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Posted:Nov 23, 2023 9:20 am
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2023 2:35 am 1034 Views
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Maybe.
In the dark a soul weeps for its lost innocence,
How did it find itself so far from its intentions?
What did it do? It sought nothing but harmony,
So deep in the maze, no trail of crumbs, no stars above.
Cast in a mindset; forgotten, deserted, broken,
Where are the Blueskies bathed in warmth,
Or soft rains and bird song on this journey?
So dank is this face, no joyous words heard, spoken.
What would it give for a small spark, a sweet notion?
Could it believe that it has a place, a shelter, a haven?
It ask; Why would he be my guide?
A soul without trust is lonely, lost, unwanted.
Maybe the answer is here?
Lately the hunger for love is haunting,
why wait to be hunted?
Not everything has to end in wanting.
N4ONO
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Finding the fit P11
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Posted:Nov 23, 2023 1:53 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2023 12:52 am 924 Views
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Quite a few have deleted their accounts, it seems pretty easy to test if they are real, not just people, but actually genuine in their statements, So you may find in your search that there has been some contact with the right fit for you, but it has not progressed just yet. That's where patience comes in. To allow the chaff to blow away and see the grains that are left for what they are.
I know there is a beast inside me of course, it is very disciplined and controlled.
ot4onenightonly
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Finding the fit P10
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Posted:Nov 22, 2023 7:16 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2023 7:17 am 954 Views
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It's good to get the day started with a nice walk even when the weather is a bit dull, helps to clear the head focus the mind and all that jazz.
You may have noticed that when you update your profile. somehow with in a short space of time you get viewed by someone who just seems to match almost exactly what you are looking for. It's good to read the profile, if there is one. Often there are clues. For example - Experienced in the introduction, lower down New to this. That should make you think. I have alluded to ( as have others) that often things are not what they seem. Have a strategy for protecting yourself and weeding out the 'wrong 'uns'. If they don't trust you - and you are genuine - then don't trust them. Of course those who enter rooms, join groups have other strategies to certify. I cannot put mine here, that would allow a counter strategy to be developed, remember why you are here and understand others think that could be an opportunity for them.
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Finding the fit P9
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Posted:Nov 21, 2023 2:51 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 1:13 am 706 Views
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Let's consider distance.
When someone is thousands of miles away, are they able to relocate?
Do they have a passport? Have you a place for them to stay? Will they need a visa, be able to stay indefinitely? Work and many other ordinary things. This of course is not applicable in extreme situations of absolute and totally slaver,. I refer to less extreme aims/desires and then when you get to the bottom line and they ask you to send them money? In any event everything needs to be planned, with trust and confidence at the centre. Never send money, by all means re-imburse after arrival and take care going forward where appropriate.
Like I said the female sub I'm looking for understands her place.
(Not4onenightonly
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Finding the fit P8
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Posted:Nov 20, 2023 8:48 am
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2023 9:05 am 780 Views
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Acknowledging that a few have messaged me, but no one has as yet rung any bells, that's a two way process of course. Patience, persistence and consistency are key to finding that special person. Yes they are special, I am special, I am unique and I don't expect to find the matching piece to the puzzle of ME easily. I have spent decades avoiding who I am, that makes me complex and not easily attracted. I am always pleased to get any messages and polite in my answers. My profile does seem to attract Dommes at times , perhaps the 'auto match' thinks there is a secret subside. I can confidently say NO.
I am courteous and polite, that is simply appropriate to the way and style of my control. The Sub I am looking for is obedient and naturally compliant.
So when I get messages saying let's get chatting on the phone, it's not going to happen because I am seeking just one special person, I may need to wait a while as this person will understand and want discretion themselves. I offer no judgement here at all, we are all different, and as previously mentioned, we all have our own agenda/s.
I will share my identity once I have found that person, that connection, chemistry. They will know and instinctively understand that I can be trusted.
Not4onenightonly
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Finding the fit P7 - More thoughts
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Posted:Nov 19, 2023 11:05 am
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2023 1:07 pm 922 Views
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The search continues, it's important to consider geography and logistics at this juncture. As I said everyone has their own agenda and you might be fulfilling theirs without achieving your own. That can be ok as long as you are aware that's what you're doing. Many profiles have few if any details, even if there is a photo it might not be them, for some with good reason as discretion is required, but fair to say the more detailed the profile and the more pictures, while not guaranteed, the more likely the person is genuine. That's not to say behind other profiles the people are not real. Some are simply here for different reasons. One I get wary of is the quick request to move from the message to another platform, this is likely to reveal identity without actually knowing there's. It may be innocent . As I mentioned earlier logistics is important, and that revolves around circumstances too. Be clear in your own mind about your ability to travel, your opportunities and other resources. Making connections, friends and contacts is fine, just don't yourself ( or them as they may be genuine) about what you can/ cannot do. Of course most things can be achieved with careful planning and determination, be sure that's what you want and they are onboard.
Trust is very important - not s**t Sherlock I here you say. Absolutely!
Not4onenightonly
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Finding the fit P6
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Posted:Nov 18, 2023 7:57 am
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2023 12:02 pm 1254 Views
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It's been an interesting few weeks, no real success, but that's not unexpected as I know I'm looking for something pretty specific with a fairly difficult connection to establish due to circumstances. Everyone on here has an agenda, no point in being here otherwise, and many profiles are rather vague. So it's important to have an idea of who you are, you need to know that, Not who other people want you to be, think you are and so on. Who you are and why ( if you can get that far). There are no right answers of course, fore me personally a long journey to get here, Many years of denial 'to fit in; many false starts and here we are retired from other pressures but not retired from life.
It's also important to understand that business of agenda form others, some profiles could be fake, aimed at catching the unwary, I've had a couple who made contact but soon displayed signs that made me think, no further. Others are 'false' by accident the creators not being entirely 'honest; with themselves, this of course is very human, we are all flawed in many ways, paradoxically one of the many ways in which variety is achieved, Mostly though it is that I don't fit to the the person checking out my profile, I'm sure I get why and that is one factor in the need to be a little wary of certain approaches.
N4ONO x
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Surrender
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Posted:Nov 17, 2023 11:12 am
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2023 2:36 am 948 Views
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Her scent was like the freshness of Spring,
She wore it for just for him,
Her tousled hair fell about in disarray,
At his word she moved,
Kneeling she felt the excitement,
His hands caressing,
Fingers ran up and down her spine.
Slowly, gently teasing, tempting,
Exploring every facet,
Tensing in anticipation of what was deserved,
Nothing but gratitude.
Her sweat ran like warm summer rain,
She bore it just for him,
Barely audible, gasps and excited cries,
At his touch she moaned,
Reeling she melted as instructed,
Shuddering release,
Quivering, aching, joyful relief,
Adoring, helpless,
Surrender complete, no hidden reserves,
Nothing but gratitude.
N4ONO
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Not just clicks
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Posted:Nov 14, 2023 11:19 am
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2023 2:37 am 859 Views
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It's not just clicks, it's chemistry,
Not wanting quicks or therapy.
Many different shades and desires,
wrapped in unconventional ideas.
To find the very best with discretion,
wanting to glow with perfection.
Ready yet patient for the gift,
steady, able to accept the twist.
Precious as time has to be,
not focussed on history.
obedient as it shall be done,
to be what you must become.
N4ONO
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Searching for the right counterpart
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Posted:Nov 14, 2023 6:02 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 1:13 am 891 Views
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The search continues.
Here to find that someone, that gets where its at,
Waiting for a message from that special contact.
There is a real inclination, if you have the time,
To exchange messages then meet, not stay online.
If you are not constant but a bit a little trickster,
you should know that I've caught your sort before.
I am seeking one whose situation is like mine,
you need that space to exercise your dirty mind.
It's find to say hello, not worried about experience,
it's your attitude that will make all the difference.
N4ONO
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