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The Scams I have encountered
Posted:Apr 8, 2024 9:29 am
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2024 5:57 am
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I have been on and off dating sites for the last eight years, thought it would be interesting to list all the scams I have encountered, from so called "Mistresses". Note, these are normally asked by them after only a few texts, or within a few days. And, you never get to video chat or meet them, before they "require" the listed items that follow. Please note, I have encountered these on bdsm sites and vanilla dating sites.

Money scams:

1. Need Money to buy toys for our first encounter. This was the first scam I encountered, and is one of the more common.

2. Need Money to register you with the BDSM Counsel as their slave.

3. Need Money for the slave contract.

4. Money for tribute, normally a "one-time" payment.

5. Need gas Money to get to you. Could be airplane Money, lets call it travel Money.

6. Need gift cards (Steam, Apple, Sephora, Razor, ...) for (fill in the blank).

7. Want you to invest in Cryptocurrency. You invest, and will never see your Money again.

8. Want your bank account information so they can transfer Money to you. They then will use it to empty your bank account.

9. Need Money for food.

10. Stranded in another country. You are communicating with them, after a week or so, they have an urgent trip to another country. One went on business to Asia, was in a car accident, and needed Money for her doctor bills. It was a gang operation out of South Africa. Another went to Germany on a University trip, had her MAC computer stolen, wanted Money to replace her MAC.

11. Need Money for a dungeon for our first meeting. Typically, they will send you to a bogus website where you enter your credit card information, that is what they are after. They will give a list of a few addresses in various cities, where the dungeon is "hidden" in a residential area. Don't be surprised if there is a family living there, if you go!

Personal Identity theft scams:

1. Need you to send a photo of your drivers license to them.

2. Want your full name, and current address.

3. Want your id/password to your account, as they don't want to share you. I have had this attempted on Alt and Facebook. They will then use your account to entice other innocent people to send them Money or any of the scams listed.

Forwarding Stolen Goods scams:

1. Want to mail you boxes that you then re-mail to their friends in different countries, typically. They want you nailed in case the stolen goods or illegal items are intercepted by customs.

2. They want you to cash in gift cards, and send the Money to a friend of theirs. Similar to #1 above. Basically you are the man in the middle, the one that is going to get caught. Those gift cards are stolen.

Blackmail:

1. They want you to send pics and videos of you doing things you would not want publisized. Then, they want your full name and current address. This sets them up to attempt blackmail on you.

Yes, I have had all these attempted on me. Yes, early on, I fell for a few of them.

A couple of tips:

Normally, a real Mistress will have a ton of pictures on their profile. If the Mistress has one or two, "she" is probably not real.

If they want you as their sub/slave, before video chatting a few times, or before meeting in person, "she" is probably not real.

Never give your real name, or any personal information during the texting phase.

Many of these Mistresses are men from Nigeria. Yes, a few have revealed themselves to me.

Use reverse image lookup on all pics exchanged. It is not 100%, but you will find most pics sent to you are misappropriated from the Internet. Some "Mistresses" will say they are that person, but will not video chat with you. I have had people stream part of a porn film to me in a video chat, or as a video file. There will be no sound, they will not say your name, say the date, etc.

I am sure there are other scams I just don't remember, and I definitely know I haven't run into them all. Be careful out there!

Do you have any new ones to add to the list?
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