Coming out as a Ticklephile – looking for others’ experiences!
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Posted:May 4, 2021 10:10 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 8:45 am 1513 Views
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This world seems applaud sameness and condemn differences – if someone is different the assumption is they are dangerous in some way. It’s not that long ago ‘witches’ were hanged or burnt at the stake and people in the ‘gay’ community were discriminated against and I believe, still are. However, if I don’t tell people about what I want how do I expect find others – exactly – that’s what this piece is about.
I am a bit ‘bent’ and like tickling – I’m a ‘ticklephile’ and there is even a scientific term for it – Knismolagnia. Many of these people seem enjoy feet tickling – not so for . I also like some of the concepts of the BDSM community, but there is a view in some quarters that tickling is not an accepted part of BDSM. I kept all these hidden from view for fear that people would judge me and my business would be affected. I am now retired and would like meet a female with similar interests. Much of my life was lived pre the internet and online sites.
I found Fetlife and joined lots of groups pertaining my interest and found local events and went along munches hoping I would meet others interested in my ‘kink’, but no, when I spoke the munch organisers they said they knew of no one else interested in tickling. I did meet lots of very large women and people with various disabilities – not what I was looking for.
I found Alt about 3 ago and paid for a subscription – there is a tickling kink, but I’ve noticed the number of people who choose that kink has reduced substantially over the period. I also found AdultFriendFinder, an associated site, and paid for a subscription, but found both sites have an increasing number of women trying make . Both sites also have many registered members who have not visited the site for many months or . Both sites have an IM system, but I’ve had little success using it and others seem have similar problems. Naturally the site wants make , but the numbers on both sites seem be decreasing, so paying for a subscription becomes extraneous. I found other tickling sites, but these seem be invaded by people who have no interest in tickling.
I even posted an ad on Craigslist for a lee, but no takers. Maybe if I offered payment I may have done better, but I refuse – not because I can’t afford it, but it’s a moral issue for . I did contact a Domme and enquired about her tickling services – she said I had obey her – yes, like telling wild animals they can’t hunt!
So, the $64,000 question – where do you meet others with similar interests? What does one do or where does one go? I did plan go the US and attend the NEST annual event in May, but Covid prevented that. Also, before Covid I was able travel, but that’s not possible until restrictions on global movements are removed. From my research there is no places in my city go and meet people with similar interests, outside the munches organised on Fetlife. Can anyone share their success story, or is their story similar to mine? Is there an international recognised signal for kinky people?
In the interest of getting to know others interested in tickling I have organised an online event – this is the link https://fetlife./events/991742 maybe you would join us?
Thanks and good luc
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Lucky Escape!
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Posted:Oct 20, 2020 11:35 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 8:45 am 1008 Views
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Today I got a message from a Gold member and found I couldn't reply - that has changed since I was a Gold Member - my membership expired in March 2020
During the worst pandemic in 100 years, Alt.com has used this to rake money from people.
Boycott this site, send complaints to the Help/Contact centre until they reverse this decision
Shame on you Alt.com
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My Experiences on this site
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Posted:Feb 29, 2020 12:48 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 8:45 am 1458 Views
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My subscription is almost expired and I've learned the following
1/ Most women on this site want - some are scammers, others, like the Asian women want you to join sites where , others want 'tribute'.
2/ Many women on this site are just looking for a husband
3/ Many women are just freeloaders - these are mostly the 'slaves' - they want you, the to keep them and they say they will provide sex and domestic services. This could as much as $40,000 per year, so do your homework
4/ I get lots of messages from Domme's and Mistresses - these people obviously can't read - my profile clearly states I am 'Dominant' - desperate maybe? Most women don't read your profile - maybe only interested in what they are trying to get???
5/ I don't think there are many genuine women looking for kinky sex
Be warned guys, and best of luck
John
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A Big Thank You
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Posted:Jan 28, 2020 11:23 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 8:45 am 1232 Views
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A big thank you for all those who made comments to the questions I posed. Just to let you know your answers, even the those that were funny are appreciated
John
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Suggestions for the ALT.com team
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Posted:Jan 28, 2020 11:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2020 6:07 am 1227 Views
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You may be aware there are quite a few scammer on this site and one thing that aids them is their ability to change their location.
If you captured their IP address that would be impossible - not so hard eh?
John
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Update
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Posted:Dec 30, 2019 5:28 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 8:45 am 1497 Views
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I see the site hasn't changed much - lots of scammers, fake profiles, people still on the database who haven't visited the site in years and matches that are nothing like I asked for. well done Alt.
There are guys on here who can spot fake profiles, so thanks guys -
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