Wellbeing (reply)
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Posted:Jan 20, 2024 12:21 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 8:29 am 6726 Views
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The wellbeing of your partner is a priority. Not just the physical, but the emotional and mental wellbeing as well.
Well-being as a hyphenated word is the preferred
form in the United States and Canada.
It is clearly not within the scope of BDSM
for one partner to attempt to perform any
sort of mental healing to another partners
mental state of well being.
If you don't believe the person is mentally
capable of functioning within the protocols
of the relationship you seek you should decline
to meet them.
A hurt submissive will more than likely want to find a way out of the dynamic
There are a lot of submissives that are seeking
pain and S&M so your statement is completely
invalid.
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Vague (reply)
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Posted:Jan 19, 2024 5:42 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 12:49 pm 5913 Views
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A huge red flag during vetting is a prospective partner being vague with answers.
The red flag should be on deception,
dishonesty and people that lie!
Relationships don't come with cookie
cutter answers and ideals . . There is a
vagueness, even uncertainty built into all
things involving the future of any relationship.
Particularly relationships that involve imagination.
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Vague (reply)
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Posted:Jan 19, 2024 5:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2024 10:22 am 5467 Views
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A huge red flag during vetting is a prospective partner being vague with answers.
The red flag should be on deception,
dishonesty and people that lie!
Relationships don't come with cookie
cutter answers and ideals . . There is a
vagueness, even uncertainty built into all
things involving the future of any relationship.
Particularly relationships that involve imagination.
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Ultimatums (reply)
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Posted:Jan 18, 2024 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2024 6:21 am 4409 Views
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Some things in BDSM can be both positive and negative, depending on how they are used. Ultimatums can work that way.
Ultimatums are not a valid BDSM protocol.
A true Dom(me) barks no demand for power
prior to negotiation and drawing boundaries.
Dom(me)s do not coerce, set ultimatums,
manipulate, or berate someone for submission—
unless, of course, berating is specifically
requested.
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Sadism (reply)
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Posted:Jan 16, 2024 12:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2024 6:24 pm 4005 Views
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Sadism runs the gamut of soft to extreme,
There is no painless sadism.
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Martin Luther King Day
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Posted:Jan 15, 2024 8:22 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2024 5:58 am 3901 Views
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There is no doubt that Martin
Luther King Jr. was the driving
force behind the civil rights act
of 1964. But republican politicians,
like de santis have tried to reduce
the freedoms, rights and equality
for minorities in this country.
They don't want the true history
taught in schools about slavery,
civil rights or the accomplishments
of minorities. The latest legislation
Florida Republicans have introduced
would silence basically any accusations
of discrimination. So that even though
discrimination is illegal it would also be
illegal to complain about it in Florida.
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Qualifications (reply)
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Posted:Jan 13, 2024 8:13 pm
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2024 5:54 pm 3529 Views
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Do you consider if your prospective partner, or your partner for that matter, is qualified to do what they will be doing or are doing with you?
Do they have the qualities needed to be a Dominant or a submissive>
Finding a partner for a relationship is
not interviewing candidates for a position
that requires, "qualifications".
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Obey/Obedience (reply)
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Posted:Jan 11, 2024 12:17 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2024 6:40 am 3896 Views
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This is really a cornerstone of submission.
Here are the definitions of each: Obedience:
Obedience refers to the act of following
instructions or orders from someone in a
position of authority.
Submission: Submission refers to the act of
yielding to the authority or control of someone
else.
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Naïve
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Posted:Jan 10, 2024 1:35 pm
Last Updated:Jan 11, 2024 8:43 am 3759 Views
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Many novices coming into the Lifestyle are as naïve as you can get.
Tabula rasa . .
Tabula rasa is the idea of individuals being
born empty of any built-in mental content,
so that all knowledge comes from later
perceptions.
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