Continue that scenario she said
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Posted:Jan 26, 2024 7:56 pm
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2024 10:25 am 5627 Views
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And I thought about it for a flash of a second.
But then ten minutes later changed the tone of the Domme..
To only then switch gears again and took a different approach..
Writing literally
Should be giving the audience what they desire..
Meanwhile giving them
What they truly need..
In this case the Domme went from 40yr old horny
To elderly and strict
To someone just marveling over control..
And in the end..
I gave them what they need.
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The new way scammers operate on fet
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Posted:Jan 20, 2024 8:39 am
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2024 12:08 pm 6258 Views
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Just something I noticed..
If your someone that either posts pics ( your personal ones or otherwise)..on fet
Or someone that likes others pics..
You will find scammers trying to gloom onto your junk by commenting liking your stuff..( pics,writing,comments)..
And it's sooo odd
Maybe they think it's an " in" way to get you to reply to them
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Can you be happy with just parts of bdsm and not the full kit
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Posted:Jan 20, 2024 8:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2024 1:02 pm 7620 Views
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I talked previously about this...with the example of males that just spank...period..lol
But I wondered about this " ex"..
And like most dudes I was thinking whole picture.
I wanted the whole bdsm scene.
Where as she..was sorta finding her way as a Domme.
And I've come to the conclusion. I could be with a Dominant person if they had only say 3 bdsm interest.. period.
In the case of the ex..( in case your wondering)..
And these aren't my choices...these choices are ones that would work best for us/ are reflected in the fet groups she now belongs to..
She is 68yrs old..not interested in traditional sex...or penetration..
I previously brought up the notion of chastity with her
(.she now list a chastity,tease and denial group she joined on fet.)
1. I don't top,she has no need for a penis. She's tired of pushy males showing dick pics or wanting sex 24/7 on bdsm sites
It seemed the easiest way to remove it from the relationship equation was long term male chastity.
Out of sight..out of mind...no need for it until she wants it..
And then still no need to provide him/ owe him sex
..just hours of slow torture and edging him closer and closer. With no orgasm allowed for the slave.
He grows soft and it's locked back back in its tiny cage once again.
Taking sex from the slave may not be on every males bdsm wishlist. But it is perfect in this situation.
I introduced the concept..I actual bought a cock cage and showed her how it worked..
But I also think it freaked her out a lil...and she wondered if there was any long term effects. She being new to being a Domme mind you
Ironically most dudes " goon" over the thought of wearing a cage...they will push the concept on their partner..and when finally locked in one..
They balk to be let out..they whine and pout.
I'm sorta different. I'm probably the ideal male for this type of play. I don't top, I'm not big...thank God..cause it honestly allows me to not only wear a cage long term comfortably. But also allows me to wear what is called a microcage...which prevents erections,keeps the cock in its natural small flaccid state.
yeah..lol.I think a male's cock kept small like that is sexy AF...so cute😁.
And is discrete AF..can't even tell I have one on,can wear it for long periods of time,forget I'm even wearing one.
And for me..yes everything they tell you about cock cages is true...you do stop looking at other women, you do become more focused on the Dominant..
You stop focusing on your needs/ pleasures. You start finding pleasure in making her happy..
In case your curious..yes it is very doable to simply deny him masturbating,getting his orgasms.
When he is caged..yeah nature will take over and he'll have wet dreams..
Or a Dominant can give the slave a release without an orgasm ( technique called a ruined orgasm). The release of spunk and an orgasm are two seperate functions.
Or she can insert fingers into the slaves ass and prostate milk him.
Which means there is no orgasm,there doesn't even have to have an erect cock.
It is an easy,effective and fun way to get cum to literally drool out of that small limp slave dick
2. She doesn't want penetration but ideally wants an oral slave..someone to give her orgasms.
And she shyly inched her way towards this ideal a few times.
Once again..I like guys..but am also one hell of a pussy eater. So not a problem..I could do it for a living..if that was possible..lol.
I talked about chastity and him kept horny/ denied orgasms..
So if he can't fuck..can cum..wont he find another GF/ Domme etc.
No not really..it's like a guy with E.D. if he can't use his dick he gets real good with his tounge...real quick..
And pours his energy into..what amounts to tounge fucking her.
His ego no longer revolves around sex,his need to get laid or his penis..
His goal now is wrapped around making the wife, gf,his owner cum hard AF,cum multiple times,wear her out sexually.
Her orgasm is now his orgasm...he mentally gets off getting her physical/ sexually off..
After a lil while in his cage..he will no longer care about his orgasm.
This is more stimulating...a proper use for a slave.
3. She listed a spanking group currently on her fet page..
And I know pain was never her thing...but I'm cool if that was something she wished to really explore..
3.2..but if I had a say in these 3..
I could literally give up anal,pain,cbt,shocking devices being a etc..
In place of...now this may sound weird...
But feet...and I don't even have a foot fetish..
But there is something so right with a Dominant standing/ siting..
And a male on the floor worshiping their boot,shoe,high heels,feet.
It instantly denotes to everyone their status,their place and whose in charge.
I have a thing for a Dominant being naturally superior and a slave inferior...and feet sorta really plays into it..lol
I think if I could wear a cock cage,become her oral slave and worship her body,her feet as a sign of my slavehood..
Then I believe I could leave the rest behind...
No strap ons,no mittens,no whips,..oh my...
How about you???
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Does " bdsm" need to be shattered in order to grow..become " the norm"?
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Posted:Jan 19, 2024 4:48 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2024 6:47 am 6438 Views
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I really want some big brain input on this one..
Cause I see a hella lot of this going on in the gay community..
People aren't " dabbling ".. rather they are taking certain portions of the over all bdsm " lifestyle"..
And making it work for them.
Like say bondage and edging a dick..
AND HUH? That is all he wants??.,that is what his interest in..
The rest of bdsm is useless..
Now back in the day we'd laugh
Call these people " domestic discipliners"..
Or just wannabees..
But these same people are normalizing your kink..
I see the same thing in the m2m spanking communities ..
Your sexual orientation doesn't matter..sex doesn't matter..dudes just be getting off on spanking period..
So does bdsm as a whole..
Matter??
And I think this notion of " bdsm" will soon carry over..
And people will be piece mealing it out.
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Boomerrangs: do you let exes back into your life
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Posted:Jan 19, 2024 5:01 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2024 6:46 am 6458 Views
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Here is a problem we all faced..
Do you let exes...Doms,subs,gf,bf...back into your life..
Even as friends..
I post this because I got an odd alert on fet..
I rarely go on there...but I do have numerous pics that I liked or commented on in the past..
Anyway I got a friend's request from this person..
Not the original name I knew her on fet..
A new one..
No pic..
But the age and location were accurate....it was the same sorta bio
Now it could be a scammer...but omg talk about working your ass off if it was..
There are easier ways to scam someone.. I doubt you'd come at me as a 68 yr old local Domme with no boobs pic.
So I have to assume it really is her.
There was no note...
Just a friend's request...
And a" like "to a drawing of a male slave tied naked to a bed spread eagle..with an erect cock.
In the past year I literally told someone/ a former vanilla friend.. I knew in my past that I didn't want to be friends with her again...it actually got a lil creepy/ her stocking me..
So I'm used to saying no and just cutting off people..
And yes it's hard for an audience to not only judge this Domme and my past with her..
But give me advice on how to proceed
I'm not saying I'm perfect and I had nothing to do with our breakup.
But I also know I'm fun,,I'm not chopped liver..
And yes it's sorta hard to find a good male slave as Dommes age..
In her case..she doesn't want the D..is sensual..
And that pic of that tied up male..
Probably is something she longs for..
But has no real access to..
Unless she reaches out...to her past..
Your thoughts..
I'll try to tell you more about her tonight
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Pipes burst.
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Posted:Jan 17, 2024 7:14 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2024 7:15 pm 4870 Views
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So yeah..
Maybe you didn't realise your boy was such a trend setter ..
50 something..no ..
No 401 k
No retirement plan
Roommates..4 cars in a driveway and only 1 belongs to me
Welcome to the new America..thank God for " bideneconomics"
I had a pipe burst in my house today..
Paid a plumber 300 bucks to fix it..
And he did us a favor..leapfrogged us.. cause my roommate is disabled.
Most plumbing companies said it would be a week before they could come over,
My roomie literally no longer has feet due to his diabetes..
His basement room got soaked and his bathroom now needs to be gutted.
Fun times..
Yeah it's been a bitch week that broke me..minus 20 below windchill and i worked out in it
I literally just wanted it to end..
And if I was
By myself..
I might have just ended it..
Being real...the worst week of my life.
It's like a torment that will not fucking end.
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Come on ..just say it..two things in life are always constant
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Posted:Jan 16, 2024 7:26 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2024 4:41 am 4801 Views
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Leo is always right..
And Leo is getting his...
Even if that means waiting an hour and a half for the walmart manager to test said battery..
After your boy told her
His machine said
It's bad...
And the mfer battery is under warranty.
Like omg Wal-Mart Karen manager..
Do you think think I'd rip out a 13 month old battery..in 6 degree weather..,wait an hr and change for you to waddle back..
Cause I'm working a hussle?
A 13 month battery with a 3 yr warrenty..
And yeah I'm hussling..
And you need to put my Wal-Mart battery on your tester..
I was 2 deep..so I walked around Wal-Mart for a plus hr...
Only to have Karen tell me..
Yeah my Wal-Mart battery was shit..
What part of me telling you I already put it on my device
Don't you get.,
What part of you of me..tired,cold,angry AF..
Don't you get..
In the end
Leo is always right..
And he's getting that w arrenty new battery.
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A few days in corporate hell
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Posted:Jan 13, 2024 7:10 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2024 7:12 pm 5509 Views
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So yeah the 15 plus team rolled in from st.louis and we had these all day meetings..
And yeah your boy.." stood out"..
Duh..
It seemed like every question I asked..
Was answered in the next slide..
I think maybe.,in an odd multi universe..
I could be " happy" as a
Corporate bitch..wonk
But your boy was
On point..
And smarter than the
Grandson of the owner
That now is 3rd in charge
And maybe that left an impression.
I don't know..or care,..
And maybe I am that guy.
I honestly wonder how far I could have rose as a
Corporate guy
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Would you be ashamed if someone found out your a bottom
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Posted:Jan 13, 2024 10:08 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2024 4:42 am 4824 Views
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I'm gonna tackle this from 3 seperate takes..
Cause " bottom" could mean just sexually,could mean bdsm or could be a put down..
1. As a man...would you be ashamed if people found out you bottomed sexually.
Which really has nothing to do with your sexual orientatiin..say your straight/ married but your wife luvs to strap it on.
2. As a person...would you be embarrassed if your bff knew you like to submit And say enjoyed being a dog
3. As a person..are you really a " bottom"..
Meaning in 2024..it's the equilavent of being a virgin,inexperienced..
Would you be embarrassed if someone called you out on this..like maybe as an adult you never..
Sucked a dick or whatever..
Or to put it in lifestyle terms...you label yourself a Dom/ slave but..yeah have never did ALOT outside the bedroom..
I call these people..".bunny floggers".
So would you be embarrassed if someone called you a bottom..
Or are you comfortable with that term
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Global warming😲😦😠 snowed in,minus butt fuck temps
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Posted:Jan 11, 2024 4:35 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2024 6:54 pm 4882 Views
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Sorry for the lack of posting..
My week went tuesday..4 to 6 inches of snow..
Wed.40
Thurs..more snow
Friday more snow
Sat.high of 2..low of -10
Sun..sorry if your at the chiefs game in person..omg..cold AF
Now some may say that isn't bad..in butt fuck where ever we get x,y,z
But yeah I have to work,drive, unload out in this shit..
Whatever happened to the polar bears melting
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