I
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Posted:Apr 8, 2024 11:12 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 10:41 am 1622 Views
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who am I will give you the shirt off my back to help you. But if you try screw me I am the guy who will be your worst nightmare I am polite most of the time until I am cross I will encourge you,i will support you,I will tell you that you fuck up and tell you when you do well. I am someone that has live a life has done a lot of thing who is creative. who wakes up very morning that trys to do the right thing .I will give you a chance when you think no one else will. I am simple but I am also complicated I have work hard for what I have and work harder to keep it. I know the value of work can i be thoughtfull yes can i be careless as well yes will I make mistakes o hell yes will i owe up to them yes my kindness is not my weakness but my strenght. I am the one done gives a second thought to. but they know to come to me when they are in trouble knowing I will try and help them.I am slow to anger but when i am push to that point my anger is fierce and at times i dont know when to let go it a mix of being a pit bull,wolverine who will come back to hunt the one who was hunting him and the devil himself I am man things to different people it all about how you approach me.I am not as stupid as you think i am because you have not taken the time to know who I am. am I slow to trust yes i am cautious yes am I respondable yes will i fight for yes but you will have fight for yourself as well i like to you to know who I am I am a fighter with fierce loyalty who i dean earn it from me people wonder who i am I am made up of all of our experience in life the good the bad and the ugly i try to live my life with balance and harmony i dont like chaos can i funtion it yes but I dont want it ly to me and you are gone i will never take you seriously again if you lie to me you will steal from me so why would I want you around me I will never trust you if you cant be honest with me dont expect me to believe in you dont try and change me you never will dont try and fix me you cant go and fix yourself first I know who I am but do you know who you are? life has made me.i will see value in you when no others will so please dont be dead weight
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Submissives
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Posted:Apr 6, 2024 4:50 pm
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2024 4:19 pm 1656 Views
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I dont get you current ones why do you think bdsm is all about sex it not you think because you have good looks a decent body that all you need to claim your submissive and the dominant is to open one wallet to you for being to lazy to work that all you got to do is strip fuck and suck well your wrong that not what BDSM is all that is being just your normal street you have no other accountablity your total worth is those tits you have and that pussy relationship breaks up you are left with nothing ,no place to go no exit plan no money then you cry come save me that what you get when you think i have a pussy and tits all I need to make it. well your not making it because their is no exit plan their is no saving to fall back on if something happens i am sure you will find a place to hang your head but it will only be local not long distance you made your own self homeless you are the one who refuse to work to have some money to fall back on once that relationship fails you are going to have be self sufficient to support your self until the next one but these young so call dominants are not going to support your ass they are going on to that next tail. their you are no money no food and no shelther i dont feel sorry for you either because how you approach this lifestyle with this fantasy in your head how it will be because you watch a bdsm movie and fell in love with the bdsm lifestyle well it sucks to be you then but when you do this in real life shit happens and you best be ready for it most of you are unprepare for real life when it happens you need to get your head out of your ass then because you created your own mess and very few people are willing to bail your ass out and that when you will make your biggest mistake you will rush to find a place and say i got a place all i got to do is fuck and suck that when you find that Bad dominate and now your in real trouble and it your own fault. it no one fault but yours it will be because of your bad decidsion making skills not the bad dominate but your because you rush and chose poorly you are accountable for those choises you made no one else but you
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A lie
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Posted:Apr 4, 2024 8:22 am
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2024 6:11 am 1711 Views
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A line is an alternative fact that is told intentionally to mislead the truth
It told on purpose to deceive another others
From their own actions
It is the destroyer of trust and truth
The power of the lie
It can start wars,destroy nations,destroy marriages and relationships as well as people lives,careers,reputation and it can really kill people or cause them to be kill
Think about these people who commit suicide because of being bullying it the lies they are saying
What do we value in the BDSM community? What do we base our relationships on with others or play? Trust and the Truth we need these for what we do in our relationships
What happens when the trust and the truth is destroyed?
People get hurt physically and emotionally
People can be criminally charged and do jail or prison time
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What bdsm is to me
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Posted:Mar 30, 2024 6:09 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 10:41 am 1756 Views
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To it is that exchange of power between the dominant and submissive it's that discussion between the two about what is to happen in that relationship and the consequences of of not following the rules all that negotiating is supposed to be prior to the formal partaking of the relationship because once it's done then the exchange is complete but dominant then has the final word the submissive/slave has then to comply or face the consequences decisions are final by the dominant if there's any questions the negotiation can then be reopened by the dominant because one the relationship is formalized and submissive or slave begins her service or their service any failure to comply results in the consequences set forth in the negotiation
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why
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Posted:Mar 30, 2024 5:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2024 5:44 pm 1703 Views
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why are we sending money to submissives when we have not met them. it send the wrong message we are not their bank if they cant meet us at a neutral place then they are not worth meeting. we as Dominate need to stop being the bank to these submissive. All you have is a common street she only there for you wallet once the money is gone so are they and that is not what you are seeking we have to stop giving them money everytime they demand it
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Submission
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Posted:Mar 27, 2024 10:26 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 10:41 am 1726 Views
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What submission is it the freely given control. Submission is not I give con a livingtrol up if you pay me to come to you all that makes you is a common . Submission is not a way to make a living. Watching the movie 50 shade of gray does not make you a submissive or a Dominant
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Dominant/Master duties
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Posted:Feb 5, 2024 11:19 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2024 10:16 pm 3033 Views
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1) Is to know there submissive they are playing with
2) be open,honest and truthworthly
3) make expection clear
4) know how to use the toys before you employ them on the submissive
5) knowthe health of the one you play with both phyical and emotional
6) dont play when drunk,high or angery only bad things will come from this
7) know Fanasty from reality
Cyper is not reality you cant hit one with a 2x4 with nails in it 100 time and not
expect a murder charge against you
9) Do no harm to the submissive she has to remain functual when the releationship
end she has to be able to care for her self when you are out of their lives
10) you are there to ence their life not to destroy
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