The BIG EASY!
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Posted:Aug 25, 2008 11:01 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2008 10:07 am 24445 Views
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Todays blog will be short sweet and to the point.
1. When I wrote my first blog I was taken to task by a fellow blog. It was said in her blog I was whinney and as pointed out in a comment it was my fault that I was having to deal with the faults in the system.
2. She then went on to rant about this in her blog. She also went on to in a later blog to title it gloves are off. In this there was no effort to prove ones point.
3. Then just recently declared herself the winner but yet has not shown that I am wrong. She only does this by just telling all that she won.
4. Then in a recent blog she goes on a rant and proves my point. This is suppose to becoming from and educated woman. In this blog she rants about the fact this person IM's her. She talks and then gets rid of him. Now this is the fun part. He IM's her back and she responds. then goes on to whine about it. But yet it gets better. He IM's and she answers again. Once again she goes on to whine about it.
5. I did in my first blog rant about the troubles I saw with some of the people and the way things can go on this site. The one thing I will admit. If I do IM a woman and she does not respond, or if I email her and does not then I move on. If I get an IM and chat and it does not go well I am done. I do not keep answering them.
6. The one thing I hate is stupid and people like her prove that stupid is around and will never go away.
7. Keep your head up and keep moving forward.
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Big pussy
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Posted:Aug 23, 2008 5:16 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 5:43 am 24191 Views
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I find it interesting that people say that something is over just because they say so. In life it does not work that way. I also like that in todays would there are still people out there that thing a debate is where one person like me will make points and some examples and the other person say your so wrong and never provides any examples or proof of this. They just believe that because they say it they are corrert. I hate to break the news to them but it does not work that why.
It also is annoying when a person belittles others for something. For example a person looking up the definition of a word to make sure you get it right when trying to prove a point. Then that person on a regular basis uses a book of quotes to try and prove that they are educated and better.
So the game is not over until it is done. Just like the game of cat and mouse. If the big pussy gets bored and walks away saying I have won. Does that cat really win. I do not think so and at best both win. If you ask the cat what it was fighting for it would say the fun of it. If you asked the mouse it would say its life. If you ask the cat who won it would say I did because I had my fun and quit. Ask the mouse who won and he would say he did because he had his life and the cat ran away.
Now it is time to go. I am sorry for not having posted the past two days but was out of town and did not have access to a computer. Just remember to keep your head up and keep on moving forward.
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It is a first.
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Posted:Aug 20, 2008 7:54 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 5:43 am 24462 Views
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I think that today is a first. It is the first day that I can remember that I did not have some kind of thought or thoughts running through my mine wanting to get out.
Finding something to rant about or just to talk about. But I will try to find something. So here it goes.
Last night I was talking with a woman that is new to this lifestyle. Like a lot of new people they are very excited but at the sametime unsure and even a little scared.
We talk about a lot of different topics but in the end she alway brought the conversation back to these couple of things. One that she was very scare to let herself go. She wants a Dom, no she needs a Dom to help guide her and give her that push or even a good swift kick in the ass to get her to experience life.
As we kept chatting I told her that once she found the Dom that she felt she could work with. As her traing moved forward she would begin to build a trust in her Dom which would in turn start to lessen the fear.
That was easy but then she would bring up the fact that she was a mature woman and also on the large size. I do not know how others feel, but I personaly think that as a DOM it should not matter the size but if the Sub is interested and willing and you think you can work with them why not.
To many of us are out for eye candy when looking for a SLUT. We tend to forget that they desire and need to be a SLUT as much as we desire and need a SLUT.
To have that chance to train and mold a person into what they not only want to be but in most cases need to be is what makes us who we are and we are. We are the people that can with our talent pass on not only the future of this lifestyle but enlighten the world.
It is not only up to us to judge but to be judged. We as the keeper of this realm need to understand that our knowledge is what our Subs, Sluts, Slave, etc. are in need of. Because of that knowledge we should be willing to share it.
I do understand that we all have our likes and dislikes but we also have our own faults. Mine is that I have a tuna can for a cock. I can not go deep but can stretch the hell out of the sides. It is up to us to understand not only others faults but our own.
I would like to say thank to jadedgypse for her blog because without her open and honest opinion and calling me out in her blog as a whinny person just here for all the wrong reasons I would not do this on a daily basis. So read her blog too.
Someday I hope to meet her and either have a debate or a no holds barred naked wrestling match that will not only be fun for us but make us rich because it would be pay for view at 49.95. It would be worth every penny.
Please keep your head up and alway keep moving forward.
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Jadedgypsy
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Posted:Aug 19, 2008 10:39 am
Last Updated:Aug 23, 2011 6:42 pm 24909 Views
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I am here to express my thoughts and observations and only that. They are thought to get conversations started. I welcome all to read as well as comment.
Jaded Gypsy did leave not only a comment, but then went on a rant to degrade me. She was talking about me whinning and not excepting responsiblity for my own faults.
That is fine and she has that right. I would like to point out that one should not cast the first stone, lest he without sin. What that means is that do not point to others if you are as they.
The first line of Jaded Gyspsy's profile is just that. The name speaks for its self, JADED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Jaded for those that do not know means "fatigued, Exhausted,dulled by surfeit or excess." That mean upset. This is proven by the second line of her profile, and to use her words where she whines. These are "I am going to preface this by saying if you are married" which is telling the reader that she is tired and upset about all the men who are all of those things to leave her alone.
My point is she whinning. She is doing the samething that I did but I was honest about it. I admitted it upset me and I also was honest in listing my limitations. To take responsiblity for ones self as Jaded Gypsy likes to say is to admit not only other peoples fault which she is good at. But to admit our own and to point them out as well. If as they say we can not make fun of ourselfs then who can we make fun of.
I am not JADED I am optimistic. I admit that I am wrong and if you have read my blog I admit that Jaded Gypsy pointed out mistakes in my very first blog. I also would like to say that she was the first to read it and respond and for that I thank her, to me she is a special women. She also was the first to welcome me into the life of blogging and again I thank her.
I think that when reading a blog remember that it is thoughts and opinions not fact. It is something that should move you to think and discuss not argue and get mad. It should work to make things better and not divide. Emotions are strong but we need to remember not to react to them but to understand them and why we feel that why. It is only with that understanding that we can grow and become better people. THAT MEANS ME TOO!!!!!! Keep your head up and keep moving forward.
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Learning!!!!!!!
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Posted:Aug 18, 2008 8:40 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 5:43 am 24328 Views
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I woke this morning to a new day. It was the first time in awhile that I opened my house for my and I to sleep in the comfort of fresh air. That is not the point to my babblings but the fact that it was the night before my childrens first day of the new school year.
This caused me to think about my grandmother. She was a very important and very special woman in my life. She is other than my father the most important person that made me who I am.
The point of this is she had bothers and sisters and they all became doctors, lawyers, judges, and teachers, but she did not. Yet in spite all of that she was the most intelligent person that I have had the chance to meet. The next is a very dear and close friend that is not near but is thought of everyday. He is as I call him my dear friend Crazy Jeff.
Both of these people thought me one thing. The thing that they thought me is the most important thing that we all can learn. That is that we should always try to learn something new everyday. They both taught that knowledge is free, and despite most of your believes it is. Both my grandma and Crazy Jeff pointed out the most important thing that most overlook. That is the Library. We have access to them and we can get all the information that we need and want for free frem them.
So on a day like today with schools starting back up it is important for us as adults to teach our the importance of knowledge. I plan to learn something new today what it is I am not sure but please all that read this take the time to let me know what you did learn and why you wanted to learn about that.
I will inform all as to what I learned tomorrow. Like I always say please keep your head up and always keep moving forward. You are my friends but do not look for me on your friend list because that is a joke just as I pointed out is the testimonials.
Thank you for your time and have a great day.
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Good Morning
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Posted:Aug 17, 2008 5:44 am
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2008 3:05 pm 24791 Views
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I woke up this morning just as the sun was starting to rise from the horizan. I preformed my morning rituals of making coffee and taking care of my personal hygene. As I completed all those tasks and sat to have my first cup of coffee I realized that today was going to be different. I had a since of calm come over me. So it is because of that emotion that I have decided today that I would not try to point out one of the many flaws of this site, some of its members, or the world in general but to enjoy the fact that we have this site, its members, and life.
As I sit here typing away I realize just how lucky I am. I have two great that yes live with me and I am proud of both. I have a roof over me head that is mine. I know it is not much but at least it is mine. I have a job. It is not the greatest but it does pay my bills. Tomorrow starts a new school year so today will be a time for being with my . We will do all the things that must get done but I will take time to enjoy something that they would like to do as well.
I also think that I will spend a little time today in search of a new SUB/SLUT. I have one that I will be interveiwing later this week. I hope that it work out but I need to be ready in case it does not. This means that I will get to enjoy this site and some of the members which is alway a good thing. Even if it does get me worked up sometimes.
Well I need to get my day started. So I will say I hope everybody that reads this has a good day. Also remember to every now and then just take some time out to enjoy the little things in life and relect on just how lucky we are. Keep your heads up and keep moving forward. Thank you for taking time out of your day to read this.happym;
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My Rant
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Posted:Aug 16, 2008 9:46 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 5:43 am 24243 Views
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I have the desire to promote this lifestyle. I have found that there are many that are here for only one thing and I think that those of us that are into the lifestyle know what that is. YES that is CORRECT it is SEX. I admit that SEX is a part of this lifestyle but it is not the all incompassing reason why we are here.
I think that we as a community should promote as well as police ourselves. I know that this is not a concept that is pleasing to most. As the saying goes one bad apple can spoil the bunch. I have had the chance to interview a Sub/Slut that had this happen to her and because of it we have lost a person that wanted to become a member of our community.
It is up to us to make it a better place and to make sure that those that are interested have a place to go and learn. It is with knowledge that we can build upon our community. If we do not then we stand the chance of losing it.
As a Community it is up to us to promote it and if we can not then it will die. So as people become open to and interested in we should embrass them and guild them. Not to take advantage of them. If we do know of a person that is doing this we should out them so as to make it clear that we do not take this behavior lighly.
So it is up to us to take our lifes in our hand and make it a place that anybody interested can come learn and if they choose they can enjoy.
Once again I thank one and all for their time and let us all make this a great place. Hug, kisses, whips, and spanks.
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Honesty is the best policy!
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Posted:Aug 15, 2008 6:29 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 5:43 am 24246 Views
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I am back for day two of my ranking. As it was pointed out to me yesterday life is not easy and we do have to work at things. Sometime it does take more work than we want, and know and understand that but it still is frustrating to have to deal with stupity.
Now todays topic of my rant. I have had the pleasure of meeting many people thanks to this site but the one thing I have noticed there are alot of people both men and women that can not be honest with themselves. Sometimes it is not helped with the choices we are given.
This problem come into play most of the time when it comes to body size. If you are 5'8" and are over 300 lbs you do not have a few extra pounds, you are ample. I am about 6'5" and 250 lbs I am listed as a few extra pound. I looked in the mirror and can see I am between average and a few extra but the point is I was honest with myself.
It would be nice if the choices were a little more detail or you could give you weight but it is not. So if you are trying to decide just be honest with yourself. Even better when you are filling out the info about yourself put in your height and weight. I would suggest that a picture would be easy to but like myself some of us need to be careful so we can not post pictures for everybody to see.
The other place where this is a problem is all the people use the terms Hot or Sexy. This I understand beauty is in the eye of the beholder but let us be honest. I look in the mirrow and the first words out of my mouth are not Hot or Sexy but damn you need some help.
I figure that it is easy to decide. When you are out in public do you have people staring at you. If you do it could be for a couple of reasons. One is you are Hot & Sexy. If this is the case they will also be some whistles or comments about just how Hot or Sexy you are. You will also get asked out or for your phone # alot.
If you are in public and people are staring and you are not getting whistled at or people are not commenting on how Hot or Sexy you are then you are not. There could be several reason for this but it is not because your are Hot or Sexy. So please do not use those in your title.
My point is that most of us are here for the same reason. Lets try to use a little command sense and be honest with ourselves as well as each other. Thank you for taking the time to read this and have a great day.
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My first few thoughts
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Posted:Aug 14, 2008 10:41 am
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2008 3:40 pm 24628 Views
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I have been on this site of a couple of years. I do have to admit that I have learned a lot and have tried to share not only what I have learned from here but what I have learned from life as well as other places.
I have been lucky and meet a few people that have not only helped me to learn but have remained friends. I have also met those that are only here for amusement and not to learn and practice this as a lifestyle. By doing this it makes it harder for those of us that do want learn, teach, and practice this lifestyle. It means that we have to filter out those who are posers and not practicers. Which means it is harder for us to find what we are looking for.
The next thing I would like to shout out about is testimonials. I find it very upsetting that people use this area of a persons profile to write a note on how to get a hold of them or to say how much they would love to be with the person. A testimonial should be a person writing about having experience with that person. Whether it be from chatting, talking on the phone, or being with each other in person. These should be both good and bad but not use for hurt a persons rep or spite.
The last thing that is upsetting is Owner/Master DOM/DOMME using their Sub/Slave to try to get more. If you are a true Owner/Master Dom/Domme you should do this on your own. Yes I know it is an act of trying to prove that they are worthy but it is also making it hard on those others that are looking. If they are owned that is great and they should be proud and announce that to the world so that the others do not try to take what is yours from you. But you should be able to find your own and not have to use the misleading profiles to get what you can not get on your own.
I would like to thank all that will take the time to read this. I hope that this will give people food for thought help us all make this site a better place. I do well come any and all comments. I hope you have a great day and let us all work together to make this a better place.
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