Beforehand (reply)
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Posted:Jan 22, 2024 1:53 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2024 11:43 am 8906 Views
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You state unequivocally that "in a BDSM dynamic, even a little mystery can be not only problematic, but outright dangerous".
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Fear Of Consequences
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Posted:Jan 21, 2024 6:53 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2024 7:10 pm 8599 Views
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A Master does not train a submissive with fear . . Because there will always be something they fear more than you.
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Wellbeing (reply)
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Posted:Jan 20, 2024 12:21 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 8:29 am 6844 Views
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The wellbeing of your partner is a priority. Not just the physical, but the emotional and mental wellbeing as well.
Well-being as a hyphenated word is the preferred form in the United States and Canada.
It is clearly not within the scope of BDSM for one partner to attempt to perform any sort of mental healing to another partners mental state of well being. If you don't believe the person is mentally capable of functioning within the protocols of the relationship you seek you should decline to meet them.
A hurt submissive will more than likely want to find a way out of the dynamic
There are a lot of submissives that are seeking pain and S&M so your statement is completely invalid.
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Vague (reply)
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Posted:Jan 19, 2024 5:42 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 6:17 am 5996 Views
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A huge red flag during vetting is a prospective partner being vague with answers.
The red flag should be on deception, dishonesty and people that lie!
Relationships don't come with cookie cutter answers and ideals . . There is a vagueness, even uncertainty built into all things involving the future of any relationship. Particularly relationships that involve imagination.
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Vague (reply)
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Posted:Jan 19, 2024 5:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2024 10:22 am 5558 Views
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A huge red flag during vetting is a prospective partner being vague with answers.
The red flag should be on deception, dishonesty and people that lie!
Relationships don't come with cookie cutter answers and ideals . . There is a vagueness, even uncertainty built into all things involving the future of any relationship. Particularly relationships that involve imagination.
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Ultimatums (reply)
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Posted:Jan 18, 2024 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2024 6:21 am 4500 Views
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Some things in BDSM can be both positive and negative, depending on how they are used. Ultimatums can work that way.
Ultimatums are not a valid BDSM protocol.
A true Dom(me) barks no demand for power prior to negotiation and drawing boundaries. Dom(me)s do not coerce, set ultimatums, manipulate, or berate someone for submission— unless, of course, berating is specifically requested.
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Sadism (reply)
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Posted:Jan 16, 2024 12:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2024 6:24 pm 4105 Views
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Sadism runs the gamut of soft to extreme,
There is no painless sadism.
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Martin Luther King Day
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Posted:Jan 15, 2024 8:22 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2024 5:58 am 4005 Views
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There is no doubt that Martin Luther King Jr. was the driving force behind the civil rights act of 1964. But republican politicians, like de santis have tried to reduce the freedoms, rights and equality for minorities in this country. They don't want the true history taught in schools about slavery, civil rights or the accomplishments of minorities. The latest legislation Florida Republicans have introduced would silence basically any accusations of discrimination. So that even though discrimination is illegal it would also be illegal to complain about it in Florida.
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Qualifications (reply)
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Posted:Jan 13, 2024 8:13 pm
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2024 5:54 pm 3617 Views
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Do you consider if your prospective partner, or your partner for that matter, is qualified to do what they will be doing or are doing with you? Do they have the qualities needed to be a Dominant or a submissive>
Finding a partner for a relationship is not interviewing candidates for a position that requires, "qualifications".
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