Have we really gone that far
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Posted:May 28, 2024 7:23 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 2:21 am 135 Views
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YouTube opens up a lot of rabbitholes..
I came across a small time youtuber...a large guy just starting out...
That was trying to lift weights in his house to lose weight
And I'm very cool with helping someone..
I will give you advice,I will have your back..
And if need be
I will give you that emotional support.
But he honestly posted a video..
talking about if he was on steroids..,
???
Due to his arm size..
Huh???
Bro..
Your a " large" guy..
Your gonna have big arms..
But here he was giving this long speech on how he wasn't on roids...and how big his arms naturally are..he literally went and got blood test today
Bro..the rest of you is big..your prob 300lbs
NOBODY THINKS YOUR ON STEROIDS..
Fuck I'm 212lb...nobody thinks I'm on steroids..
And I think I'm overweight..
Welcome to the new image of male body imagery
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A real discussion...what makes something...gay
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Posted:May 28, 2024 6:26 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 7:04 pm 194 Views
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Okay...alt...can I have an honest real discussion in an adult forum without out censorship...for once
I'm curious as to why someone..something..is made gay for diversity sake..and then
Omg...has to be such an overt stereotype.
Take batwoman or even doctor who...
They can't just feature someone who happens to be
Gay
The gay literally drips off them and defines them..
Batwoman kicks a few stuntment..,girl boss and then shags some cutie from the bar..most of the episode is her bedding someone..
Part of that reason is the actress( ruby rose) at 110lbs insisted on flipping 220lb stuntmen...and then suffered a back injury..
So they focused more on the bedroom screens than the fight scenes
Doctor who is literally a gay fidget spinner..he might as well dip himself in a rainbow..
And be that sassy frilly stereotype
In 2024 no less
And it's announced assassins creed new hero is ..omg gay..
Like huh...unless he is shagging bros in the back alleyway..who the fuck cares what his orientation is...
It's a video game..like comic books..99.999 percent of the time it's not based of their home life..
It's then fighting off whomever
Whether left,right,center....can we please stop with stereotyping people..
Fuck even the pope is using slurs..
Not every lesbian is a hottie supermodel..
Not ever gay man is an adhd scream queen...
Most of us work middle class jobs,live in your neighborhood,keep to ourselves and are good neighbors..
I'm really shocked that when a black gay man finally gets the chance to be the doctor..
He has to turns into Prince..
We get it.,your gay..but does that mean you have to be that stereotype..
Fyi..maybe you notice...there is more to gay people than stereotypes
I've said before I'm masculent,a bottom,I prefer guys..I'd call myself gay..
And there is no character in Hollywood portraying someone like me.
I'm their minds I am wrong..I must want to be feminine..must want to cross dress..I must want to be another gender..
And maybe as a guy..I like a dick,dildo in my ass.,
Yet..I'm still a dude..I like beer,I like fart jokes,I luv football, I luv seeing some idiot do the hot chip challenge
I'm a guy..I has a prostate
I'm shocked that Hollywood can't grasp the concept of a masculent gay guy that likes to be fucked..
In 2024
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Ate,iolence,under a???...banning my blog..who makes these decisions
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Posted:May 26, 2024 11:33 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 6:34 pm 1052 Views
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First off I warmly welcome the person,the staff...the bot that denies my blog for...
??? What exactly?
I fully understand that alt isn't a western hemisphere based company and English may not be their first go to language..
But come on..let's have a conversation.
You obviously are clueless to the terms
Atred,iolence and under A..
I'd normally assume your running the blogs through some sort of filter screen software...
But did it have to come from the 90's ..much like your main screen.
I should know...I was on alt...
Your using the same intro screen
So why deny my post....did I use a term that in a 60 degrees seperation of Kevin bacon sorta way....may have inferred a similar sorta kinda not even close on a friday...banned term..way
It ridiculous that adults can't have adult conversations or post..
But one can produce or post an adult vid to upload ...one can just flop out their weiner
In no way did I violate tos
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Be honest..your real reaction to gay men,gay sex
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Posted:May 26, 2024 10:42 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 10:58 am 1000 Views
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A black y tube content creator posted this question on his channel..
He asked....would you rather your offspring ( using that word cause alt won't let me say the k word in a post)...
Be a tot ( over sexualized usually female,onlyfans type for profit,sugarbaby) or your be gay..
And I realize in some communities it is still " okay" to be homophobic...no homo
But then this creator's online sidekick added this part...
If he gay...he could be a top...or...Omg bottom..
Something more for them to ponder..and making for a tougher decision.
Like a top is...still cool...sorta..in their cultural etc..he might get a pass
But a bottom????
And the creator went on to make the inference that bottom men are feminine,flamboyant,...the usual Hollywood stereotype.
I did not report his channel...
But I thought I'd take the moment to educate these gentlemen.
I bottom
...I lift weights,drive a truck for a living,repair cars,using tools,i drink beer,whisky,vodka,I luv football, im into sports,my wardrobe isn't designer..it's Wal-Mart, I like hunting,fishing,camping,I'm a huge gamer
I'm probably more country than some rednecks
I'm not flamboyant,am not feminine..I don't wish to be a woman.
I am man
..im your " co worker", your bro..the guy at the end of the bar..
There is no need for stereotypes or making assumptions
No need for the no homo
After the one handed bro embrace...
We good..
Trust me..I get
Your not gay
Kinda funny to see a video where someone would rather have a sugarbaby offspring than a gay one..
And your opinion is your opinion..
There is no right or wrong...
I won't blast or ban you for expressing yourself..
I'm curious as to what people think..
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I think I rotted my brain from watching y tube
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Posted:May 26, 2024 9:11 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 12:44 pm 609 Views
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I watch y tube as sorta white noise
Something to put in the background
Or something to simply relax with
Before I finally go to sleep.
I honestly don't watch tv
Probably the only person that has never
Watched 1 episode of the must watch binge shows
Like GOT..
Nobody said those content creators on y tube are talented..
I just saw some whip into dairy queen
Order a French vanilla ice cream cone
With hott sauce..
And then ate it
For over 2 million views..
???
Even worse...
The online casinos from
???? Dubi???
Where this 21 yr old online player played 7 hands of back jack
simultaneously ...
Kept wining and losing 100,000s of dollars..
And the most intelligent thing he can mutter
Is
Bro,bro,BROH....where they be hidding the 10s...This game is rigged..
And continued to play...
I'm gonna guess this money isn't real..
About 2 yrs ago this online casino paid streamers to gamble on their channel and promote gambling to the non adults
Look billy..no need to work..just double down or split that bet..
And I wonder is this what we have become...
A nation of no talent assclown...
Today I fried my brain...
Maybe I should coat it in hott sauce
Maybe that will get me 2 million views
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What ever happened to " slave training"???
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Posted:May 26, 2024 6:16 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 11:08 am 1157 Views
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I find it funny...
Here we sit..
A forum filled with Dominants,switches and submissives..
Yet I can't recall...( and yes I do read a lot of your blogs
And remember I'm ALT OG...been on here for 20 plus years..
Anyone really talking about their methods of slave training ..
Is it a lost art..is old guard dead...is it just fantasy???
I posted this blog today because I wonder if maybe
We are doing bdsm baclwards...
We..esp men ( not bashing men...but if it's true..it's true)...
Are quick to jump into sex,fetish, kink...
Women are equally quick to jump into bdsm relationships.
I ponder..
What if..
What if there was formal training,education for Both the Dominant and slave...perhaps even in a group setting
Before we even go down the road with sex,kink,exploring fetishes...or even entertaining an adult lifestyle relationship with someone..
This idea came to me after looking at the local groups and someone suggested " tea parties"..where the male servers would be trained..
Would it be great to do trial runs with a potential Dominant,switch,slave and see if there really is that synergy..
Before you invest your heart,energy,feelings into someone..
And I honestly not even suggesting something kinky...
It could be something as simple as a slave doing simple chores fully clothed..get you both used to the new power dynamic
Perhaps have the potential slave simply wait on you/ your lifestyle friends and see how they react..
Put that buffer zone between you..see if he just balks or if he really is serious about his submission
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My workout theory I'd like to share
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Posted:May 25, 2024 5:40 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 9:50 am 1516 Views
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It's been a while since I blogged about exercise,diet,
So I thought I'd share this theory and hopefully it helps.
I honestly think lifting weights is complete bs...or at least the advice that we have been told through out the years
We are told we must consume so much protein,stay in a certain rep range,need expensive equipment...blah,blah,blah..
Which in theory is nice...but then how do we explain muscular prisioners..
Whose diet is ..well garbage..processed foods, baloney,.high calories,high carbs...and honey buns,Roman noodles,chips etc..
Probably no cardio..eating only 3 meals a day plus snacks
Without a 5 lb jug of protein powder to be had
Using crappy weights,no straps or weight lifting belts..
Now if you or I ate garbage,didn't run,didn't consume high amounts of protein..
Say it all together...we'd be fat...at best what is called..fat jacked..looking more like a power lifter with a belly.
So what gives...???
Oh wait this is the point where someone will say prisioners are always exercising, doing high reps,using body weight exercises like pullups,pushup..
If that is true...
Then we too can
Just skip the gym,eat junk food and do some high rep pushups???
Praise be Jesus and pass the honeybuns
A lot of fitness influencers talk about a mind muscle connection,getting a big stretch,rest pausing,going to failure,etc..And all these fun buzz words..
I think..hence my theory....these jailhouse work outs are effective because...
Wait for it..
You end up doing a lot of reps with bad form..
Take a push up...chances are you can do x amount in correct form...
But the majority of people sorta fall off after a rep or two...we stop locking out,we stop going to the correct bottom of the exercise..
And the real magic that makes prisioners jacked...are those incorrect reps..
Why? Something called constant tension...
At 55yrs old I can bench 225lb...hardly mind blowing...but you'd think I'd at least have an impressive chest...but nope..
I actually get more,a better pec stimulation from pushups..
But but...isnt the bench basically the same motion as a pushup???..and roughly the same weight..I weight 214lb..
Nope..cause people tend to lock out or rest pause while doing reps while benching..
Thus taking tension off the muscle..
When we " do half ass reps"/ bad form reps..the tension is constantly on.
Now try to stop short of locking out at the top or bottom of a weighted exercise..you'll see it works you harder and you can't lift as much..
Now when I'm at the gym I do " partial" reps...well not partial..but close..like 85 percent of the motion....I see where the muscle starts and stops being under tension...and then only do that portion of the exercise..take lat raises..I only do part of the traditional motion...the bottom portion is useless.
Don't believe me?? Do a barbell,dumbbell bicep curl...
Now do it on a cable machine..hopefully you'll see the difference..one keeps the muscle under constant tension through out the lift.
What I'm trying to demostrate is..
As we try for higher and higher reps in a body weight exercise..our correct form slips..we don't get our chin over the bar in a pull up..
But that is good because we are now staying in that zone of constant tension..there is no resting at the top or bottom
Which leads to complete muscle exhaustion...
Which leads to
Being jacked
I used this theory when I now bench press..I stop short of locking out and bottoming out...maintaining that tension..
And find it greatly improved my chest growth..
It mimmics the results I was getting from a pushup..
An added bonus I experienced was one doesn't always have to now use lighter weights..with my theory
If I'm now only doing say 85 percent of the bench press motion..I don't have to lower the bar to my chest..I can use heavier weight..
Which increase my strength
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Do you believe the lifestyle is oversexualized? If so how do you rebrand the lifestyle
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Posted:May 24, 2024 4:34 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 3:10 pm 1858 Views
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I'm curious if you believe the lifestyle is too sexualized..
When I first started my lifestyle journey..what? 30 yrs ago...we blamed this ( mostly) male bad behavior on...
Well porn..
Men would watch it...
Assume bdsm was about orgies,getting laid..
So we would approach women/ Dommes with this mind set. Penis first thinking
But internet porn now??? Seems to be a part of our daily lives and the vids have improved.
So how do we explain the rise of " do me" boys...
Where sex is bigger than ever and males now press Dominants for kink..
Is this a good thing for the lifestyle..
I ask....as the log on screen for alt features a computer generated woman being plowed by some dude..
I'd like to hear your thoughts on the issue...and how/ should the lifestyle change.
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Why aren't you understanding...that isn't being Dominant
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Posted:May 23, 2024 4:58 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 12:11 pm 2152 Views
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Lol..
I don't know if this happens to the ladies..
But if one mentions kink in a profile...on various other sites
Then suddenly
My mailbox is flooded by men
Who don't want an honest discussion about the lifestyle..
They either instantly blurt out their fetish..
Like ..Will you pee on me...or I like cum...
Or want to hear about my kinks..in detail..like very detailed..lol..I could say I want to literally be milked and kept as a cow..or something extreme
And then these guys go...
Cool?..how do we proceed
??? Like bro...you most likely have no clue on how to proceed and are viewing this purely in sexual terms
That isn't being Dominant..
That is why I find myself shifting mental gears away from the overt sexual element of the lifestyle..
Sex to me right now?..chastity? Buttplug...and I'm good..
And looking more to the ,mental aspects..focusing more on play,discipline,service side
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