Do women have unrealistic expectations when it comes to dating
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Posted:Dec 30, 2023 9:18 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2024 6:55 pm 6997 Views
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I'm curious..
Do you believe women have an unrealistic expectations of men when it comes to dating?
It seems to me there are tons of women jumping onto tiktok and crying on videos where they state they are fed up,can't find good men,that they need to raise their standards and value themselves more..
And I'm like huh..
No wonder your on tiktok instead of being on a date..
To men it's a booty call..it might be a date..
To women? He might be the one so they better unpack it all and sees if he measures up..
I watch these videoes and it's like every woman thinks they are a 9..
No.. your mostly 5,6,
So they go after 10s.. ( 90 percent of women all go after the same 10 percent of men)
And then complain when the 10 sleeps with them and then bounces..
If you set high standards on men based of artificial things like his height..
Then why are you suprised when the 6'2 dude that all women want..
Just fucks and ghost you..
Is he also not playing the game??
Is he also not valuable?
Should a 10 not want a 10?
Ladies I told you before...
You play " girl games"...you set your standards,your value based on your body,your looks,the attention you can pull..
Then why are you mad..
When chad literally plays your game
Better..
Cause duh...he is the male version
Of your group's girl boss.
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Let's talk about size..does it matter..both dick and breast sizes
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Posted:Dec 30, 2023 7:29 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2023 8:55 am 6569 Views
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A v tuber brought up a good point..
She claimed dick size didn't matter to she/ her friends..Then just didn't want that massive penis..
( side bar)..the v tuber is from j apan and is 4'9 in real life
So what is " massive" to her..lol?
In her opinion women don't care about penis size...yet men do..
Sorta like men really don't care about breast size..sure there are preferences but breast are breast..
Yet women want to be big..
Your thought? Does size matter,
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The odd thing about men..they are weird period
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Posted:Dec 29, 2023 4:48 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2023 4:10 am 7583 Views
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Maybe you wondered if the grass is greener on the other side..
And let me confirm...that yeah ladies gay men can be as flakey,as weird..and odd as what your experiencing..
It's not you...it's THEM..
So yeah I'm on this big gay bdsm site with a lot of local guys.
And You'd assume I would have been stuffed fuller than the thanksgiving turkey.
But omg!😲 the weirdo come out of the woodwork...
And I'm not bashing anyone's looks,age,weight..
I'm talking weirdos..like...they are a couple..he's the Dom but he doesn't top and has guys that top him...but don't grief...the slave will top another slave and give you a good fisting,fucking etc..
And I'm not bashing peoples lifestyle/ sexual interest..
But there are way too many numbers in that equation..plus you don't know how many extra numbers visit on a regular
Or you get the nervous nelly types...that will write,buzz around,exchange an email and vanish..
Or worse...dude said he was local and asked if I worked out, then..proceeded to talk to me about gyms???
Then that was that..lol..
Maybe the ladies are right..modern guys are afraid to approach,have no rizz...and dont persue.
So yeah I went from having 4 letters in my mail box a day to 0 as we pulled into christmas..
And I will say that gay men tend to be very forward when it comes to a particular style of bdsm they are into.
I'm used to creating a profile that talks more about myself and then checking the boxes for my desires down below..
These guys will blast what their into....rope master look for x to edge,ff,shock...right in the opening paragraph of their profile..
It's almost like the " gay spankers" I talked about previously...they are into spanking..period..to them this is bdsm..
Well you get some of that in the gay scene...they are into bondage big time..and that's it.
My final beef..lol...your not getting the stereotyped gay guy that lives at the gym,fans and wears designer clothes here in kc..
Your getting bears,dudes..
But for the love of God...bros..nobody cares if your 300lbs or 65 yrs old..
But could you do just a lil bit of manscapping down below..
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Just cause they have a sign out..your needs vs theirs
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Posted:Dec 28, 2023 5:07 am
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2023 5:07 am 5747 Views
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Here's a quick blog for you all..
Even when a woman screams in a profile...
That
she LUVS femdom..it's number 1 fan...she says she's into cbt,anal training...everything you always wanted to try..etc
Still doesn't mean her needs..
Are your needs .
And I really wished it could be just about her needs..hell I wrote a theory on this hoping it would be the solution for femdom couples..
My advice??? Right off the bat ask someone what their needs are and how to you envision yourself in this lifestyle relationship.
And I think you might find
Your way off..
I had 3 consecutive crash and burn relationships with older Dommes..
Why?
They want more of a boyfriend than a slave..like it is something you bring out of the closet when your bored on a Tuesday night..
I on the other hand function better in the relationship when all familiarity is removed from the equation..I can be your bf...
But I'm always beneath you in status..I'm a slave
Meaning I'm not here to out anyone..I don't need to grovel in public or put on an act.
I can be very on the down low.
But I'm certainly not " sub hub" that is Jimmy 24/7 and then becomes slave Julie at group events and at the local dungeon..
Rather I'm the guy that does actions expected of him ..like say kiss your feet when the Dominant enters a room or comes back home..
We both might enjoy femdom BUT have different needs...
Someone like myself may actually be draining for someone that isn't used to being in charge..
But with me..it's no act..I'm naturally submissive..it's how I act around people in authority,in charge.
I honestly think this should be the first question you ask of any lifestyle person...
1.What are your needs ( which is different than saying what your into...I can say that I luv x,y,z...but our shared luv of cbt isn't going to work if you want a closeted bf
In my case I need a top, a firm hand,a figure of authority..
2.And how do yourself see this relationship...
As a slave...a distinct seperation between us..say queen and serf
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Some new year gym tips
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Posted:Dec 27, 2023 5:00 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2023 5:39 pm 5608 Views
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It's that time of the year where tons of people contemplate going back to the gym..
But unlike most twinks on tiktok, I've been lifting for 20 some odd years..
So I thought I'd give some simple tips
1. Fancy gyms? Why waste your money? For 75 percent of the population a planet pizza sorta gym is more than equiped for your needs. Why pay 100s of dollars???
I not a paid spokesman for the company. Just expressing my thoughts..unless you can bench 3 plates..then your good.
2. Less is more...sure I'm saying don't live at the gym.
But what I really mean there comes a point where you can only get so big naturally..
I think it's better to be smaller,lighter so the muscle stands out better..
So I'm 216.lb.in my bulking/ fat stage...did nothing to get me bigger..well in the belly..
But I'm better looking dropping below 200lbs..
So if you want to be " big"...sometimes it's just a matter of prospective..then get smaller. Remember you looking for a certain look..your not there to be a bodybuilder
Dropping a few pounds can change your body image.
3. The gym can seem like a prison...esp at planet pizza where they only got like 4 smith machines and some chick is doing an hr long butt thrust day hogging it..
Like bro where can I bench if all the benches are being used?
But don't fret....let the fluff bunnies and lunk heads clog up the free weights..
Be smart and Hogg the cable machines...
On a simple cable machine you can do exercises for biceps,tris,lats,delts,back,pecs..
And you will get a better work out.
Fuck I did a standing row and it literally hit my lats better than the cable rowing station.
Cables are great because they give you constant tension as you work out.
4. Weight loss is a bitch...and the irony is it usually occurs on the kitchen table and not the gym. I can lift like a mfer for a hr and not drop any weight..
Lifting is for strength,size..it won't reduce that belly or ass.
Cardio is helpful but...
I think it just helps stoke the fire/your metabolism ..instead of really dropping the big time lbs.
I'm talking about the average Joe at planet pizza that hops on the tread mill for 30 min to an hr..
Instead consider what you eat and how much you eat..
By this I mean look up the GI scale of food on the internet
It will give you the natural break down of these foods in your system...the longer it takes,the more likely it is to be stored as fat.
It's the basis of ALOT of the fad diets of the 2000s
So there is no need to spend $$$ on specific keto this or that
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Best Christmas gift you ever got or gave
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Posted:Dec 25, 2023 8:08 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2023 5:48 pm 5806 Views
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If you've been reading along
You might know that I literally
Stopped wanting Christmas presents
When I was like 9 yrs old..
No cap..I was always very self aware as a .
By then
I was old enough to really grasp how poor
My family was. We grew up on welfare and didn't have a lot.
My dad was disabled from a fall at work
So it shaped my personality.
I became the guy that didn't need anything
I became literally the guy that doesn't splurge on myself..
I live a modest lifestyle. I'm a small house kinda guy..a self professed minimalist
The best gift I got?
Probably growing up poor and realizing Christmas wasn't about everyonelse on the block getting a lot of presents..
And me? Not so much. Which might have jaded some people with jealousy.
But not me.
At age 9 i realized Christmas is about family,love,spending time together..
At 55 that sorta hits me hard.. my family is long since past.
But don't cry for me.. I still see my dad every time I watch a Christmas carol..oh how he loved watching that story.
I fondly remember my mom making a billion sugar cookies and we got to put cake icing on top for decoration..
I'll never forget my big bro Tim. He died a horrible death to skin cancer
Best gift given?
You probably gonna think it's something silly..I used to work at toysrus..so it might be a cabbage patch doll? A furby? A tickle me Elmo?
Did I play Santa and give a some hard to get toy?
Nahh..
My childhood shaped me into who I am today..
You might see me as an insensitive prick..
But I'm also the guy that would take off a shirt,a coat if you were freezing.
Me? I'm tough..I don't mind being cold
All I care about is you being warm.
I became a giver..because my needs are few..
The best gift I ever gave?
My parents were poor..they drove a beater car,it had holes in the floorboard..,the local mechanic that hooked them up with cheap repairs to keep it going...sorta stopped
Twenty years ago I used 10,000 and bought them a car. I literally emptied my bank account ..
Bamn dropped 10 g like it was nothing..
did that make me a big shot?
Did that make me the man? Dropping that thick wad of cash?
Was I rich? Was I a professional? Did I drive a new car myself?
No..no..and
No
Did I ever have 10 grand in my bank account ever again?
Nope..
I gave cause
For once in my damn life
I could
I'm a giver..and i freely gave..didnt hestitate for one second
Money means little to me..
Cause I grew up poor.
And it was the greatest thing I have ever done..
Finally my parents could just breathe
and for once not worry about that damn old car..
Finally for once...they didn't have to be
Poor
It was my way of thanking them for all the did for me.
Some people become jaded over material things..
And it shifts and twist them into horrible people..
It becomes their whole focus in life..
Maybe then
It was better to grow up poor.
Remember my humble blog this Christmas
And hug your family
Realise what Christmas is really about..
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Mild to wild..just how extreme can the lifestyle get
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Posted:Dec 24, 2023 4:58 am
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2023 7:38 am 6090 Views
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Since this is a lifestyle website..
As people are prone to mention
I pondered what is really your lifestyle limits..
What is the your best bdsm story / experience or how extreme could you really go...providing ofcourse money wasnt a big deal or society actually was cool with public bdsm
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Easiest way to get a guy/ girl
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Posted:Dec 23, 2023 8:23 am
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2023 10:31 am 6191 Views
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The easiest way to get a guy??
Pay him attention..
The easiest way to get a woman?
Ignore her..
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Fixing chad by fixing you..ladies..
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Posted:Dec 23, 2023 7:09 am
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2023 7:30 am 6356 Views
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First the world works in patterns.
You don't have to be an apple
Genius
To see them..
You just need to open your eyes..
A blogger asked is it normal to be drawn to the dark side of men.
So I thought I
Your humble narrator
Would give women the
Ultimate Christmas present..
Advice
You are drawn to the dark side/ the bad boy/ the alpha male..
Cause..
He doesn't need you.
He's not " damaged",he doesn't need to be fixed.
He's just not ready to be "boy slotted"(@ i need to copyright that term)
1.status
Women on the other hand operate in a group dynamic..in 2 or 3..friends...in a bigger less intimate group of women.
Much like someone that grew up in a large family..
Your all equal..but you want to stand out. You want attention.
You want something your siblings cant have. You want to stand out
It's almost like this insane contest to see who can get the biggest and brightest.
Maybe that is why you fast track the need for a relationship or commitment..your afraid all the " big screen tvs will be gone on black Friday "
So in essence ladies you can easily pull guys,you can easily have sex..
That's why it's not a priority.
You don't need men for " sex"... you need them for status...you need that accesory..that ken
So you level up and try to get the 10 percent, the guys every woman wants..
Don't believe me..look at the stats from a site like tinder. All the women only want that 10 percent of men on these dating sites
2. Gamer girl
And to be fair...chad doesn't even need to be a stud..
Women ( no offense) will always social climb or ( glom...my term @ copyrighted..lol)..
Onto say the top gamer,best player.
Being with him immediately raises her status in any group setting and puts the focus on her.
She doesn't even have to be a gamer or play well herself.. Brittney mcholmes is famous for??? Marrying Patrick...now even more famous for befriending Taylor swift etc
And yes the bro ...even a top nerd gamer..will cheat on you
Because..like you...he can pull any woman..sex is easy..sex isn't his main focus..
And you don't bring him any status points..
3. Chad
Women assume he is emotional broken because he doesn't want a commitment..this top 10 percent won't seal the deal so you can lock it down.
Hell chad is not only above you..he plays the girl game to his advantage..he plays it better than you
Why should he commit when he can have any woman..
And like you...doesn't he have the right to be picky,why should he settle? Why can't he go after the top 10 percent of women?
So hold up...I thought you said women want love,attention,commitment..
If chad is playing games then why don't women just date a man that can give her these things.???
Cause..like sex..they can easily get that from any dude..
Deep down I'm starting to think women don't want love..
And just want status.
I mean why settle for a shek when you can have all that in a king.
4. Disney princess
Sidebar..I think it odd AF that every Disney like story starts off with some woman not wanting to marry some fat old troll and be their queen..
Cause... please...she wants " true love"..
Really? Hell I'd sleep with the ugly ass troll and polish his knob daily if it meant I was now royality..
But notice how the female character is already royality...like Jasmine
Like bitch...how do you think you got that priveledge..
You mom slept with some ugly assed troll..
And I'm not bashing women for this behavior..
But it is a repeated cycle of behaviour
Please understand the reason for your actions and the predictable results..
Wash,rinse,repeat..
You all want that sparkly vampire
And is it love..is it commitment you really want..
Or is it the pull..
Cause that would explain why grown ass women be either posting on social ,media every detail of how perfect their life is ( aka..the b arbie world syndrome@ copyrighted)
Or their jumping on tiktok in tears showing taking the L/ loss..
Let that sink in...at 28,38,48...why are you wondering where are the good men at/ or why nobody will Commit to me..
Cause you think you not only need it
You DESERVE that
...What?
Love?
No..that status..
Your chasing what you can't pull..
And in the end
Sorry to ruin the fairy tale
But chad/ your Prince isn't marrying cinderella..
He is marrying that 10.
And while that might piss you off..
Aren't you doing the same thing to the nice guys..
Swiping based on stupid stats like his height
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I ponder about modern men
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Posted:Dec 22, 2023 8:01 pm
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2023 7:38 am 5845 Views
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What good is strength?
If you never use it?
Your big,you bench x amount of weight..you take various types of steroids
Your business revolves on being big and then " selling" that image..hocking products,merch or advice
You sit on your ass on a computer 8 hrs a day..
Have you ever turned a wrench? Have you carried 50lb bags of salt?
Have you loaded a ton of garbage into a u haul..
This is my " vacation"... car repair,dumping shit that the city refused to take,
Carrying heavy ass shit into the house..
I'm sore,I'm tired..im mad as fuck..
but in the end
I win.
You may be bigger..
But I gotta job to do
So go inside while I break these rusted nuts.
Modern men...too busy on tiktok trying to look pretty with their 6 packs..
Me: greasy, sweaty,coated in brake dust, my back
Sore..my muscles ache.
I'm old wolverine..
They? :Worry about camera angles,lighting to look their most jacked.
Me :being strong
Cause
I have to be..
I worry about modern men
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