Being too direct?
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Posted:Apr 7, 2022 4:19 am
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2022 2:11 am 2213 Views
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I was talking with this woman, on an other sm site
It was all very personal.
Talked about some very deep intimate stuff, experiences...
That was good,
BUT,
Then, i made the mistake to being TOO open about somethings....
That was the end of the conversation.
All i did was speak my mind about some parts of the socalled dutch 'scene'...
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It was not a personal attack, it was just in general some comments on how things go...in the Dutch scene....in general.....
I am sorry she took it all personal, or at least that is what i think....
I am sorry she did not asked about this, kept the conversation open....
It is not easy, when you/ i am rather black and white in some matters....
How much nuance can you handle, without losing all colours?
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Done it!
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Posted:Dec 9, 2021 6:45 am
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2021 10:33 am 2167 Views
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So, the cards are on their way!
it is out of my hands now!
I went to this very special shop, they sell the strangest things.
I like shops like that.
Main stream is not my cup of tea.
They also have a card stand, with all kind of handmade cards.
I bought some cards before, it is nice to buy such cards, people did work for it,
made a plan, maybe, cut the paper and so on...
I like that, plus, you help people who do that for a hobby and make some small money, this way.
So, i got all sorts of sizes, did have to cut some to get it in the envelope.... 
It is all for a good cause.
Now i only have to home delivery some cards, but that can wait till later....
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Fetishes?
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Posted:Dec 9, 2021 2:51 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2021 2:57 am 2069 Views
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Anyone? LOL
There are soo many fetishes... it is unbelievable...
The list is endless.
Some dont even know, that some 'actions' are a fetish.
Like training, or punishment, or ponyplay, or watersports... or adult baby.....
There are also a lot of people, who do not do that kind of fetishes.
Why whould you 'punish' your greatest, dearest property?
I dont get it.
I can understand, that some "ds" are afraid to give in, to their lust for giving pain...
They maybe have to accept that part of their character, understanding that a physical masochiste LOVES his "pain".
That is why i prefere the term; physical sensations
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Pain has, most of the time, a bad vibe, as in abuse.....?
SM is not abuse, to me, SM is the deepest way of love and care for the other.
SM is giving the other person, what she wants,
and for the D, to get, be able to do, what he needs...
As i see it
It is in balance, it is reciprocrate
AN other thing, most kinky sex players have a very big shopping list with all kind of fetishes
Just want to try all and almost everything.
exploring their sexuality.
Like a in a candy shop
Also, it seems, that men, have more fetishes then women do....
I really dont know...
I, l love whips, big sturdy whips, i am in for the thud, not the sting....
Clamps are "nice" too, but whips are on top of the list.
Candles are fine too,
I love intens play, eventually explore my hard limits, too
I want to learn, how i can make him happy, fulfilled, proud of me.
I am, to make his life easier. not complicated.
With someone i know very, very well, with whom i build some real deep trust learned to love and cherish him, as a person, first, , as he does me too...
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An other Dutch folkore,
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Posted:Nov 12, 2021 12:05 pm
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2021 12:08 pm 2490 Views
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11 november is the day!
It is also about some holy man, who was on his riding somewhere.
He saw a person without winterclothes, it were just rags..
So this holy man, cuts a piece of his cape and gives that to the poor person....
Somehow, that is transformed to this story about collecting sweets at houses...
with a home or school made lantarn...
The most of the times, those lantarns look really nice!
They did put a lot of work in them.
And the songs are, like most songs, totally not logical at all!
There were not that many at my door, i did buy too many sweets....
So i am going to give that away...
I have a bit of a problem with this festive activity..
Because, well, to be honest, most eat too many sweets, anyway.
There are already way too many with obesitas....
And, then i and everyone else is giving them more and more !
Knowing, that all that is sooo very bad for them!
My consciousness is having a hard time.
If you offer them fruits or healthy snacks like carrots they are getting really angry!
They. want. sweets.!
As if that is their right!
I am glad it is over, again, for a whole year......
Oh, and if you dont want to open your door / if you dont want to be part of this madness,
and give them sweets, they sing a nasty song about you.
At your door!
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This one is for loveofgaiasub,
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Posted:Nov 5, 2021 4:19 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 5:11 pm 2038 Views
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This is a betty page dress i found in a thriftshop!
It is totally NOT my colour or style, but it fits like a glove!
What do you say?
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more garden pictures....?
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Posted:Nov 4, 2021 8:21 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 5:11 pm 2113 Views
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Today there was this very small hedgehog in my garden, eating cat food, by day light!
I thought they are nocturnal?
Or it this a sign that we are going to have a hell of a winter?? NO!!!!
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This one is for pac!
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Posted:Sep 16, 2021 10:27 pm
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2021 11:17 pm 2275 Views
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I had an other gem writing me...
text below,
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Can someone be a slave, without a Master?
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Posted:Aug 18, 2021 11:09 pm
Last Updated:Aug 23, 2021 12:28 am 2568 Views
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I am not talking about the porn version of a "slave"
I am also not talking about being a sex slave...
But, being slave, as part of my character traits, if you like...
Of, it is in my core...
The other day i did read this profile on FETLIFE.
That woman just said, i dont need experiment, i KNOW i am a slave, in a loving, caring adult M/s dynamic- relation.
I found it really refreshing, read her remarks...
I also understand, that get know your likes, dislikes and all that, you -need-? experiment...
The thing is, i did not found one man, so far, with whom i would like "experiment" with.
It is not about "having experiment" this, that and the other...
me, it is first about the connection, between that person and me.
And NOT about that he and i both like whips, or the belt, or heavy play...
I did "experiment" some things.... actions....
It has be both, i have , first, like him, as a person, like the way he thinks, and that he likes what i like.
i identify as slave, i am, in the right connection, submissive that one man.
Just the only sexual submission, for some hours, has no value for me...
There is no connection, fundament, build on...
Just play out the different fetishes....
not my style, desire
I am happy for those, who can find satisfaction in that.
Sometimes, i wish i could, too...
But, it is just not in me...
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