Does " bdsm" need to be shattered in order to grow..become " the norm"?
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Posted:Jan 19, 2024 4:48 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2024 6:47 am 6709 Views
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I really want some big brain input on this one..
Cause I see a hella lot of this going on in the gay community..
People aren't " dabbling ".. rather they are taking certain portions of the over all bdsm " lifestyle"..
And making it work for them.
Like say bondage and edging a dick..
AND HUH? That is all he wants??.,that is what his interest in..
The rest of bdsm is useless..
Now back in the day we'd laugh
Call these people " domestic discipliners"..
Or just wannabees..
But these same people are normalizing your kink..
I see the same thing in the m2m spanking communities ..
Your sexual orientation doesn't matter..sex doesn't matter..dudes just be getting off on spanking period..
So does bdsm as a whole..
Matter??
And I think this notion of " bdsm" will soon carry over..
And people will be piece mealing it out.
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Boomerrangs: do you let exes back into your life
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Posted:Jan 19, 2024 5:01 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2024 6:46 am 6695 Views
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Here is a problem we all faced..
Do you let exes...Doms,subs,gf,bf...back into your life..
Even as friends..
I post this because I got an odd alert on fet..
I rarely go on there...but I do have numerous pics that I liked or commented on in the past..
Anyway I got a friend's request from this person..
Not the original name I knew her on fet..
A new one..
No pic..
But the age and location were accurate....it was the same sorta bio
Now it could be a scammer...but omg talk about working your ass off if it was..
There are easier ways to scam someone.. I doubt you'd come at me as a 68 yr old local Domme with no boobs pic.
So I have to assume it really is her.
There was no note...
Just a friend's request...
And a" like "to a drawing of a male slave tied naked to a bed spread eagle..with an erect cock.
In the past year I literally told someone/ a former vanilla friend.. I knew in my past that I didn't want to be friends with her again...it actually got a lil creepy/ her stocking me..
So I'm used to saying no and just cutting off people..
And yes it's hard for an audience to not only judge this Domme and my past with her..
But give me advice on how to proceed
I'm not saying I'm perfect and I had nothing to do with our breakup.
But I also know I'm fun,,I'm not chopped liver..
And yes it's sorta hard to find a good male slave as Dommes age..
In her case..she doesn't want the D..is sensual..
And that pic of that tied up male..
Probably is something she longs for..
But has no real access to..
Unless she reaches out...to her past..
Your thoughts..
I'll try to tell you more about her tonight
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Pipes burst.
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Posted:Jan 17, 2024 7:14 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2024 7:15 pm 5081 Views
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So yeah..
Maybe you didn't realise your boy was such a trend setter ..
50 something..no ..
No 401 k
No retirement plan
Roommates..4 cars in a driveway and only 1 belongs to me
Welcome to the new America..thank God for " bideneconomics"
I had a pipe burst in my house today..
Paid a plumber 300 bucks to fix it..
And he did us a favor..leapfrogged us.. cause my roommate is disabled.
Most plumbing companies said it would be a week before they could come over,
My roomie literally no longer has feet due to his diabetes..
His basement room got soaked and his bathroom now needs to be gutted.
Fun times..
Yeah it's been a bitch week that broke me..minus 20 below windchill and i worked out in it
I literally just wanted it to end..
And if I was
By myself..
I might have just ended it..
Being real...the worst week of my life.
It's like a torment that will not fucking end.
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Come on ..just say it..two things in life are always constant
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Posted:Jan 16, 2024 7:26 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2024 4:41 am 5016 Views
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Leo is always right..
And Leo is getting his...
Even if that means waiting an hour and a half for the walmart manager to test said battery..
After your boy told her
His machine said
It's bad...
And the mfer battery is under warranty.
Like omg Wal-Mart Karen manager..
Do you think think I'd rip out a 13 month old battery..in 6 degree weather..,wait an hr and change for you to waddle back..
Cause I'm working a hussle?
A 13 month battery with a 3 yr warrenty..
And yeah I'm hussling..
And you need to put my Wal-Mart battery on your tester..
I was 2 deep..so I walked around Wal-Mart for a plus hr...
Only to have Karen tell me..
Yeah my Wal-Mart battery was shit..
What part of me telling you I already put it on my device
Don't you get.,
What part of you of me..tired,cold,angry AF..
Don't you get..
In the end
Leo is always right..
And he's getting that w arrenty new battery.
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A few days in corporate hell
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Posted:Jan 13, 2024 7:10 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2024 7:12 pm 5734 Views
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So yeah the 15 plus team rolled in from st.louis and we had these all day meetings..
And yeah your boy.." stood out"..
Duh..
It seemed like every question I asked..
Was answered in the next slide..
I think maybe.,in an odd multi universe..
I could be " happy" as a
Corporate bitch..wonk
But your boy was
On point..
And smarter than the
Grandson of the owner
That now is 3rd in charge
And maybe that left an impression.
I don't know..or care,..
And maybe I am that guy.
I honestly wonder how far I could have rose as a
Corporate guy
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Would you be ashamed if someone found out your a bottom
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Posted:Jan 13, 2024 10:08 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2024 4:42 am 5066 Views
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I'm gonna tackle this from 3 seperate takes..
Cause " bottom" could mean just sexually,could mean bdsm or could be a put down..
1. As a man...would you be ashamed if people found out you bottomed sexually.
Which really has nothing to do with your sexual orientatiin..say your straight/ married but your wife luvs to strap it on.
2. As a person...would you be embarrassed if your bff knew you like to submit And say enjoyed being a dog
3. As a person..are you really a " bottom"..
Meaning in 2024..it's the equilavent of being a virgin,inexperienced..
Would you be embarrassed if someone called you out on this..like maybe as an adult you never..
Sucked a dick or whatever..
Or to put it in lifestyle terms...you label yourself a Dom/ slave but..yeah have never did ALOT outside the bedroom..
I call these people..".bunny floggers".
So would you be embarrassed if someone called you a bottom..
Or are you comfortable with that term
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Global warming😲😦😠 snowed in,minus butt fuck temps
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Posted:Jan 11, 2024 4:35 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2024 6:54 pm 5095 Views
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Sorry for the lack of posting..
My week went tuesday..4 to 6 inches of snow..
Wed.40
Thurs..more snow
Friday more snow
Sat.high of 2..low of -10
Sun..sorry if your at the chiefs game in person..omg..cold AF
Now some may say that isn't bad..in butt fuck where ever we get x,y,z
But yeah I have to work,drive, unload out in this shit..
Whatever happened to the polar bears melting
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A man can not be a story unto himself
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Posted:Jan 7, 2024 3:44 pm
Last Updated:Jan 11, 2024 4:31 am 5930 Views
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This is the lesson
I learned today.
There is no straight point A
To B..
One does not just quest to slay the dragon..
I need my chapters 3,4,5..
And if you believe I am just talking about writing
Then I
Failed you
I failed
Myself.
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The difference between having rizz or a team of Hollywood writers
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Posted:Jan 7, 2024 8:32 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2024 9:07 am 5703 Views
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I've been watching the tv show " shameless"..
And while It's fun to watch "white boy Carl" act all hood.
The writers don't comprehend what " rizz" is..
Rizz isn't some 140lb white swinging on a bigger dude..
Rizz isn't swag...wearing chains and corn rows
Rizz isn't dropping a Mic drop moment line
Rizz isn't looking like a thug.
Rizz isn't just a hood thing..
And Rizz is more than getting a woman's number
Rizz is confidence...you walk differently,you talk differently. You are a presence to be dealt with.
Which doesn't mean any of that ALPHA male bullshit.
I blogged about the pretty priveledge last night..but it's gone this morning..
???
Yet the lesson of that blog was simple..
You can be the hott wife of my ...
And your being pretty
Can't compete with real rizz...I made her laugh..
Most guys would give their left nut to have sex with her..
Me? I want to whipe away all that makeup
and see the real woman inside.
Real rizz isn't getting your freak on...
It's breaking those barriers and touching someone deep inside.
I'm build different.
You can tell me someone has rizz, you can put words into an actor's mouth..you can hire on a full team of writers
But don't tell me....
A real writer
shows me..
A character can be all gangsta gangsta...
And even crip walk..
Doesn't mean he has rizz.
Touch me
Deep inside
And maybe
You'll
Understand.
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Pretty girls have no rizz
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Posted:Jan 7, 2024 7:37 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2024 2:15 pm 5378 Views
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A guy on YouTube did another experiment
Where he got his hott girl friend to make a male profile on tinder.
While he used her pic and created a female profile on tinder..
Wash,rinse,repeat....this y outuber did this before..
And suprise..
.the youtuber..as a hott girl got 2,500 views in 24 hrs..
.the hott girl....as some random bro...in a profile that she created...thinking she knows what women want to hear..
Got
6 views...
And none of this is shocking...
But what sorta startled me was..
Hott girl had absolutely no rizz...had no clue how to really talk with someone
More or less charm someone..
So I wondered if girls ghosting you( or giving you brief AF replies) on sites like tinder are them being picky,stuck up...
Or maybe they never had to grind to get a date..
And don't know how to communicate if the other person can't see their face or boobs..
Cause this hott girl was clueless when it came to actually communicating with someone for more than a second.
I'll say it once..I'll say it a million times..
If I want to listen to someone play a guitar..
Get me the ugliest mfer from the 70s..
Cause you know he grinded his way to the top.
The same applied to this youtuber...he is just average looking...and has to grind .. he kinda sorta knew how to chat people up.
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