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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

June 1st
Posted:Jun 1, 2009 11:42 am
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2016 9:36 pm
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Haven't updated for awhile. Sorry, been remiss in this area. After a couple of weeks of release, he is back in denial, day 12 so far. We went to a play party at a public dungeon Saturday night, which really added to the torment of not being able to cum.

I have made him go down on me, of course, but because of different reasons, he hasn't had much strap-on play this time. So he hasn't even had that pleasure! But oh, man, you should see his ass and back after the whips and canes from the play party!!! Here it is, two days later, and if anything, they're brighter than before ?*




He is begging and begging to cum, or for me to at least tell him when I will let him cum again, but my lips are sealed ! (for blow jobs too). He'll just have to wait to see what happens.

Talk to you soon,

Ms Jay
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April 13
Posted:May 13, 2009 8:21 pm
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2015 10:14 am
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Well, haven't posted for awhile. Let me update you. Didn't let him cum until two days after he returned. I did fuck him in the ass quite often while he was being denied.

Since I released him however, I've let him cum many times, releasing all that build-up. Any day now I am going to cut him off again and he has no idea when it will be or for how long.
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Home from trip
Posted:May 6, 2009 8:33 pm
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2015 10:13 am
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Well, my sub will be home from his trip shortly, and will be expecting to cum. He thinks since I didn't let him cum beforehand, I will let him cum immediately upon his return. Little does he know, I have decided not to let him cum yet. And he won't know until he reads this. I will send him in here to check the posts, and he will read the decision online. What a way to find out, right?!!

Better go, don't want him to find me in here online.

Talk to you soon.

Ms. Jay
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Sub leaves for trip
Posted:May 4, 2009 11:01 am
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2021 4:06 pm
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Monday, May 4, 2009

Well, my sub leaves in a couple of hours for his business trip, and as I said he has not had a release.

We had a wonderful webcam session last night with another femdom couple. The two of us were in tight black corsets, stockings and heels, with big strap-ons. Of course, our two subs wore nothing but their chastity devices.

They sucked our cocks before getting fucked by them, then sucked them again after. It was a wonderful hour, changing positions at least three times. We had a blast, at least the two Dommes did, lol. It was such a turn-on watching another couple doing the same thing we were doing at the same time.

After we signed off with them, I took the strap-on off, and he went down on me for a while until I came.

He has been begging me for release, but is pretty much resigned now to the fact that it won't be until he gets back. The question is: how long after he gets back????

Talk to you soon

Ms Jay
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Vote for his release!
Posted:May 1, 2009 12:28 pm
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2015 10:06 am
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My sub/hubby will be going on a three day business trip. Today is day 12 of denial for him. Which means when he gets home it will be day 17 with no orgasm.

I had already decided when he would get his next release but want to hear from you. Should he cum or not? Can you sway my decision? Let me know.
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April 29, 2009
Posted:Apr 29, 2009 4:29 pm
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2016 7:14 pm
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Hello again. Just thought I'd update you on what's been happening. It has been ten days since my hubby has last had a release, and he is going crazy.

Last night I tied him spread-eagle and played with him quite a bit before letting him go to sleep. Somewhere around one-thirty I changed the tie so he had his hands above his head and his feet slightly separated tied to the footboard.

This morning before I untied him I teased him for, oh, around ten to fifteen minutes. Played with his nipples with my fingers and mouth, then would slowly work my way down to his penis, then just barely brush over it almost but not quite touching it, then start over with the nipples. After I had driven him crazy with that, I took my negligee off and rubbed my nipples all over his body, pulling away just as I got close to his mouth. Then I pulled my panties to the side, and climbed on top of him. I slowly lowered myself down on him and took just the tip of his penis in me, then pulled out. Did that a couple of times, then stopped and climbed up on his face and smothered him.

It was a good morning, for me at least. lol

Until next time.
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Teasing & Denial
Posted:Apr 26, 2009 7:38 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2022 8:01 am
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Created this blog to share with others my adventures with my sub with regards to teasing and denial. We do many other things, but that is for a different time.

he is kept in denial the majority of the time; sometimes by physical chastity devices such as the cb2000 or cb3000, or sometimes just by trust (and bondage at night, yes, almost every night!)

he is allowed to cum only when I decide it is time; and that can range anywhere from 4 days to 3 months, and the best part is, he never knows from one day to the next when his next cum will be.

The whole time he is in denial I tease him constantly. As I said, he is tied nightly, most nights in a spread eagle, as that is the most comfortable for me. I am a light sleeper, so I wake two to three times a night to tease him just until he is awake, hard, and begging to cum; then I roll over and go back to sleep. In the morning before I release him, I do the same. Sometimes I even climb on top and lower myself down on him and go up and down a few times just to drive him crazy, then get off and climb on his face and let him finish the job on me. Then I untie him and off to the shower he goes for a nice, cold shower! That's all for today. Post again soon.
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