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My thought's, fun and fiction

Thoughts, humor and fiction of a Master in search of a slave, a roper in search of a rope bunny.

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Incommunicado
Posted:Apr 23, 2024 12:57 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 8:06 am
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Experience
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Develop
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Compromise
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Advice
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Vigilant
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Tolerate – Tolerance
Posted:Apr 15, 2024 12:55 pm
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Self-esteem
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Reassure
Posted:Apr 13, 2024 9:50 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2024 10:49 am
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Most people, at some time or another need to have someone reassure them about something.
In the BDSM Lifestyle, reassurance is often necessary for one reason or another.
Dominants need to be reassuring with submissives when a submissive falters or is doubtful about something. The reassurance should be a positive discussion, not a manipulative or coercive talk. There are times submissives have self-doubts about their abilities and need to be reassured that the Dominant has trust and faith in them, that whatever they did wrong and couldn’t do is not the end of the world, or the dynamic.
In the same way, submissive’s sometimes need to reassure the Dominant when the Dominant errs. When the Dominant accidently harms the submissive or has a bad day. It is up to the submissive to give reassurance that the submissive is OK and that they understand and trust that the action was not a trend in the wrong direction.
This isn’t to say that excuses should be made by either partner for actions that are consistently in the wrong. That is not a time for reassurance, but a time for serious discussion on how to stop the actions or end the dynamic. We should never tolerate behavior that is not acceptable or outside our agreements and consent.
© 4/13/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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Imperative
Posted:Apr 11, 2024 11:21 am
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2024 6:49 am
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