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Saturday Sway (420 Edition)
Posted:Apr 20, 2024 2:07 am
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2024 2:07 am
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* You Don't Know How It Feels ~ Tom Petty ~ Wild Flowers
* A Pirate Looks At Forty ~ Dave Matthews, Jack Johnson~ KOKUA Festival
* Rainy Day Woman # 12 & 35 ~ Bob Dylan ~ Blonde On Blonde
* Legalize It ~ Peter Tosh ~ Legalize It
* Sweet Leaf ~ Black Sabbath ~ Masters Of Reality
* Weed With Willie ~ Toby Keith ~ Shock'N'yall
* Whiskey Weed & Women ~  Hank Williams III ~Lovesick, Broke & Driftin
* Weed Instead Of Roses ~ Ashley Monroe ~ Like A Rose
* Pass The Dutchie ~ Musical Youth ~Anthology 
* Bowl For Two ~ The Expendables ~ Gettin' Filthy

How pot holiday 4/20 came to be

Thursday marks marijuana culture’s high holiday, 4/20, when cannabis fans gather in clouds of smoke at music festivals and celebrate with all-you-can-deals on chicken wings and other munchies.

This year’s edition provides an occasion for activists to reflect on how far their movement has come, with recreational pot now allowed in 21 states and the nation’s capital.

Here’s a look at the holiday’s history
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Why 4/20?

The origins of the date, and the term “420” generally, were long murky. Some claimed it referred to a police code for marijuana possession or that it arose from Bob Dylan’s “Rainy Day Women No. 12 & 35,” with its refrain of “Everybody must get stoned” — 420 being the product of 12 times 35.

But a consensus has emerged that it started with a group of bell-bottomed buddies from San Rafael High School in California, who called themselves “the Waldos.” A friend’s brother was afraid of getting busted for a patch of cannabis he was growing in the woods at Point Reyes, so he drew a map and gave the teens permission to harvest the crop, the story goes

.During the fall of 1971, at 4:20 p.m., just after classes and football practice, the group would meet at the school’s statue of chemist Louis Pasteur, smoke a joint, and head out to search for the weed patch. They never did find it, but their private lexicon — “420 Louie” and later just “420″ — would take on a life of its own.

The Waldos saved postmarked letters and other artifacts from the 1970s referencing “420,” which they later kept in a bank vault, and when the Oxford English Dictionary added the term in 2017, it cited some of those documents as the entry’s earliest recorded uses
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How is it celebrated?

With weed, naturally! Some of the celebrations are bigger than others; Hippie Hill in San Francisco’s Golden Gate Park typically draws thousands. In Seattle, one movie theater is offering a “dank double feature,” with Cheech and Chong’s “Up In Smoke” as well as the 1930s “Reefer Madness” era cult classic “Assassin of Youth.”

I'm going to see a great band tonight I'm celebrating in a very typical way. I wish you all a very Happy 420!
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Naughty
Posted:Apr 16, 2024 5:05 am
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2024 12:36 am
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Being Submissive
Posted:Apr 13, 2024 1:44 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 1:25 am
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Being submissive isn’t a choice. You didn’t choose for your earliest sexual fantasies to include being restrained, punished, or controlled. You’re submissive whether or not you have a Dom/me or Sir or Master/Mistress. You’re submissive even if you have a long-distance D/s relationship. You’re submissive even if your D/s isn’t 24-7. You’re submissive even if you’re alone with your thoughts. You’re submissive whether or not you fight it, feel good about it, or bad about it. If you are submissive, you just are. And you should own it.
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Being Selective
Posted:Apr 8, 2024 5:07 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2024 7:19 am
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She was aware that she had the power to indulge in passion at any moment, with anyone, anywhere. Yet, she yearned for more. She craved to be pursued with fervent passion, to be consumed by desire. Her longing was not to be fulfilled by just any man but by a Wolf.

The act of being selective holds great significance. Safeguarding the innermost essence of our being from negative influences, toxic individuals, and superficial connections is paramount. At times, this requires patience beyond our desires, but in the grand scheme of things, it is a demonstration of self-value.
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Opening Day
Posted:Apr 5, 2024 5:41 am
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2024 10:21 pm
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My favorite team in pinstripes is back again. Today is Opening Day in the Bronx for the Yankees. I was lucky enough to snag a few tickets to the game. The New York Yankees will play their home opener today in the Bronx. They face the Toronto Blue Jays at 1:05 p.m.

It's a big day for baseball fans, who should be feeling good about the start of the season. The Yankees opened with a four-game sweep against the Houston Astros, then won two of three games against the defending National League champion Arizona Diamondbacks.

The Yankees will step onto the field with high expectations but also some renewed confidence after making a blockbuster trade over the offseason to acquire slugger Juan Soto. This will be the first time fans see him in pinstripes.

The 25-year-old joins Aaron Judge and Giancarlo Stanton in the lineup, as they try to get back into the postseason after missing in 2023. New York back to the Bronx with a 6-1 record.
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Courtesy and Respect in Kink Culture
Posted:Apr 2, 2024 9:09 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2024 7:20 am
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In BDSM and kink, where desires diverge and exploration abounds, there exists a fundamental truth that often gets overlooked, the necessity of being a courteous and respectful individual. Despite the allure of exploring taboo desires and indulging in explicit conversations, it is imperative to remember that behind every fetish lies a person deserving of basic human decency.

In today's digital age, it is not uncommon for individuals to encounter unsolicited explicit content from strangers or acquaintances. Whether it is receiving unsolicited pictures of intimate body parts or encountering inappropriate advances, these experiences can leave one feeling disrespected and devalued. While some may associate such behavior with certain genders or orientations, the reality is that it transcends these boundaries, occurring across all spectrums of identity.

Within the lifestyle, there exists a misconception that the norms of traditional interaction do not apply. Some may believe that because they share a common interest in exploring unconventional desires, they can bypass the basic principles of decency and skip straight to the explicit. However, this could not be further from the truth.

At its core, BDSM and kink are about more than just sexual exploration; they are about mutual trust, consent, and understanding. Engaging in kink requires a deep level of respect for one another's boundaries, desires, and humanity. It is about recognizing that every individual is more than just a vessel for fulfilling fantasies, they are complex beings with thoughts, feelings, and autonomy.

Whether one is seeking casual play or a long-term kink-filled relationship, it all begins with treating others with the respect and courtesy they deserve. This means taking the time to get to know someone as a person before delving into discussions of kink and desire. It means seeking consent and respecting boundaries at every step of the way. And it means understanding that no one owes you anything, not their time, attention, or participation in your fantasies.

In a community built on the principles of trust and communication, there is no room for entitlement or disregard for others' feelings. Just as in any other aspect of life, being a decent human being should always take precedence. It is about recognizing that kinky desires do not exempt anyone from the basic principles of respect and decency.

So, before you send that explicit message or make that inappropriate advance, take a moment to pause and consider the person on the other end. Treat them with the same courtesy and respect you would expect in return. Remember, being kinky does not absolve you of being a decent human being. In the end, it is not just about what happens in the bedroom, it is about how we treat one another in every aspect of our lives.



©TLK2024
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3 AM Thoughts
Posted:Mar 27, 2024 2:43 am
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2024 6:30 am
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When the air is charged with electricity and sleep is ages away, even if my clock promises the swift arrival of dawn, when the sheets and blankets are too warm on my skin even in the chill of winter, when darkness and solitude cease to be companions and become conspirators, bullying me into my memory of him.

My body remembers his hands, his mouth - oh god, his mouth - and how his lightest touch could spark ecstasy and his quietest whisper could instill obedience, even in the throes of that ecstasy. He is imprinted under my skin, the weight of his body over mine. the pressure of those relentless hands, the lightning strikes of his agile tongue.

My ears remember his heartbeat, thundering under his skin, his sighs of impatience, and the guttural gasp just before he roared out his pleasure into me, over me, through me. But mostly they remember his silence, his quiet patience, how he taught with actions instead of just words.

My mouth remembers him - the resilience of warm, salt-sweaty skin over rigid flesh, the scalding heat of his release, the sweetness of his kisses, the dark richness of his laughter. My mouth remembers the words he taught me - I never knew the intensity of “please” until he was through with me.

These are the nights I am restless, my hands are restless on my body. Nights where there isn’t enough pain to dull the ache in my chest or enough orgasms to make me forget the blinding intensity of the ones he gave me. And without him, they are hollow, pale, feeble imitations of what should be.
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Sculpting Desire
Posted:Mar 23, 2024 3:45 am
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2024 4:54 am
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In the realm of the submissive, she stands,
With curves that sculpt desires, soft and grand.
Her callipygian, a mesmerizing sight,
Captivates the dominant, igniting his delight.
In his hands, she finds surrender, her soul alight.

The dominant revels in every touch,
Spanking, caressing, a dance they clutch.
Each stroke, a declaration of his control,
A symphony of sensations, taking its toll.
Their bond deepens, as their desires unfold.

She offers herself, a canvas to display,
His fingers traced paths, in a seductive array.
Each mark, is a testament to their fiery connection,
As they explore the realms of passion's intersection.
In their shared ecstasy, they find perfection.

He delights in showcasing his prized possession,
Proudly displaying her, without repression.
For she is not just his submissive, but his muse,
In her submission, he finds his strength, his fuse.
Together, they embrace their desires, unafraid to choose.

Their journey unfolds in whispers and moans,
In the tender caress and the passionate groans.
Bound by trust and fueled by desire's flame,
They navigate the depths of pleasure's domain.
In their union, they find ecstasy, without shame.

In the dance of dominance and submission's embrace,
They discover a love that cannot be replaced.
For in each other's arms, they find their release,
Their passion, their solace, their eternal peace.
In their connection, they find joy that will never cease.



©TLK2024
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Love & Seduction
Posted:Mar 19, 2024 2:34 am
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2024 2:52 am
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Love her like a princess, respect her like a queen, treat her like a lady, Ravage her like a vixen. When the bedroom doors are closed and the lights go out, Set aside the gentleman and his manners. Unleash the wolf and devour her desire. Kiss her forcefully. Embrace her powerfully. Pull her hair passionately. Overwhelm her hunger and leave her craving more.

Love her like a gentleman. Make love to her with primal ferocity. Be a force of nature and sweep her away. Whisper gently in her ear as you kiss her cheek, hold her close as you feel her breath upon your skin. Feel her body undulate as you discover her weaknesses, and listen to her body language as you cover her with kisses. Trailing down her back with the tip of your tongue, Makes her hungry with anticipation.

Make love to her body as you seduce her mind, propelling her senses slowly into a crescendo of climactic pleasure, Hear the fierce beauty of her voice echoing in your ears... as you permeate every aspect of her imagination and reality. Make love to her in every way, tasting every inch of her flesh. She will remember every moment of your body upon hers. Seduce her mind, excite her imagination, tempt her senses, and unlock her deepest secrets... And embrace her soul. She will never leave your arms wanting more. A gentleman always remembers- Ladies first. Both, in the street And between the sheets.
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Focus
Posted:Mar 16, 2024 5:57 am
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2024 2:51 am
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“Focus intently and you’ll see the unseeable. The world she rarely shares with anyone; the darkest corners she scarcely visits herself. Henry Miller wrote that an indescribably magnificent world appears within anything or anyone the moment we pay closer attention. Notice the parts of her you’re only privy to if you truly listen while she speaks. Be attentive to her every detail. The subtle differences that make her, her. Unlike any other. See the constellations of faded birthmarks speckled across her skin or how the brown of her eyes is simply a layer atop a churning sea of hazel. See that some days she is distant, off in her head, and rarely smiles for hours while others she is keenly aware of her thoughts and actions, bubbling with joy and laughter. Focus intently and you’ll be gifted the subtleties of her magnificent hidden world like the nuances of her squeezes, the individual meanings while holding your hand, or the sordid conversations she has with you with nothing more than a gaze.”

—daily-esprit-descalier
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