Justify (reply)
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Posted:Jan 31, 2024 11:22 am
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2024 12:36 pm 8227 Views
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Some decisions and actions, if for obvious reasons, could skip the justifying phase with the submissive, or the action is in the “funishment” category, or with the reasoning,
Justification is when we try to convince ourselves that our bad behavior is good.
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Necessity
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Posted:Jan 25, 2024 6:02 am
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2024 5:52 am 8762 Views
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If it's true that our species is alone in the universe . . .
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Beforehand (reply)
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Posted:Jan 22, 2024 1:53 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2024 11:43 am 8965 Views
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You state unequivocally that "in a BDSM dynamic, even a little mystery can be not only problematic, but outright dangerous".
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Fear Of Consequences
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Posted:Jan 21, 2024 6:53 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2024 7:10 pm 8667 Views
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A Master does not train a submissive with fear . . Because there will always be something they fear more than you.
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Wellbeing (reply)
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Posted:Jan 20, 2024 12:21 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2024 8:29 am 6920 Views
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The wellbeing of your partner is a priority. Not just the physical, but the emotional and mental wellbeing as well.
Well-being as a hyphenated word is the preferred form in the United States and Canada.
It is clearly not within the scope of BDSM for one partner to attempt to perform any sort of mental healing to another partners mental state of well being. If you don't believe the person is mentally capable of functioning within the protocols of the relationship you seek you should decline to meet them.
A hurt submissive will more than likely want to find a way out of the dynamic
There are a lot of submissives that are seeking pain and S&M so your statement is completely invalid.
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Vague (reply)
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Posted:Jan 19, 2024 5:42 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2024 10:0 pm 6053 Views
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A huge red flag during vetting is a prospective partner being vague with answers.
The red flag should be on deception, dishonesty and people that lie!
Relationships don't come with cookie cutter answers and ideals . . There is a vagueness, even uncertainty built into all things involving the future of any relationship. Particularly relationships that involve imagination.
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Vague (reply)
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Posted:Jan 19, 2024 5:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2024 10:22 am 5617 Views
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A huge red flag during vetting is a prospective partner being vague with answers.
The red flag should be on deception, dishonesty and people that lie!
Relationships don't come with cookie cutter answers and ideals . . There is a vagueness, even uncertainty built into all things involving the future of any relationship. Particularly relationships that involve imagination.
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Ultimatums (reply)
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Posted:Jan 18, 2024 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2024 6:21 am 4557 Views
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Some things in BDSM can be both positive and negative, depending on how they are used. Ultimatums can work that way.
Ultimatums are not a valid BDSM protocol.
A true Dom(me) barks no demand for power prior to negotiation and drawing boundaries. Dom(me)s do not coerce, set ultimatums, manipulate, or berate someone for submission— unless, of course, berating is specifically requested.
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Sadism (reply)
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Posted:Jan 16, 2024 12:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2024 6:24 pm 4172 Views
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Sadism runs the gamut of soft to extreme,
There is no painless sadism.
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