Breadcrumbs
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Posted:Dec 22, 2017 1:56 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 12:58 am 17643 Views
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People get replaced all the time.
Everyday some, somewhere, is being replaced either by some else or something else, most of the time this is because a change has happened that facilitates a replacement of some sort needing to be implemented but occasionally it's because some has been made redundant and not always because they aren't fit.
Sometimes people are made redundant because they no longer serve the purpose that they used to, they aren't as young or as fit or as up to date or simply they aren't good enough anymore and for them this comes as a blow to the psyche rather than a slight against pride as many believe, for them this is something they never expected - It can be a strange sensation to suddenly become something useless, to basiy be a VHS in a world of DLC, to know that at point they were doing exactly as they should be but day they become useless and to come to terms with that takes time.
Some people have the ability to move on right away from a situation that doesn't fulfil them, they have no problems with leaving some or something behind and moving to greener pastures however part of them is still very much with what they left behind - Try as any might there will always be a smart part of themselves left behind, choice doesn't have much of an option in these circumstances, it becomes a roll of the dice to whether everything works out right for them or if they're stuck wondering 'what if'
This is nothing more than basic human nature, humans have habits and very rarely if ever want to change them because they make them comfortable, they allow them to cope with the day to day motions of life without collapsing in a heap unable to function - These coping mechanisms can run the entire human gamete from ful to destructive, much is made of the benefits of meditation yet too much time spent al is isolation, deemed harmful to life in all aspects, healthy eating is seen as a sign of restraint but too much time spent analysing what's eaten is a disorder needing .
Humans have very few options left to themselves which won't be judged by others, won't be categorised or objectified or vilified for the impact that they have on a person's overall health and because of this many people are left in the dark hoping that the choices they spend hours deliberating over are going to condemn them to hours of speculation and interrogation by others, whether or not these choices will begin to define who they are, when the only thing they want to do is function.
To live a life that is their own, to have the ability to make choices without having to worry about what those choices might do to them, a life that is their own and in doing so the parts of themselves that they leave behind are nearly puzzle pieces in case they need to put themselves back together again.
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Change
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Posted:Dec 16, 2017 2:03 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 12:58 am 16567 Views
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People don't think a lot of themselves these days.
Too much emphasis is put upon who they should be, what they should like, what they should wear, who they should or shouldn't speak to, what they should say and what they shouldn't say, not enough emphasis is put upon them being allowed to be who they are.
Either the implicit want to be different or the explicit need to be different are washed away for years of trying to be someone who makes other people comfortable or make other people happy without regard for who these people actually are and in doing that misery is welcomed with open arms - Once this misery sets in people tend to live with it, from who know they aren't wanted to teenagers who know there isn't a place for them in this world to adults who have lost their way and in turn become bitter older people with no idea what being content is let alone what happiness is.
It's no ones fault.
It isn't that they wanted to become someone they aren't, it's that they thought there was no other option but to become someone who isn't representative of who they actually are, there isn't a lot that can be done when it gets to this point except to realise that they had no control.
Much is made of being original, of standing out, of being authentic, of going against the flow but this is only doable by a small percentage of the population and for many many more people it's simply impossible to be this way, they don't have that strong a support network and probably never will - Laying the blame at someone else's door is always the way that people cope with not being able to be who they want to be, someone else stopped them, someone else said no, someone else refused to accept them and for some this is the case but for many the truth is that they fear what they would have lost if they had taken the leap.
People are resilient, they can bounce back from a hell of a lot of things before they break down, they can take an amount of abuse that would normally call for a doctor to intervene and help them, for many this is a sign of weakness, of sickness, of nor being enough, of lacking in something despite them not being able to articulate what that something is.
People see themselves as direct representations of how others treat them and for many that's only applicable once they've changed, adapted and diluted who they are into a more palatable version of themselves, a version that is more in keeping with who they think they should be.
Not everyone can be what they want but that doesn't make them any less of a person, it makes them someone who's had to change to survive and there's nothing wrong with having to do that, people who claim there is have a privilege which allowed them to be what they wanted
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Sangria
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Posted:Dec 10, 2017 5:24 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 12:58 am 16831 Views
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A lot of things in this world are blended, a lot of things in this world need to be blended to make them more palatable for those of a delicate constitution and a lot of things are blended because someone, somewhere along the way realised that adding a little something improved what they already had.
Some people have difficult digesting anything that isn't strictly this or that, they can't get their heads around anything other than that which they know, they can identify with or that reflects something they hold dear, the idea of changing or adding something to an already established entity is akin to blasphemy for them, for that reason everyone else should go ahead and make as many permutations as the mind can conceive.
It's not out of cruelty that people should force others to accept different things, it's not an act of being snide, it's not something done to prove a point and it's not something done to make them seem inferior - It's something that should be done to show just how much variation can bring happiness, can deepen understanding, can enhance knowledge and can better the human race as a whole.
Humans have the tenacity to survive in some of the most naturally outrageous places that the planet has to offer, where the sea is cold enough to freeze the lungs into not working, where the air can force the blood to clot, where the sun can burn a hole straight through to the bone, where the plants, trees and animals all have the capacity to kill in the most painful of ways - What human beings lack is the capacity to accept that which is different to themselves, they have trouble accepting anything or anyone which shows a derivative of norm, which doesn't comply to already established echelons of anachronism or which provides sustenance for knowing that before was regarded as a defunct subject and because of this they suffer through fear and anger.
Fear and anger only breed amongst themselves - They keep close kith and kin with one another, they don't let anyone else into their little sphere of understanding, they shout, they scream, they curse, they abandon, they exile and they kill that which makes them uncomfortable.
The only way to break this breeding ground of the single minded is to show them how beautiful differences are, how they already accept differences in various circumstances, to even celebrate them, to a certain extent, within their own little world of knowledge and how what is being asked of them to accept isn't really that much of a big deal - The mind set needs to break in order for the pleasure to be understood in the neurons that inhabit their otherwise well functioning brains and only then will they be able to see just what everyone on this planet has to offer regardless of age, sex, gender, politics, religion, size or sexuality.
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Ache
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Posted:Dec 4, 2017 8:35 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 12:58 am 17167 Views
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Some people make others ache for them, for their touch, for their voice, for their attention, for anything that helps validate their own desire for that person and more often than not it is in no way reciprocated, it's a one way street of want.
This is in no way either persons fault it's merely the fact of the matter, it's merely how human beings are engineered mentally to emotionally want someone or something, usually it's regarding something they can't have but more often than not its simply someone that doesn't feel the same way they do and there's nothing anyone can do to create that kind of emotion - Everything that grows needs a seed to start, there has to be some form of embryo to be planted in fertile soil to be nurtured until fully in bloom, it doesn't matter what form of relationship it is, it has to start that way and usually it starts with something small, a smile, a look, a comment, a laugh or even a touch, before soon that one small seed starts to grow.
Lucky people end up having their chosen person have feelings for them too, it doesn't matter if it started in one person before it started in the other, if luck is on their side then they slowly start to grow something beautiful between them, like ivy working it's way up a trellis until completely covered forming a wall, it's beauty as simple as its aesthetics and function.
Lucky people get to indulge in their inner romantics, they get to pour out their adoration for another directly, they get to show someone else all of the beauty that they see in them, usually to the surprise of the recipient, and they get to spend their time building something so special that no other person has the ability to distract them.
The ache that they feel for their chosen person is as strong as an ache in a muscle, as strong as an ache in an organ, it's as if some unknown part of the human anatomy develops as the feelings develop and a physical entity is created to house everything emotional or physiological related to them - It's something that no one else can quite understand because it is as implicitly personal as it is explicitly obvious, others may scoff at the actions of two people who ache for one another because they can't understand or feel what they do, perhaps one day they might.
There is nothing to be ashamed of though, nothing to hide away from no matter how strong it feels, no matter how deep it feels, no matter how obvious the ache may be or become, it is something that defines how a person feels, how that person processes their relationship towards others and how strong that person is to develop this, sometimes in secret - It should never be shunned or brushed aside or buried, it should be said, felt and celebrated even if it's not reciprocated.
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Neck
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Posted:Nov 28, 2017 11:55 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 12:58 am 17068 Views
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There are are as many areas on the human body that bring pleasure as there are that bring pain, the only difference between them is the intent with which they are touched.
A gentle, soft enquiring mind can arouse any and every part of a human being without any effort whatsoever because the approach taken is once of admiration mixed with excitement and respect, a want to discover more, to know more, to taste more and to see more of the desired subject - There's no violence, no force, no coercion, no Machiavellian discourse to strip something that would rather be covered, there's no exposure of something too delicate to be in direct light, there's no pulling at stray strings to unravel that which wants to stay whole and there's no pressure applied to points that can't take it.
A hard, adamant mind can only take what it wants from someone and doesn't bother paying attention anything other than that, it's approach is one designed to fulfil it's own wants, it's own needs, it's own desires and to hell with what anyone else wants because there is nothing as important as those wants being fulfilled - There is force, there is violence, there is coercion, there is nothing but Machiavellian discourse served in five course banquets, every string is pulled to unravel until all that's left is in pieces, all coverings are torn off to lay bare everything to the most clinical of lights and each pressure point is pressed to make the subject collapse.
The intent behind touch is the one thing that can speak beyond all and any words that might try to cover up wishes of illness, this touch can break a heart as quick as it can join two as one, it can tear down all the walls built over decades of distrust as easily as it can add fortifications to already high walls, it can be the reason someone goes to bed at night crying to themselves for better or for worse and it can be the reason that someone leaves another persons life without saying why.
The areas of another person which are heavily influenced by touch can over rule other parts of the same person, the heart can over rule the mind as much as the reverse is true, but once an area of pleasure is abused so another can enjoy themselves it becomes dirty, it becomes an area that won't ever give pleasure again freely, there will always be something attached to it, guilt, shame, reluctance, it will never again be free.
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