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Through the mist

There are times when my thoughts or feelings need an outlet, this is where they'll end up.

Increased profile activity
Posted:Jun 15, 2014 9:29 pm
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2019 3:14 pm
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I have found that ALT is saying that I'm looking at, and being viewed by, a lot of profiles that I'm not. It now seems that if a profile even comes up in a who's online search, that it's being viewed.

Profiles outside of my demographics, outside of my desired search parameters and so on.

I am so not a cougar, but it says I view 20 and 30 something guys, regularly! Men from other countries, and a few women here and there.

So, just a heads up on that issue. I think it has to do with marketing and making people think that there is a lot more activity on their profile, so they'll want to upgrade.
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Good Hot Nasty Fucking!
Posted:Jun 11, 2006 12:29 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2013 5:25 pm
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You know it was good when the whole room smells like sex over the smell of the burning candles.

You’ve gone thru the whole stack of sex towels, yet the sheets AND the mattress pad needs to be laundered.

You’re hot, sweaty and sticky, in places that only your partner can reach to wash in the shower, but you’re both too exhausted to take one.

You fall asleep with an ear to ear smile on your face.

You wake up sore, but that smile is still on your face!
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Being single
Posted:Jun 6, 2006 9:52 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2013 5:36 pm
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I’m just sitting here eating strawberries, it’s the forth time in the last month that I’ve had strawberries, I love em!

But this is the first time in years that I’ve gotten any. You may be asking yourself why I haven’t before this, and I’ll tell you.

Sixteen years ago I married a man who doesn’t like them, so I quit eating them too. Then two years ago when we broke up, I started dating someone who didn’t like them, so I still didn’t eat them. Now I’ve been single for 10 months and I’ve started to rediscover and indulge in those things I enjoy, I’m becoming my own person again.

Until now, I didn't realize how much of myself I'd lost by being the person someone else wanted me to be. And what's really sad is that I can't say that in being that "other" person that there was any real growth. I've done my best growth when I've had full control and did what I felt was best for "me"

I'm vowing to eat strawberries when I want for now on!
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Vanilla Thoughts
Posted:May 31, 2006 4:21 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2007 3:26 am
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I’ve become very disheartened of ever finding what my heart seeks. On the many sites I’ve been looking on, what I have found has been, rudeness, married or otherwise attached, unwavering snap judgments, lack of physical attraction, rushed expectations, a seeming lack of desire to get to know someone for more then play, hot then cold (dropped of the planet) attractions, and a few stalkers.

Last year I did some vanilla dating, but quit, thinking, I’ll never find what I want if this is where I date. Well I’m not getting any closer by using the D/s, bdsm sites. But, at least when dating vanilla, I was finding nice men who were willing to step out from behind their computers and have some fun; I was treated with more respect and better manners then what seems to be the norm from what I’ve found otherwise, and, I didn’t feel pressured to rush into a sexual relationship before a nonsexual relationship was established.

If I have to make a choice between having play or finding my basic core relationship needs met, then I think I’ll have a better chance of finding that outside the lifestyle and work at corrupting him!
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Is giving head sex?
Posted:May 22, 2006 9:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2018 5:30 pm
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I was talking with someone this evening and the subject of having sex came up and that lead to the question, is giving head having sex?

And then to farther push the issue, if a person gives a man head and gets nothing in return, can the giver really say that they've then had sex?
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