Gonna start a new series of blogs about explaining lifestyle shit
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Posted:Oct 6, 2023 4:59 am
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2023 5:57 am 5650 Views
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One of the main problems of the lifestyle is how closed off it is.
NOBODY SHOWS YOU SHIT
Nobody wants to take someone under their wing ( unless being honest..she..is like 20 yrs old).
If your a dude,old,black ( just bring honest based on my experience locally) you will be ignored at munches,groups,hell play parties..
So I thought I'd do my little part and craft a series of blogs explaining things,why I enjoy them,what people get out of them .
This idea came to me as I was on fet and looking at this Dommes set of pics.
And while the actions depicted seemed very natural to me..
To others? They probably wouldn't understand.
Without someone giving them some insight, I doubt this person would even try it..
Whereas I am quite open and kinky..there are things that I've never done or an expert at.
So I appreciate when readers chime in and help further the discussion
And honestly there is so many topics to cover..I'm even open to readers suggestions or questions..
Topics could range from something simple like..
Dom or slave..how did you choose
How do you meet lifestyle people
To what does it feel like to be naked in front of women,a group and then be demoed on..
What does a cane feel like..how does it differ from a paddle or flogger..
Why do you like pain..
To specific fetishes...why do you like to be pegged..what about feet interest you...what is cbt etc..
To even sexual interest...like how do men differ from women as tops...what's it like to suck a dick..
What's it like to be a pussy/ oral slave to a Domme..
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Masters vs. Mistresses and finding my needs are different..how about you,
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Posted:Oct 5, 2023 5:03 am
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2023 2:10 pm 5699 Views
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Now this may seem like an odd blog.
And no doubt the majority of you ONLY want a Master or Mistress..
But no doubt there are some that desire both..if not even a Dominant couple.
So I thought I'd ask...and if so how do Masters and Mistresses differ to you..
Are they interchangeable...or is there a huge difference..
My opinion:
With a Domme...
I believe I want it to be less sexual..I had my fair share of older Domnes of late and the desire for a " relationship" was still heavy in the air..
I feel what I really need instead is a " strict aunt " type..
Someone who enjoys exerting control,treating a slave as a slave and yeah..would enjoy heavily disciplining a male..
I feel like I need to get away from the dude oriented Femdom kinks like strapons,chastity,male milking..things that are heavily sexual.
And instead focus on more traditional lifestyle things like service,pain,etc..
With a Master?
By the very nature..I think it would be more sexual...more sexually focused..
But with a Master I wouldn't want a drill instructor type..
I wouldn't want that strict authority.
I'd want more of a father knows best type,someone into say objectification,pain..using a slave
But is warm and fuzzy throughout the process.
I would be cool with an actual relationship outside of play..
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When your small workplace turns into the " office"
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Posted:Oct 4, 2023 5:04 am
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2023 4:27 am 6130 Views
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Still sick..gonna take a few mins to blog about work..
Kinda funny to go from a 5 person mom and pop shop to being bought out and 8 months in...
We are now a 5 person corporate mom and pop shop with nothing changed...despite the companies claim to have 12 stores in st. Louis etc..and have $$$$
You'll still see my ass locking up the same gate..as I've done for the past 17yrs.
But that's not today's point..
They now want us to do the corporate team bonding bullshit one might see on an episode of the " office"..
Complete with bring your baby pic in,wear your fav hat day to wearing an actual Halloween costume to work..
And I don't have time for this bs...
I'm basically jim helpford...maybe I'll go as the " hole punch".
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Been sick
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Posted:Oct 3, 2023 5:06 am
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2023 4:31 am 6821 Views
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My lack of posting is due to being under the weather of late...
Not 1000 percent if it is the flu or the hazy 90 degree humid filled Oct. Days..
Oh well power through this and you'll be hearing me talk about my 23 paid days off I have to spend...
And the projects I wish to accomplish
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Fat camp
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Posted:Sep 30, 2023 8:24 am
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2023 4:37 am 8455 Views
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I watched this y outube vid about overweight *ids and this camp they attended.
I won't go into alot of detail because those non adults are not supposed to be blogged about on alt.
I will say...I always thought I was husky growing up..
Even now as a 5'11 210lb grown man..
I feel I need to drop a few pounds..
But the show featured..." people" tons younger and my weight or easily more..
And I had to somehow process this..
A 300lb man is a big dude..
A 300lbs " person"
???
And I do have sympathy..I do understand people have problems,issues..school sucks,home life sucks
I'm not blaming or shaming..
But my brother was literally 6'3 250 plus pounds..
And now your telling me my brain needs to now squish that into a smaller frame..
And process it..
It's like combining the rock with Kevin hart..
And even though i...like most watching the video..
Want to see these people lose the weight.
I wonder if it will make them happy..
Kinda funny how non parents ( teachers,etc) tend to get involved when it comes to say a person's orientation or gender..
But where is this same push when it comes to weight.
I know I'm not " healthy" at my current weight..
There is no way they are..
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Reprogramming the male mind for bdsm..a preview
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Posted:Sep 29, 2023 5:05 am
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2023 5:05 am 8323 Views
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Hi,
Sorry just a lil preview of tomorrow's longer blog post.
I have a theory that I wish to share concerning men in the lifestyle..
And how I feel men need to change/ how you can change the male in your life and make him a better lifestyle person.
Basically a guide to jump starting/ rebooting your male and making him better...
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Is the desire for a relationship nature or nurtured into us
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Posted:Sep 29, 2023 4:49 am
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2023 4:49 am 7509 Views
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I pose a very generic question...
But it seems like women ( in general,obviously not all women)...
Are soooooo relationship focused in comparison to men.
So I wondered if this perhaps is a genetic thing/ gender thing..
Or is it something instilled culturally into women..
For example I watched a you tube video from j apan.
The guy asked j apanese women if they were cool with their hubby/ bf had sex w prostitutes..
Did they consider that " cheating"?
And to my surprise
The women were cool with the concept because it was just sex and not love/ commitment..
Being in love seemed more important to these women
They added was basically a cultural thing in j apan.
It made we wonder ...perhaps women are so relationship focused because sex/ play is easy for them to get.
If that's the case...then why aren't more gay men relationship focused
???
They too can get " sex" quite easily..
But for every dude looking for a hubby there are 500 looking for a bj.
So should we seperate sex from the relationship equation..
Like they sorta did in that Japan example..
If so...then what do people really need in a relationship..
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That spammers number
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Posted:Sep 26, 2023 6:17 pm
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2023 6:17 pm 9405 Views
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Now I have no influence over others..
1 573 203 7164...
But if you felt an urge to call..
Simply tell him or her..
Mr. green is angry..
And will call and call
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Joe biden literally needs bowling alley bumbers to keep from falling falling
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Posted:Sep 26, 2023 6:05 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2023 5:51 am 8836 Views
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Sorry hate to be that guy..
Don't care if your a lib or trumper..
But holy fuck..both sides are filled with geezers that can't even walk down the steps of air force one..
Without stumbling..
The fbi literally aided joe..
And he still fell..
Not a knock on Joe..trump would have fell too..
But can we finally get like a 50 or 60 yr old as
President for a change..
What happened to our desire for a JFK ..
The dude or woman with young ,a great hairline..a cool dog..
Now we are left with the don knots..shakyist fucker in the west..can't remember shit...as president.
How did we end up with trump vs biden
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Sure everyone has 400 k and gold bars in their house
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Posted:Sep 26, 2023 5:49 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2023 4:25 am 8926 Views
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Don't really care what party you vote for..
But omg can we literally perp walk this senator from jersey for illegal bribes and selling influence to Egypt.
Don't know about you...but most Americans can't pull out this secret stash for 30 years and just hide it in their house..
And then claim..I'm cuban...born in america..
And we just don't trust banks ..
How is this guy a senator..how is he allowed to run for office again..
And why did the fbi sit on the evidence of the raid of his house...400 k in cash and gold fucking bars..
Oh wait..cool..he's cuban..
All americans have that
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