Just for the record, I'm not looking for a mindless doormat. I don't want a sub or slave who can't engage me in at least some sort of conversation. I find it highly frustrating if I ask you what you like and your reply is 'I don't know...whatever you like.' I need to feel your passion for this. I need to know you truly get off on kinky, dirty, extreme, intense and taboo. I'm not saying it always has to be extreme; I believe in balance. But at least be able to tell me what excites you and what draws you into this life. Be able to express yourself...thoughts, feelings, fears, emotions and desires.
I'm a 38m dominant from Ontario. I've been into bdsm for about 17+yrs and in that time, I've learned a lot but of course, there is still so much to learn and experience. I'm into a great many things from the more tame to the more taboo and extreme. I would love to find a smart, sexy, sub or slave who absolutely craves and adores being used, abused, humiliated and degraded. Of course, those terms mean different things to different people, so until we chat, there's no way to know if our interests and desires match up. I'm open to meets and playing but what I really seek is a sub/slave for a 24/7 ltr. However, for the time being, I would consider some online chat and casual meets.
On the vanilla side of things, I work full time, have a home, car, great family and friends and enjoy either going out or staying in. I'm a nerd and I'm proud to admit it. I love computers, video games, sci-fi, fantasy, home theater, technology and more. I build computers as a bit of a hobby too. However, I'm not all nerd. I play softball, golf and I enjoy snowboarding. I love to go out and party with friends and I'm also content to spend a quiet night watching some good tv or a movie. As I said before, I believe in balance...so I think for a true bdsm relationship there also has to be a vanilla connection. :)
I suppose that's all for now. Talk to you soon!
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My Ideal Person:
Well there are many facets to my personality. I can say for certain that I think there needs to be a certain blend vanilla with kink or some vanilla aspect to this relationship - I just don't really think it's realistic for us both to be "always on" lol. Sometimes I want a babygirl, sometimes a whore, sometimes a painslut and many many more. I would like to find a sub or slave with few limits and who craves to try new things and push boundaries. I'm looking for something real. I'm perfectly ok with chatting online, talking about needs, wants and more but I'm definitely not seeking an online-only sub!
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