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a wonderful evening
Posted:Dec 14, 2021 8:41 am
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2022 4:58 am
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I had a wonderful evening at a local fetish club. A Domme I know from the munches I have been attending really blistered my ass good. It was wonderful. here are the pics of my ass and 2 close ups of the lovely marks she left. I really needed it and she was happy to do it. I can't thank her enough for the wonderful experience she gave me, and I can't wait for the next one. Thank you, Mistress Stefanie, for the gift you gave me .
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UPDATE
Posted:Jun 21, 2021 4:10 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 6:13 am
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On June th I attended another munch put on by the same group as the first one I attended in May. It was so good to see everyone again. The Domme I connected with at the first one was not there because she was out of state but I caught the attention of 2 others. They must see something in me that I was not aware of because both of them want to get to know me better.I wanted to stay and talk to them all night but I had to leave. My work schedule got in the way...lol. The future is getting brighter for me. It feels so good to wanted by someone who isn't out to drain my bank account.
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I MAY BE DONE!!!
Posted:May 14, 2021 7:33 am
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2022 4:59 am
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Well...the scammers may have pushed me over the edge. I am contemplating leaving the lifestyle for good. I am not the bank of america. I am not in this be taken. I don't want leave the lifestyle I love so much but I may have . The scammers have left me no choice. I am attending a munch this weekend and if nothing comes of I may throw in the towel.

UPDATE. May have made a connection at the munch. taking slow see what develops. My heart is filled with hope again.
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MESSAGING ME
Posted:Apr 30, 2021 9:59 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2021 3:08 pm
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To all those who have messaged me since my membership ran out. Please don't think i am ignoring you when i don't respond.I cannot look at your profile or read your messages. I can see no reason renew my membership when what I am seeking on here does not exist (at least not within one hundred miles of me). I would love to make a real connection with someone from this site but all I seem to attract are fakes and scammers and bank account vampires. The one time I made a connection with someone was a disaster. I committed to her, obeyed her every command to the letter, and fell in love with her then one day without explanation she abandoned me. she threw me away like yesterday's garbage. your1dream55 made all kinds of promises about what we would do when we were together and in the end she broke my heart. I did things she asked me to do that I normally wouldn't do to show my devotion but it didn't matter. She still abandoned me without a second thought. Its because of this experience and my dealings with scammers that I will not renew. So if you leave me a message and get no response thats why. Please don't think its personal. look to my status for a clue.
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IMC1958
Posted:Feb 26, 2021 8:51 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2021 12:23 pm
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this post is being done for a friend I met here on ALT. IMC1958. she has deleted her ALT account and as soon as lockdown ends she will be going back Europe or perhaps Great Britain. She would like all her friends know she loves you all and can be reached through hangouts or by google at wyldedreamer58
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Ending my search
Posted:Dec 24, 2020 8:05 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2021 10:01 am
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At one time I thought I could find someone on this site fill the hole in my life that was left when my Mistress/Wife of 27 years passed away. For a few months starting last June I thought I had. But I should have known better. So now that I have wasted 1 year and a lot of dollars in this futile search I have decided give . They say "nice guys finish last". It must be true because I never win and my experiences this site are just another loss. at least from the back of the pack I won't be knifed in the back anymore.
I will be staying on until my membership runs out so I can stay in touch with my friends (and you know who you are). The friends I have made mean a lot to me and are the best thing to come out of this whole depressing experience. I don't blame any one person for this. The system is flawed and in need of fixing. But that's not . I wish everyone on here the best.
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THE TEST
Posted:Oct 20, 2020 5:48 am
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2021 3:00 am
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I have a foolproof test that they always fail. I simply ask for a face to face meeting to negotiate a scene or session. this meeting is important because you can't go into a scene or session cold without knowing the person you are submitting to. If the person you are talking to refuses to meet with you then odds are they are a fake or scammer. most scammers will not meet face to face because they do not want to look a victim in the eye or they can't meet because they are not even in this country. either way if they fail the test it's time move on.

FAIL THE TEST AND I WONT EVEN TALK YOU.
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a wonderful experience
Posted:Aug 9, 2020 8:46 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2021 5:50 am
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recently i had a phone date and phone session with Mistress Silver from Toronto Canada.
we have been friends for a long time but because i was married she would never do anything with me . when i told her my Mistress/Wife had passed away she gave time to grieve. now that some time has gone by she would like expand our relationship.but since the border is closed due covid-19 the chances of us actually meeting are slim. but we did have a wonderful session on the phone. here is a cut and paste from an sent by Mistress Silver in response our date.

Jim my dear,

Thank you for your wonderful service me today.
You are a joy and a treasure as a submissive.
You also do a great honour to me when you serve with such great obedience and willingness. I hope you know how pleased I was with your service and your obedience.
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FAKES AND SCAMMERS
Posted:Jun 20, 2020 1:26 pm
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2021 1:11 am
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I have been hurt by fakes and scammers multiple times. I am on the lookout for them now. If anyone has been taken by these parasites feel free rant about it here and share info .
one thing i have found that seems stop them in their tracks is asking for a face to face meeting. seems the last thing they want is to look a potential victim in the eye.

6-27-20 got used by another. thought this one was different.. i should have known better.. even when they live in same town as me they are all the same. bank account vampires. should have cut it off when she wouldn't meet me face to face. and in the same day i even had a subgirl who i thought was a friend hit me up for gift cards.. i must have "sucker" written all my face.
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