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On sexuality	Posted:Mar 2, 2008 6:44 am Last Updated:Sep 6, 2021 1:40 pm 14647 Views
After a year of deliberations I have finally decided to write this down in an attempt to find answers. I have hit a roadblock in regards to understanding people's sexuality because now it effects me. After 30 years of being content I am having a bitch of a time getting my mind around it. I known from the time I was a young I was gay and not interested in a heterosexual relationship. Having been brought up roman catholic I fought the urges through my youth ,teens and twenties. Finally in my thirties I came to term and accepted my sexual orientation as being gay and moved on with my life. Being totally immersed in the gay life style I was at peace and then after 30 years it happened. I met and became mentally and physically attracted to a male bisexual.A new mentality to try and get my head around. I know bisexuals are attracted to both sexes and thus my conundrum. When we are together things are great but then later my brain goes into overdrive. I keep thinking that because a bisexual likes both sexes they could never be content with a single person. A single person doesn't have all the equipment necessary to satisfy a bisexual's needs. It is a hopeless cause, they will always be looking for something that is missing. Open relationship are the answer and I am ok with that after all most gays are promiscuous and I am no exception. That solves the physical side. After all these years being gay I mentally understand a gay's promiscuity is only physical there is nothing personal other than a momentary attraction and casual sex. What I need help understanding is whether or not a bisexual could be promiscuous with both sexes but love a single person or because of their mental makeup could never have a meaningful relationship with a single person. They will always be looking for that perfect relationship and any current relationships are only sexual in nature. To any bisexual reading this please don't be offended by my ignorance. I don't mean to offend you. I am only trying to understand how a bisexual's mind works. Please post a reply giving me your thoughts. I am asking for helpful information into a bisexual's mind set. Thanks for your thoughts.
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