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Swine & Pearls exist even here

She walks in starlight in another world.

Crackpot jackpot
Posted:Nov 12, 2019 11:28 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2023 3:53 pm
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Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.
-Marcus Tullius Cicero
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A smile, a song, a flake
Posted:Nov 11, 2019 10:56 pm
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2019 1:35 am
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“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.”
― Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Machinations of a lazy cheat
Posted:Nov 10, 2019 9:37 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2023 9:54 pm
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Gratitude is when memory is stored in the heart and not in the mind.
-Lionel Hampton
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A verse on VS
Posted:Nov 9, 2019 10:48 pm
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2019 11:16 pm
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“The people you should get even with are those have helped you.”
― John Southard
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One step below, smarts
Posted:Nov 8, 2019 8:47 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2023 3:52 pm
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“Intelligence is what we learn.
Wisdom is what we unlearn.”
― J.R. Rim

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Mindless gratitude
Posted:Nov 6, 2019 11:11 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2023 3:52 pm
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Its been a long day. Not a hard or a bad , just a long . Usually the fall time change isn't hard adapt , but Ive been getting up at least an hour and a half earlier than normal all week and I think it is finally catching up with .

While I can string 2 sentences together, that's about the extent of abilities right now so tonight I am grateful for a day done well, a bedtime before 4 am and nice comfy bedding for some much needed sleep.

Gratitude is a duty which ought be , but which none have a right expect. ~Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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Gratful Pole to Poll
Posted:Nov 5, 2019 10:02 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2019 10:14 pm
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a guy who has problems with moderation. All or nothing. Binge and purge. or be killed. Gray is not a color I wear well. I should be dead. I know that. I should not be successful. I know that too. My daily existence is a toss of the coin - one side, fear, the other side, gratitude.
-Kurt Sutter

I am grateful for freedom. Yours, mine, the strides humanity has made and the leaps we still have to take.

I am especially grateful to live where and when I do. I am not by nature a person who does "middle ground" well. That would work if I was the only person on the planet but I am not, I have to for the in-between because everyone else's ways and visions were forged by their nature and experiences and if we don't at least try to see other views we become blind.

I admit that I like the different sides that rule who I am. Part , part old bat even though for most of my 49 years I've been somewhere in between.

No one can ever take away my right or need to cry my ass off during Little Shop of Horrors "Suddenly Seymour"

No one can ever take away my right or need to laugh my ass off over the fact that every time I sneeze I like Popeye.

Free to be . I like it.

Freedom to feel, freedom to choose, freedom to express and freedom to abstain: they are all mine, every minute of every .

Feel FREE to join , as often as necessary, in being grateful to be....
Good or bad
Thrillingly kinky or comfortably cozy
Dark or light
Positive or negative
Prudent or risky
Outgoing or reserved
Helpful or selfish
Quiet or verbose
Thoughtful or impulsive
Feel free to be.......thee
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She's totally BOSS
Posted:Nov 4, 2019 11:30 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2019 11:07 pm
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I hate my job.

Not what I do, but where I work is...............a test of fortitude and will every . It's not the customers, which would make sense, It's the ridiculous expectations of the company itself. Big business has HUGE expectations from us little guys that are the faces and whipping boys of the biz.

That being said, MY BOSS FUCKING ROCKS!

Like most centers, phone agents get surveys sent to customers asking how we did. Yesterday I had a person give me a big fat zero. T.he bosses have to pull and listen to any calls that a customer as less than amazing and then pull us in to 'coach' us on how to do better.

Today my boss calls in, sits down and says

"The lady was nuts. YOU were perfect and couldn't have done anything better or different than what you did, just like you usually do. tempted to her back to see what and why she rated you like that for a 3 minute where you did what she asked immediately, happily and even had her glowing because you told her how she helped someone else."

That's the downside of customer . Even happy people push random buttons instead of just saying 'no'.

I was touched that she was THAT offended on my behalf that she wanted to confront this person (professionally of course). She also invented a hashtag for cuz she thinks my way is something for teammates to aspire to. In between blushing I was just cracking up. Not me. Nope. I do my job to help those who have the same need for help I have.

It's just really nice to have someone in your corner in a place where most are for themselves and data overrules demeanor and people skills.

Good bosses DO exist and for that I am very grateful!!!

“There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.”
― John Holmes
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Time warp and black hole gratitude
Posted:Nov 3, 2019 9:21 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2023 9:54 pm
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When ALT was having a hissy fit a while back, entire "Watched Blogs" list got scrubbed. I havent gotten around redoing it and am not sure I will as Ive redone it so many times before and I generally do visit the few folks when I log in so its almost pointless.

I just noticed on home page that though I have no watched blog list I do have a section that says FAVORITE BLOGS.

The problem is that none of these undisputed favorite blogs of mine(with quick links attached) have been active profiles or blogs for several years. like 5+ years for most

I just started cracking up in sheer nostalgic amused gratitude. They may not be there, but they are far from forgotten

Honestly, if I knew how do a seance I'd resurrect every of em. Not that several havent been reborn, but in heart and mind (and alts software apparently) I am still stuck in 20 blogland.
The Mayan end of days calendar just kicks forward 2019 just mess with me.

bloggers past: With gratitude.....



Non nobis solum nati sumus
(Not for ourselves alone are we born)
― Marcus Tullius Cicero
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Now is a splinter of her Miss Content
Posted:Nov 2, 2019 7:16 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2023 3:51 pm
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Its fucked up.

Usually I enjoy being grateful for all I have. I don't have to think about it or work to acknowledge it, it just usually...is.

Not so the past few years. Not because Im happy or unhappy. I lack for nothing. I have most needs and many wants met in full.

I like the month of November because it usually makes me focus on gratitude and thankfulness daily instead of as it comes to me situationally. Consciously anyway. Maybe I just feel guilty because I don't pay attention like I used to.

Call it hormones or human nature or just a curve in the cyclical ride we call life, but honestly MEH isnt a good place to live.

Im kicking my own ass to make me be more me. Not that Ive forgotten, but its so damn easy to just sink into discontented complacency.

Can there be such a thing as silent gratitude? Sure but....not really. It isn't even lip service, it's slipshod service.

I thought about how much I need to step up and put in actions not just words or even worse....thoughts. I considered facebook where my family and friends would join in, but honestly....Im not sure I can come up with a gratitude a day and then it struck me.....

Why do FB when I can use ALT the place I also neglect on a daily(weekly, ok monthly) basis. If I'm gonna suck it up and step it up and prove to myself that I can stand up and embrace what I always took for granted before menopausapathy kicked in, it makes more sense to me to do it at a place that I also struggle to visit and appreciate.

Its flawed, somewhat outdated and far from ideal, just like me but l have found care and hope and sexysilliality and friends and craziness and tears and heart and knowledge and laughter and for that I am truly grateful!

In other(better) words

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.

John F. Kennedy
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